Most people want to look good, they invest on their looks, they think that if they look good then they will be forever happy. But looks is not permanent, it will go away once you're old. What if your looks go away? are you not happy anymore?
That is why there are lot of celebrities who cannot accept aging, they invest on plastic surgeries, they try to fight aging but in the end they still fail, no one is immune from aging, you will have wrinkles and your skin will become ugly too. But they can't accept it that is why they always feel bad.
If you will just focus on confidence and not looks then you will never feel insecure anymore. Even if you aged... if you are so confident on how you look then it is ok for you to have an ugly and aging skin. Your looks will never make you feel bad because you're confident on yourself.
Condition your mind that no matter how old you get you will still feel good about yourself. Accept that looks are not permanent and you can never control the power of aging.
Confidence can be build through hardwork and exercise. If you are passionate about something like yoga for example, you will become very confident with yourself. You will have a sexy body and that body will remain until you aged.
If you are exercising everyday then you will feel very good about yourself even though you're not that beautiful. You will feel that you're one of a kind because not everyone can do what you can do. There are lot of old women who are so beautiful despite of being old because they take care of themselves through exercise. They feel very confident because they have a beautiful body, they don't need plastic surgery, all they need is their work ethic.
You can become very confident thorough passion. Pick something and be very good at it, focus your energy on it. Something like business, arts, writing a book, establishing a business online etc. If you are so focused on something and you become successful at it... you will never care about your looks anymore, you will become very confident, you will be very happy with your life and insecurity will go away.
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