There are lot of things that are making you slow but you don't notice them because you are enjoying doing them. You think you're doing great and that everything is fine but the truth is your life is getting slower and slower, you can't find the progress and you are slowly getting frustrated, your happiness is getting a little shaky and you are looking for something that will make you feel better.
You should know what are the things that makes you slow and get rid of them as quick as a possible so you can achieve your goals and have a better life.
1. Thinking about what people will say. This will make you really slow, you will not be able to focus because you're not doing your work very well, instead your thinking about what might they say, you are getting conservative. You are not progressing because all of your actions were based on other people's opinions. You will become very slow because you will become scared of every movement that you're going to make.
2. Promising someone of something that you are not sure. You will worry because you will think about disappointing someone, you are scared that someone might get bad at you because you were not able to meet their expectations. Don't promise anyone about something that you're not sure you can fulfill, it's making someone feel bad and you will also feel bad. You will always think about that person and that alone can make you slow.
3. Procrastinating. This is self explanatory, you should be aware if you are procrastinating or not, that is the best way to beat procrastination. Stop stopping, stop doing things that are not important. Prioritize what needs to be done first and make sure you will finish the urgent task. If you want to become a fast mover or fast achiever... minimize procrastination and just do it, never believe in the word later because it will never happen.
4. Too much rest. Sometimes you think you are still tired but the truth is you just want to rest too much. You are making it a habit, you are making it a pleasure. Resting too much will eat a lot of your time, you think that everything is alright but you will panic later because you haven't done anything yet and there is only little rime remaining.
5. Arguing with someone that doesn't even matter. You will never win if you will argue with a moron who thinks that he is a better man. Focus on your actions and you don't need to argue anymore, focus all of your energies for things that matters and can make your life better. Never argue with someone who thinks that he knows everything, you will only feel bad, you will waste a lot of time, you will become very slow. You don't need to prove your worth to anyone. You don't need to prove that you are right if you are right. Just live your life and do what you do best. Focus on things that are meaning full that can put you on a better position.
6. Debts. It is hard to think if someone is always knocking on your door and asking for the payment. It's hard to become creative if you're always thinking about how to pay your debts. Debts will put you into a quicksand and you will feel like you can't escape from it anymore. You will think slowly, move slowly, your pace will be very slow to the point where you can't find a way anymore. Stop borrowing money from others if you want to have a fast pace and progressive life. Be disciplined enough to spend your money the right way.
7. Liabilities. It is different from debts, liabilities are even painful because you need to pay monthly. You will be in big trouble if you can't pay, banks will call at you and frighten you, they will give you threats that are really hard to ignore. They will psywar you and make you wanted to hide behind mountains or any place that they won't be able to see you. They will hunt you like a gazelle and you will never be able to focus on your own journey.
8. Getting too much excited. If you're too emotional then you will never be able to focus. Even if it is a positive excitement.. it is still bad because you will always think about it and you will never work like you usually do. Just like a kid who is waiting for his mom because of the promised toy if he wash the dishes. There is a tendency that the kid might not wash the dishes because of being too much excited for the toy. Control your excitement because it will make you perform at the lowest level.
9. Super interested with other people's lives. It will make you slow because you are more interested with other people's progress than your own. You love celebrities, stars, well known people, facebook celebrity, instagram phenom etc. It will make you slow because it is destroying your work ethic. It is eating a lot of your time. They are sucking your own energy that could have been used for your own good.
You need speed in execution in order to become successful, you don't need to move fast or be a freak savage with tremendous reflexes. You just need to manage your time very well and do what is needed to be done urgently. Speed kills, speed can make you successful if you can use it the right way.
Know the things that are making you slow and get rid of them right away. Put an X mark to things that are serving as an obstacle to your journey. You know what are they, they are the temporary pleasures that are tricking you, they are making you feel better at the moment but will make you feel bad in the end.
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