You can have everything in this world. You can have the cars, businesses, money, houses but if you're not happy then you're still a loser. Well all work hard to get the things that we want that we think will give us happiness.
Most people's happiness nowadays are bases on material things. They think that once they have this or that then they will be forever happy in their lives. Some people have everything, they have the fame, money, romance but still there is a missing piece in their lives and they can't figure it out.
Happiness is just a state of mind. It is a thought, if you can force yourself to become happy then you're already successful, you don't need anything in life anymore. It's all about controlling the emotions, mastering yours state and reacting the right way.
If you can be just happy with your 50 bucks then you're a winner. Some people can't even become happy with thousand dollars on their wallet. They need more, they want more and if they can't get it... the freak out and whine like a loser. Their happiness is too shaky and easy to deteriorate.
It's hard to become happy with less but it is possible. It's a matter of training yourself to become appreciative of what you have.
You can become happier with the person with one million dollars. Just don't get jealous, don't compare yourself with others because you have your own life and journey and that's it. Just try to learn and grow everyday. If you can become progressive then your happiness will never end.
Some people hit the plateau and they don't know what to do with it. They can't find the growth anymore that is why they are acting like crazy. They started to become lazy, they started to do stupid things that only gives them short term pleasures.
Are you happier than the person with more money? are you happier that the person that is more popular? if you can honestly tell yourself that you are really happy then you're a winner in life.
Don't look at them, look at your own life. Stop looking at what they eat, wear or how much money they have. Look at your own life, appreciate what you have and try to make it grow everyday. It's just a matter of strengthening your mental toughness and having the skill to control your emotions. anyone can become truly happy if he stops looking outside of himself.
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