Most people are just going with the flow because they don't have a stable idea. They just follow orders from other people, they join the activities of other people because they have no goals that they can use as a default if they don't love what is going on.
If your friends wants to go out and have fun and you don't have money to join them... you will still join them because you don't have a goal, you don't have a default that you can use to overwrite the thoughts that are running inside of your head at the moment. You will join them because you don't want to be outcast, you don't want to be left behind of what is going on with them. You don't want to be left off of the conversation once they talk about what happened during the outing. But if you have goal such as to be the number one on your class or to finish your studies with high honors... you will never mind being left behind. You will never mind if they are having fun and you're not. you will become happy working on your own and waiting for your goals to happen.
You will become happy if you have goals even if you're situation is not good because you are on your own journey, you are living your life and you have a direction. You know something better will happen for you in the future and you're so excited to be on that position.
Unlike someone who has no goal... he will just follow orders from others, he will follow what the majority does, he can't make a decision for himself, he is so lost and has no confidence in himself.
If you have a goal then you own your time, you can say no to any stupid activities or invitation. You don't mind being labeled as a weirdo because success is what matters to you. You don't care about what is going on with other people's lives because you are so focused on your own life and success.
So if you want to be saved, if you want to have full ownership of your life... pursue a goal and take it seriously. The right people will come to your life, right opportunities will be attracted to you and you don't need to be needy anymore. You will be happier and more satisfied of what is going on with your life.
Having a goal is like having an authority. You can say no to ugly offers, you can say no to people that doesn't serve you. You know what is best for you and you are going to do it every single day just to become successful.
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