Saying I don't know is a smart move, it is making yourself free from interrogation. But only say it if you really don't know the answer or you don't want to talk to the person whom is asking you a question.
Just say I don't know if you don't want to answer, just say I don't know if you are uncomfortable with the question. There is nothing wrong with it.
Say I don't know if you really don't know the answer, don't pretend that you know something, stop trying to look smart because people will discover that you really don't know anything, you will only look dumber in the end.
Saying I don't know if you really don't know it means being real, it means being true and not hiding anything, you're not pretending, you are simply showing your true colors. Because if you really don't know it then why will you pretend that you know something? It will only make you look like a fool, people will discover that you're just lying.
WHY ARE PEOPLE PRETENDING THAT THEY KNOW THE ANSWER?
1. Just to join the conversation. They don't want to look outcast, they want to look like they are smart and they know something. They don't want to be left behind so they will pretend that they experience something. They can't stand not saying anything when their friends are talking. They always want to be involve in a conversation.
2. They think that people will like them if they know the answer. They always think that they have to know the answer so they will look like a hero. The will invent stories and lies just to look good and heroic.
3. So that they can get away with the mistake that they did. They want to cover up the mistake that they did. They will pretend that they know the solution. Sometimes acting like you know everything will only make the situation worse. It is better to admit that you don't know it so better solution will be applied. Admit it so the problem won't get any bigger and you can finally breathe without worries.
4. They want to impress people. They think that by lying and inventing stories will make
Saying I don't know when you really don't know it will set you free. All the worries and fear will go away. You don't need to pretend anymore and lie. If you say you don't know it then the problem is already solved, sometimes it will not totally be solved but at least you didn't make it worse.
Having the courage to admit that you don't know something is a great thing. It will make you look super real and genuine. People will like you because you are not forcing things and trying hard. People will see your honesty and sincerity. Admit that you don't know it and free yourself from any expectations and responsibilities.
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