Facing a sarcastic person is really hard, sometimes you will get offended and it will make you feel really bad. It will ruin your day if you let it to, sarcasm is a good weapon to make someone feel bad, but what if you are the one who is the victim of a sarcasm at the moment?
1. LAUGH HARD. Fake a laugh, make sure it will sound like a powerful laugh, make the one who do the sarcastic move to you feel that you are not affected. Laugh hard and make him feel that you love what is going on, a sarcastic person knows if you are tripping or not, he knows if you are fighting back and I'm sure he is also affected with your laugh.
2. BE SARCASTIC TOO. You need to become sarcastic too to make your presence felt, it is a defense mechanism. He is the one who started it so you must offend him a little bit too, that way he will feel that you're no joke and you're ready to take the tension to another level. But it doesn't mean you will really fight like fist fight, you are just showing that you don't like the way he speak to you and you don't want to be treated like that.
3. IGNORE. This is the best way to destroy sarcasm, ignore it. Make him feel that you are not even affected for a bit. If you can't feel anything about it then it is powerless, just ignore and keep enjoying your life. Make him feel that you have a bulletproof mindset. Ignoring stupid things will make your life easier, just focus on what you want and never give attention to any sarcasm.
4. TREAT HIM COLD. It is either you answer him with lesser words, pretend that you are not paying attention or simply don't look at him. Treat him cold and make him feel that you don't like him, that way the sarcastic person will leave you alone or treat you better.
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