There are some people who ere just good during practice or some kind of a situation where their skills are not needed. A good example is a basketball player, there is a player who is just good in practice. He can shoot threes, he can run fast, he can outplay everyone but when the real game is there... he can't show his real skills, he was afraid, he was so conservative, he is not loose, he is playing safe.
People tends to change when fear is around, when there is a threat, they can't be themselves especially when stakes are high and there is a lot to lose.
If you want to become successful in life... you must do it when needed and not when not needed. Show them what you can do during pressure times. Don't be a like a cute puppy who is so afraid. Be loose, don't be afraid to make mistakes. Use very skills that you know and conquer the moment.
The key here is to be ready to embarrassed yourself, don't strive to become perfect. Let yourself free.
Free your mind from being afraid of failure. Don't be scared to fail because it is normal. Even if you don't fail now... you will still fail in the future so what is the big difference?
Do it because it is needed now, don't do it tomorrow, don't do it in the future. Don't ever think that you can still do it next time so you have the luxury to be scared now and do nothing.
Life is about expressing, you have to use your power and skills whenever you need to. Express yourself and do be afraid about what might happen next. Focus on doing your best now and let the next sequence happen by itself.
Never let the moment escape, devour it and make things happen. So what if you fail? so what if they laugh at you or get mad at you? it is your life, it is your duty to do what you can do.
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