THE GOAL IS TO ALWAYS FEEL FREE

The best goal is to always feel free, feel loose, achieve a freedom that you haven't experience before when you were young.

If you can feel free everyday then you're already successful. That's what most people want, they think that they are pursuing other goal but the truth is they are pursuing freedom.

For example, if you are planning to buy a car, you really don't want the car itself, part of you wants it but what you really want is behind the car. What do I mean by this? what you really want is freedom from commuting because you want to get more comfortable, you don't want to use public transportation anymore because you rather prefer driving by yourself, you don't want to experience the smoke from other vehicles, your private owned car will protect you from dirt. You also want to experience being free from falling in line in different stations, you don't want to wait anymore. You thought that having a car will make you free from discomfort. Some people will just buy a car because they though that it will make their social status higher, they want to be free from being called poor that is why they buy a car. So if you will think deeply, what you want more is freedom and not the car itself.

A young man is pursuing an MMA career because he was bullied in the past. He want to make revenge, he want to free himself from the thought that he may get bullied again. It only means that he really doesn't want to be a fighter, he only wants to be protected by learning the skills that he can learn from training MMA. It's the freedom that he really wants not the art of fighting.

So you if you are doing something, make sure that you are free. Make sure that you are enjoying freedom because that is what you really want. Freedom is what everyone needs.

Just like a man pursuing millions, he wanted to become rich so he will enjoy having a financial freedom. The truth is... you can still feel free even if you're not that rich. Just stay away from debts, be smart in spending your money, save more money and that's it... you're already free from  financial troubles. It's that easy, you are the only one complicating your life by thinking too much and making wrong decisions.

You don't need to have this or have that to become happy and feel successful. All you need to do is pursue freedom, do what will give you happiness and peace of mind and you're already successful. The pattern and process will be decided by you and only you, it is up to you how are you going to find it and build it. And once you find it, enjoy it, trust it and become confident with it.

If you are doing something, let's say you are dancing or painting or singing... the goal is not to impress people but to make yourself feel happy while doing it, and you will only attain it by choosing freedom, you need to feel loose and creative, you need to do it your way. Forget about what people say and express yourself honestly, be yourself no matter what... that is the only way to attain freedom.