Why are you still afraid to take another action? is there something left to lose? You're already tired, you're already in pain, you've seen the worst so there is nothing left to lose anymore. So what if you're tired? so what if you're in pain? you already felt it so it only means the next emotion in line is happiness. And you can only attain it by taking action.
There's nothing left to lose, don't be afraid to become tired even more because you already felt it, you will never be shocked with that feeling anymore. You are familiar with that uncomfortable feeling so there is nothing else to worry about.
You will have a second or even third wind if you keep pushing, your energy will never run out, you always have a reserve. So don't worry about your stamina or endurance... just keep pushing and you will find that energy to keep going.
Power through and go through the motions, you'r already in pain so you will never feel it anymore. Even if you can only move slow... still move, still make a small progress.
Oct 31, 2017
THE BEST THING ABOUT NOT PROVING YOURSELF
If you're not proving yourself then you will feel free, you will feel fast, you will feel invincible. It's a freedom that not everyone can experience. If you are not trying to prove yourself then you will not become shy anymore, you will just do it no matter what.
Competition will only make you worried and pressured. Sometimes you want to become stronger and better just to prove to people that you're better than them.
Stop proving yourself and just live your life, just do what you do best. It's not about being the rightest person, it's not about being the greatest. It's about being true to yourself and being yourself every second of the day without looking for someone to force you to take actions.
You will become more free, you will be able to express yourself even more if you're not proving yourself to anyone. You will have nothing to lose, you will be able to move faster, make decisions bolder and simply live our life the way you wanted to live it.
Because what is the point of proving yourself to someone you don't even like from the very beginning? what is the point of trying to impress someone who will not be even impressed at you even if you become so big? a hater will always be a hater no matter how big you become. If someone doesn't believe in you... you don't need to prove yourself to him because even if you are right... he will still find a way to bring you down, he will never become a fan of yours forever.
If you're not trying to prove yourself then you will never care if you will win or lose, and that's an absolute freedom in my own opinion. You will never fear losing, and by having that state of mind.. you will be able to perform better, you will express yourself without worrying if you are right or wrong.
You have to prove yourself to yourself only because that will make you push yourself even more. You have to challenge yourself to become the best version of yourself. Never care if they are pulling you down or not contributing to your success, because at the end of the day... it is you and only you who knows if you give your best or not.
Competition will only make you worried and pressured. Sometimes you want to become stronger and better just to prove to people that you're better than them.
Stop proving yourself and just live your life, just do what you do best. It's not about being the rightest person, it's not about being the greatest. It's about being true to yourself and being yourself every second of the day without looking for someone to force you to take actions.
You will become more free, you will be able to express yourself even more if you're not proving yourself to anyone. You will have nothing to lose, you will be able to move faster, make decisions bolder and simply live our life the way you wanted to live it.
Because what is the point of proving yourself to someone you don't even like from the very beginning? what is the point of trying to impress someone who will not be even impressed at you even if you become so big? a hater will always be a hater no matter how big you become. If someone doesn't believe in you... you don't need to prove yourself to him because even if you are right... he will still find a way to bring you down, he will never become a fan of yours forever.
If you're not trying to prove yourself then you will never care if you will win or lose, and that's an absolute freedom in my own opinion. You will never fear losing, and by having that state of mind.. you will be able to perform better, you will express yourself without worrying if you are right or wrong.
You have to prove yourself to yourself only because that will make you push yourself even more. You have to challenge yourself to become the best version of yourself. Never care if they are pulling you down or not contributing to your success, because at the end of the day... it is you and only you who knows if you give your best or not.
SOMETHING YOU HAVE THAT YOU ALMOST FORGOT
You almost forgot that you are free because of your fear. You have freedom, you can do what you want. You can be what you want to be.
Freedom is for everyone yet why a lot of people were not experiencing this great benefit? it is because they set their lives up for commitments that they don't want. They set their lives up for punishments that is now worth it. A great example is a man who commits robbery, he take his freedom for granted that is why he end up in jail. He wants the easy way out from poverty that is why he suffer even more. If he only use his freedom for greater things like working hard and being a better person then he should have a better life right now. He never use his freedom for the right things that is why he is in jail right now.
You are free to express your ideas, whatever ideas you have, whatever technique or process you can share to the world... you can express it. Even if you think that the world may not accept it or some will contradict it... still express it, still share it, you may never know it is the only thing that will give you a fortune or can make your dreams come true.
You can become anything you want if you will only use your freedom the right way. You are free to dream big and do something big. You can use any style you want for as long as it is positive and not hurting anyone.
A lot of people forgot that they are free to express themselves and become something they thought were not possible. All it takes is courage and having the tenacity to endure any critic that will be thrown at you.
Start now and do what you want, do impossible things, you are free to dream and do something big for your life. Always be expressive and assertive, there is nothing wrong if you will choose to chase what you think is possible.
No one can stop you, you are free, there is no chain that is stopping you from moving.
Freedom is for everyone yet why a lot of people were not experiencing this great benefit? it is because they set their lives up for commitments that they don't want. They set their lives up for punishments that is now worth it. A great example is a man who commits robbery, he take his freedom for granted that is why he end up in jail. He wants the easy way out from poverty that is why he suffer even more. If he only use his freedom for greater things like working hard and being a better person then he should have a better life right now. He never use his freedom for the right things that is why he is in jail right now.
You are free to express your ideas, whatever ideas you have, whatever technique or process you can share to the world... you can express it. Even if you think that the world may not accept it or some will contradict it... still express it, still share it, you may never know it is the only thing that will give you a fortune or can make your dreams come true.
You can become anything you want if you will only use your freedom the right way. You are free to dream big and do something big. You can use any style you want for as long as it is positive and not hurting anyone.
A lot of people forgot that they are free to express themselves and become something they thought were not possible. All it takes is courage and having the tenacity to endure any critic that will be thrown at you.
Start now and do what you want, do impossible things, you are free to dream and do something big for your life. Always be expressive and assertive, there is nothing wrong if you will choose to chase what you think is possible.
No one can stop you, you are free, there is no chain that is stopping you from moving.
MAKE PEACE WITH THE IMPOSSIBLE AND SOMETHING WILL BECOME POSSIBLE
I know that everything is possible but there are also some things that you cannot change. For example if you're born with no legs... I know that you want to have legs but it is impossible to grow your legs and walk again, you're not a lizard that can regrow its tail once cut. Make peace with the impossible and something will become possible. If you can accept that you can't have legs anymore, I mean true and real legs made in flesh, if you can only accept that then you will find a way to walk. You will look for artificial legs and train yourself to walk like other people.
If you can make peace with the impossible then something will become possible. If you're too old, let's say you're at late 40s and you're still dreaming to become a basketball player. Of course that's too impossible to do because you already have weak bones, you cannot jump high anymore and you're too slow to compete with other athletes. Accept that you cannot get that dream anymore, if you let go of that dream... another dream will become possible. You may get a coaching job or pursue another dream like business or music. It's not the end of the world if your dream was shattered. One door closes and another will open so don't worry about it.
If you're trying to become a millionaire and it has been years and decades and you still can't become one... accept that it is impossible. Accept that you can't get it and you will see that you will have an easier time. You will become free, you will think that you have nothing to lose, you will try some other things that may work. That freedom will give you a higher chance to become a millionaire. It is like releasing the pressure, it is like giving up but still trying some other things. Once you remove the resistance... the journey will become easier. Make peace with the impossible and something will become possible.
It becomes harder because you are getting hard on yourself, you are putting so much pressure on yourself that you almost forgot how to play with life and try some other things that may work. Accept that you can't get it and you will get something else.
If you can make peace with the impossible then something will become possible. If you're too old, let's say you're at late 40s and you're still dreaming to become a basketball player. Of course that's too impossible to do because you already have weak bones, you cannot jump high anymore and you're too slow to compete with other athletes. Accept that you cannot get that dream anymore, if you let go of that dream... another dream will become possible. You may get a coaching job or pursue another dream like business or music. It's not the end of the world if your dream was shattered. One door closes and another will open so don't worry about it.
If you're trying to become a millionaire and it has been years and decades and you still can't become one... accept that it is impossible. Accept that you can't get it and you will see that you will have an easier time. You will become free, you will think that you have nothing to lose, you will try some other things that may work. That freedom will give you a higher chance to become a millionaire. It is like releasing the pressure, it is like giving up but still trying some other things. Once you remove the resistance... the journey will become easier. Make peace with the impossible and something will become possible.
It becomes harder because you are getting hard on yourself, you are putting so much pressure on yourself that you almost forgot how to play with life and try some other things that may work. Accept that you can't get it and you will get something else.
LOOKING FOR SOMETHING IS THE MOST ENJOYABLE THING TO DO
What most people don't know is that looking for something is the most enjoyable thing to do, it is a combination of fear, excitement, frustration, impatience and in the end... success. You will only become successful if you keep looking so keep looking. It may take a long time but it is fun if you will condition your mind that it is fun.
People are worried about finding something, they are always thinking what if they can't find it? what if they get lost? what if they fail?
For example in parking, if the parking space is crowded already... most people will be in a state of panic, they will rush, they will get impatient. The question is... when were you weren't able to park your car? There is always a parking space for you so you don't have to worry, sometimes it will take longer for you to see it, sometimes you have to wait but the good news is... it is impossible that you were not able to park your car. You just need to trust the process, you need to work for it and you will get it. Don't ever think that you're unlucky and some people are because they can easily find a parking space for them. They were just lucky that day, they also experience having a hard time parking in the past.
If you are looking for money... just enjoy it, enjoy looking for it because you will find it. It's just a matter of how long or how hard. But for sure you will find it. Enjoy it because it will make the process easier, it will make your mind free from worries and stress.
Because the real fun is in looking, once you become successful the fun ends there, you will look for another goal, you will look for another journey that will make your life difficult.
If you are lost, just keep looking. It is the game of life. You need to search and work hard because nothing will be given to you easily, you really need to work hard for it.
Always have fun looking for something, trust me you will get it in the right time but for the mean time... enjoy.
People are worried about finding something, they are always thinking what if they can't find it? what if they get lost? what if they fail?
For example in parking, if the parking space is crowded already... most people will be in a state of panic, they will rush, they will get impatient. The question is... when were you weren't able to park your car? There is always a parking space for you so you don't have to worry, sometimes it will take longer for you to see it, sometimes you have to wait but the good news is... it is impossible that you were not able to park your car. You just need to trust the process, you need to work for it and you will get it. Don't ever think that you're unlucky and some people are because they can easily find a parking space for them. They were just lucky that day, they also experience having a hard time parking in the past.
If you are looking for money... just enjoy it, enjoy looking for it because you will find it. It's just a matter of how long or how hard. But for sure you will find it. Enjoy it because it will make the process easier, it will make your mind free from worries and stress.
Because the real fun is in looking, once you become successful the fun ends there, you will look for another goal, you will look for another journey that will make your life difficult.
If you are lost, just keep looking. It is the game of life. You need to search and work hard because nothing will be given to you easily, you really need to work hard for it.
Always have fun looking for something, trust me you will get it in the right time but for the mean time... enjoy.
SUCCESS IS A SERIOUS BUSINES
Don't play around if you want to become successful. Success is a serious business, you can't make a joke out of it, you can't take it lightly... you should go all out if you want to win.
You should give your life for it and never ever hold back. Once you think about something to improve your journey... do it.
You can't be clowning around and expecting to become lucky. Consistency is the key here. Don't work yesterday and rest today, you are just wasting your time.
You need to become very serious, you need to stop a lot of useless activities to make success come to you faster than expected.
Don't live in a fantasy that one day a genie will come into your life and you can ask for three wishes. That shitty story was buried a long time ago. You can't afford to become lazy if you want to become successful, it's a serious business, it's a suicide.
That's why there are more failures than successful people. It's easier to become a failure, it requires no effort, you will just sleep for long hours and you're already a failure. You will just bum around and you will fail epicly, too easy, no need to sweat or think.
Success is very different, you need to cut your sleep, you need to face the pain and keep moving anyway, it's a serious business... very very serious business. You have to face a lot of critics, you need to challenge yourself, you need to forget everything that is slowing you down, even your useless friends. You need to cut all the bullshits and make yourself a totally different person.
Because if you will not take it seriously.... forget about it.
You should give your life for it and never ever hold back. Once you think about something to improve your journey... do it.
You can't be clowning around and expecting to become lucky. Consistency is the key here. Don't work yesterday and rest today, you are just wasting your time.
You need to become very serious, you need to stop a lot of useless activities to make success come to you faster than expected.
Don't live in a fantasy that one day a genie will come into your life and you can ask for three wishes. That shitty story was buried a long time ago. You can't afford to become lazy if you want to become successful, it's a serious business, it's a suicide.
That's why there are more failures than successful people. It's easier to become a failure, it requires no effort, you will just sleep for long hours and you're already a failure. You will just bum around and you will fail epicly, too easy, no need to sweat or think.
Success is very different, you need to cut your sleep, you need to face the pain and keep moving anyway, it's a serious business... very very serious business. You have to face a lot of critics, you need to challenge yourself, you need to forget everything that is slowing you down, even your useless friends. You need to cut all the bullshits and make yourself a totally different person.
Because if you will not take it seriously.... forget about it.
YOUR NUMBERS WILL ALWAYS GO UP
No matter what happens... your numbers will still go up. It may go down, you may go back to zero but if you are serious in making it bigger... it will become bigger.
For example in making your social media followers grow... sometimes you need to unfriend or unfollow someone for important reasons or just simply following the rules in social media, of course your number of followers will go down, some people will unfollow you too. It is what it is, your numbers will go down but it will go up again if you keep on following other people too.
Just like in saving your money, if you're on a roll and your money in the bank keeps adding up and adding up... sometimes bad things will happen and you need to spend some of your saved money. Your money will go down again which is a sad thing. But don't worry because you can still replace what is lost. If you will start saving money again and work harder next time... your numbers will go higher again, you can even break your personal record.
Your numbers will always go up if you want it too. Sometimes the road is rocky and your numbers will go down but keep working because it will go up again.
Life is like that, not everytime you're on top, not every time you are making it big. Sometimes you just need to weather the storm and wait until great things come again, but of course you need to work hard while waiting.
Keep in mind that at the end of the day... your numbers will still go up, it will keep on rising if you will never stop working.
Always put your mind on the side of positivity and growth. Always remember that it is normal for your numbers to go down, it is not a big deal. Whatever happens... always think that your numbers will go up no matter what, that is the key to make your numbers bigger than ever.
Always put your mind on the side of positivity and growth. Always remember that it is normal for your numbers to go down, it is not a big deal. Whatever happens... always think that your numbers will go up no matter what, that is the key to make your numbers bigger than ever.
LIST WHAT YOU'RE NOT GOING TO DO
If you can't force change because you're too lazy. If you can't strike out all the list in your TO-DO-LIST because you're too lazy and you can't even get started with the first task... why not try something different? why not list the things that you're not going to do and not do it?
For example:
1. I'm not going to watch TV.
2. I'm not going to think about negative things
3. I'm not going to procrastinate.
4. I'm not going to open my social media accounts today
5. I'm not going to stop until I become successful.
6. I will not gossip
7. I will not eat junk foods.
Try it, just for fun and see if it will give you results. Because you've been listing a lot of things that you wanted to do but you're not even doing it. You've been fooling yourself for a very long time. Why not list the things that you will not do and see if it will give you a different result?
It's time to reverse psychology, it's time to try a different approach because you've been failing over and over again for a very long time because of your old technique that doesn't even work.
List what you're not going to do and really don't do it. It is easy because you will not exert an effort.
For example:
1. I'm not going to watch TV.
2. I'm not going to think about negative things
3. I'm not going to procrastinate.
4. I'm not going to open my social media accounts today
5. I'm not going to stop until I become successful.
6. I will not gossip
7. I will not eat junk foods.
Try it, just for fun and see if it will give you results. Because you've been listing a lot of things that you wanted to do but you're not even doing it. You've been fooling yourself for a very long time. Why not list the things that you will not do and see if it will give you a different result?
It's time to reverse psychology, it's time to try a different approach because you've been failing over and over again for a very long time because of your old technique that doesn't even work.
List what you're not going to do and really don't do it. It is easy because you will not exert an effort.
IT'S A DIFFERENT STORY
Chasing an impossible goal is a different story, it is not something that is common. You may think that you will just work hard and that's it. No no no no, it's not all about working hard, sometimes you need to die for it. If you will chase success, you need to come up with a different story. It's a different level, it's a serious business. You think that you need to just work for more than 12 hours a day and that's it? No, it's more than that. You need to do something you haven't done before, you need to produce an effort that you haven't produce before.
Chasing success is not just an ordinary story that you hear from other people, it's s very different story. It's full of dramas, pain and sacrifice. It's not an ordinary story that you see from common movies, it's not something like you will just suffer in the beginning then you will become successful in the end. Sometimes you will even feel like you're suffering forever and yet you haven't tasted any success yet. Sometimes you will even think that is the pain gonna last forever?
If you will build your own empire, you need to decide if you will really do it because it is really hard. It's full of frustrations and disappointments. It's a different story, it is another level. Not all people can see it because not all of them want to try it.
Chasing success is not just an ordinary story that you hear from other people, it's s very different story. It's full of dramas, pain and sacrifice. It's not an ordinary story that you see from common movies, it's not something like you will just suffer in the beginning then you will become successful in the end. Sometimes you will even feel like you're suffering forever and yet you haven't tasted any success yet. Sometimes you will even think that is the pain gonna last forever?
If you will build your own empire, you need to decide if you will really do it because it is really hard. It's full of frustrations and disappointments. It's a different story, it is another level. Not all people can see it because not all of them want to try it.
Oct 30, 2017
DO SOMETHING THAT MAKES YOU FEEL SO ALIVE
Do something that makes you feel alive, that is how to become fully alive. Some people are just living, they are just breathing but they don't know how to feel alive. They are completely lost, they don't know what to do with themselves anymore.
HOW WILL YOU ACHIEVE IT? By doing what excites you, by doing what scares you, by pushing yourself mentally and physically. Pursue an impossible goal and give your life to get it. Fail a lot of times, hurt you self a lot of times. Keep pushing and grinding, know your limits and try to extend it.
If you want to feel alive, you must feel the rush, you must feel the excitement and fear, you must go to the unknown and trust it.
I know you are feeling dead right now, it is simply because you are not pushing yourself, you don't know how good you are and how good you can be. It is your mission to become the best version of yourself. Stop thinking and just start moving, never stop taking actions, take massive actions and wait what kind of reward will come into your life.
Leave your comfort zone because that is the most boring place where you can stay. Start creating your own boat and sail to the most dangerous places but will give you what you want.
Life is so short to feel dead. You think you are alright for the moment because everything is still alright, because you think you still have a lot of time. But wait until you grow old and you will feel a lot of regrets because you never try to get what you are dreaming of.
Forget about everything else, just do what your heart tells you to do. Don't be afraid to get hurt because you're already hurting yourself by holding yourself back.
HOW WILL YOU ACHIEVE IT? By doing what excites you, by doing what scares you, by pushing yourself mentally and physically. Pursue an impossible goal and give your life to get it. Fail a lot of times, hurt you self a lot of times. Keep pushing and grinding, know your limits and try to extend it.
If you want to feel alive, you must feel the rush, you must feel the excitement and fear, you must go to the unknown and trust it.
I know you are feeling dead right now, it is simply because you are not pushing yourself, you don't know how good you are and how good you can be. It is your mission to become the best version of yourself. Stop thinking and just start moving, never stop taking actions, take massive actions and wait what kind of reward will come into your life.
Leave your comfort zone because that is the most boring place where you can stay. Start creating your own boat and sail to the most dangerous places but will give you what you want.
Life is so short to feel dead. You think you are alright for the moment because everything is still alright, because you think you still have a lot of time. But wait until you grow old and you will feel a lot of regrets because you never try to get what you are dreaming of.
Forget about everything else, just do what your heart tells you to do. Don't be afraid to get hurt because you're already hurting yourself by holding yourself back.
REPETITION CAN ALWAYS REPLACE WHAT IS MISSING
If you will wash your dirty hands and you found out that there is no soap available... are you going to make it a big deal or are you going to adapt and improvise? You can still make your hands clean even if there is no soap, just repeat washing it with water over and over again. It may not be as clean as with soap but at least you still manage to clean it.
If you want your muscles to grow but you don't have the equipment to do it, you can't even afford the cheapest steroids in the hood, what will you do? do it manually... just do a set of push ups everyday. Never stop until you become a monster, never stop until someone ask you to join the Mr. Universe or any body building contest. Repetition will save you, repetition will make your muscles grow. The best thing about it is... it is healthy and you will really feel the pain, you will become very proud of yourself. The results may not come fast but you will still get it. Repetition will save your day, it will replace what is missing. There is no reason to make excuses because you can always do something.
If you're not smart and let's say you are a slow learner. Don't worry you can still graduate in college and find a decent job. Just repeat studying your lessons over and over again. It is what it is, you have to do it the hard way. You need to outwork everyone if you want to become successful. Intelligence can be replaced by hard work. You can still learn something by the power of repetition. And the good thing about it is your mind will be trained to process information fast, you will no longer be a slow learner because repetition has made you a better person. Repetition has made your mind faster and sharper.
People are making a lot of excuses, they say they don't have this or don't have that. Actually, you don't need anything to become successful. All you have to do is enjoy repeating something and for sure you will get results.
If you want your muscles to grow but you don't have the equipment to do it, you can't even afford the cheapest steroids in the hood, what will you do? do it manually... just do a set of push ups everyday. Never stop until you become a monster, never stop until someone ask you to join the Mr. Universe or any body building contest. Repetition will save you, repetition will make your muscles grow. The best thing about it is... it is healthy and you will really feel the pain, you will become very proud of yourself. The results may not come fast but you will still get it. Repetition will save your day, it will replace what is missing. There is no reason to make excuses because you can always do something.
If you're not smart and let's say you are a slow learner. Don't worry you can still graduate in college and find a decent job. Just repeat studying your lessons over and over again. It is what it is, you have to do it the hard way. You need to outwork everyone if you want to become successful. Intelligence can be replaced by hard work. You can still learn something by the power of repetition. And the good thing about it is your mind will be trained to process information fast, you will no longer be a slow learner because repetition has made you a better person. Repetition has made your mind faster and sharper.
People are making a lot of excuses, they say they don't have this or don't have that. Actually, you don't need anything to become successful. All you have to do is enjoy repeating something and for sure you will get results.
YOU DON'T LIKE IT THAT IS WHY YOU'RE ANGRY
You don't need to be angry all the time, anger will make your life miserable. It will turn you into a failure, it will destroy your day.
It will destroy your strategy, it will give you a hard time thinking clearly and do what is suppose to be done.
The reason why you're angry is because you don't like it. If you will just become appreciative of everything then your anger will be lessen.
You don't like the shoes that your father bought you that's why you're angry. You don't like the handwriting of your secretary that's why you're angry. You don't like the loud music of your neighbor that's why you're angry. You don't love the joke of your co-employee that's why you're angry.
Those are just little things, it's so sad that you are letting small things that doesn't even matter disturb you or affect you.
You don't like the comments about your work in social media that's why you're angry. Your favorite team in basketball lost that's why you're angry.
The truth is... your anger was created by you, your can't appreciate what is going on, you easily get affected by petty things that will not even contribute to your success.
It will destroy your strategy, it will give you a hard time thinking clearly and do what is suppose to be done.
The reason why you're angry is because you don't like it. If you will just become appreciative of everything then your anger will be lessen.
You don't like the shoes that your father bought you that's why you're angry. You don't like the handwriting of your secretary that's why you're angry. You don't like the loud music of your neighbor that's why you're angry. You don't love the joke of your co-employee that's why you're angry.
Those are just little things, it's so sad that you are letting small things that doesn't even matter disturb you or affect you.
You don't like the comments about your work in social media that's why you're angry. Your favorite team in basketball lost that's why you're angry.
The truth is... your anger was created by you, your can't appreciate what is going on, you easily get affected by petty things that will not even contribute to your success.
THE WORLD IS UNFAIR DEAL WITH IT
Don't ever make dramas and shits if someone treats you unfairly. If you feel that your boss promoted someone who can't even spell his own name and you're overlooked... just deal with it, it's life. Life is unfair and sometimes even if you deserve something... you will still not get it. It is what it is, if you will cry about it and make dramas... you will never become successful.
If life is fair then there will be lesser dramas in the world, but the problem is it's not. The world is unfair so all you can do is be stronger, be more patient, work hard even more because your time will come. Just keep grinding because one day... life will be fair to you.
There is a favoritism and there is a less favorite, if you're on the less favorite side... you have to work extra hard because that's the only thing you can do to thrive. If you will always complain then you are just wasting your energy. Accept the fact that there is nothing you can do about it even if you cry the whole day bleeding for your situation.
You have to move on fast, if you've been rejected, overlooked, bullied or disrespected... you have to move on fast and forget the past. You have to become tougher or else people will push you around.
Because it's the reality... the world is unfair, deal with it. Even if you're the best sometimes you will still not win, sometimes you will still not get picked. There is nothing wrong with that, don't think that you've been cheated because just like what I said... the world is unfair.
But it doesn't mean that you don't need to give your best anymore, you still have to because if not then your chances of winning will disappear.
You still need to give your very best every single day because one day you will be treated fairly. The world may be unfair but you will still get what you deserve.
If life is fair then there will be lesser dramas in the world, but the problem is it's not. The world is unfair so all you can do is be stronger, be more patient, work hard even more because your time will come. Just keep grinding because one day... life will be fair to you.
There is a favoritism and there is a less favorite, if you're on the less favorite side... you have to work extra hard because that's the only thing you can do to thrive. If you will always complain then you are just wasting your energy. Accept the fact that there is nothing you can do about it even if you cry the whole day bleeding for your situation.
You have to move on fast, if you've been rejected, overlooked, bullied or disrespected... you have to move on fast and forget the past. You have to become tougher or else people will push you around.
Because it's the reality... the world is unfair, deal with it. Even if you're the best sometimes you will still not win, sometimes you will still not get picked. There is nothing wrong with that, don't think that you've been cheated because just like what I said... the world is unfair.
But it doesn't mean that you don't need to give your best anymore, you still have to because if not then your chances of winning will disappear.
You still need to give your very best every single day because one day you will be treated fairly. The world may be unfair but you will still get what you deserve.
HOW A REAL WINNER SHOULD THINK
How a real winner should think? it's very simple... he should not think about LOSING.
A real winner has a bullet proof mindset, he never get discourage even if things are not going on his way. He only thinks about taking the next positive step. He never let negative thoughts ruin his day or journey.
He just keep taking actions until he is done. A real winner is not a complex thinker, he makes things simple, he just make a basic plan and execute right away. He never complicate things, he is always on the move and so excited for the next step that he will do. He take it one step at a time, he is not rushing but he is pushing himself to take massive actions.
A real winner is so calm and confident, he knew that even if he is not winning now... there is no need to panic because he believes that he can win again tomorrow. He is so poised and unshakable.
A real winner is always thinking about being successful, he is good in visualizing things. He visualize his success, his vision is very clear and bold.
A real winner has a bullet proof mindset, he never get discourage even if things are not going on his way. He only thinks about taking the next positive step. He never let negative thoughts ruin his day or journey.
He just keep taking actions until he is done. A real winner is not a complex thinker, he makes things simple, he just make a basic plan and execute right away. He never complicate things, he is always on the move and so excited for the next step that he will do. He take it one step at a time, he is not rushing but he is pushing himself to take massive actions.
A real winner is so calm and confident, he knew that even if he is not winning now... there is no need to panic because he believes that he can win again tomorrow. He is so poised and unshakable.
A real winner is always thinking about being successful, he is good in visualizing things. He visualize his success, his vision is very clear and bold.
4 WAYS ON HOW TO DESTROY SARCASM
Facing a sarcastic person is really hard, sometimes you will get offended and it will make you feel really bad. It will ruin your day if you let it to, sarcasm is a good weapon to make someone feel bad, but what if you are the one who is the victim of a sarcasm at the moment?
1. LAUGH HARD. Fake a laugh, make sure it will sound like a powerful laugh, make the one who do the sarcastic move to you feel that you are not affected. Laugh hard and make him feel that you love what is going on, a sarcastic person knows if you are tripping or not, he knows if you are fighting back and I'm sure he is also affected with your laugh.
2. BE SARCASTIC TOO. You need to become sarcastic too to make your presence felt, it is a defense mechanism. He is the one who started it so you must offend him a little bit too, that way he will feel that you're no joke and you're ready to take the tension to another level. But it doesn't mean you will really fight like fist fight, you are just showing that you don't like the way he speak to you and you don't want to be treated like that.
3. IGNORE. This is the best way to destroy sarcasm, ignore it. Make him feel that you are not even affected for a bit. If you can't feel anything about it then it is powerless, just ignore and keep enjoying your life. Make him feel that you have a bulletproof mindset. Ignoring stupid things will make your life easier, just focus on what you want and never give attention to any sarcasm.
4. TREAT HIM COLD. It is either you answer him with lesser words, pretend that you are not paying attention or simply don't look at him. Treat him cold and make him feel that you don't like him, that way the sarcastic person will leave you alone or treat you better.
1. LAUGH HARD. Fake a laugh, make sure it will sound like a powerful laugh, make the one who do the sarcastic move to you feel that you are not affected. Laugh hard and make him feel that you love what is going on, a sarcastic person knows if you are tripping or not, he knows if you are fighting back and I'm sure he is also affected with your laugh.
2. BE SARCASTIC TOO. You need to become sarcastic too to make your presence felt, it is a defense mechanism. He is the one who started it so you must offend him a little bit too, that way he will feel that you're no joke and you're ready to take the tension to another level. But it doesn't mean you will really fight like fist fight, you are just showing that you don't like the way he speak to you and you don't want to be treated like that.
3. IGNORE. This is the best way to destroy sarcasm, ignore it. Make him feel that you are not even affected for a bit. If you can't feel anything about it then it is powerless, just ignore and keep enjoying your life. Make him feel that you have a bulletproof mindset. Ignoring stupid things will make your life easier, just focus on what you want and never give attention to any sarcasm.
4. TREAT HIM COLD. It is either you answer him with lesser words, pretend that you are not paying attention or simply don't look at him. Treat him cold and make him feel that you don't like him, that way the sarcastic person will leave you alone or treat you better.
Oct 29, 2017
NOT BEING BROKE IS ALREADY A SUCCESS
I don't know why a lot of people is making the word success too complicated. Success is very simple, success is just having freedom, having less stress and having full control of your life. If no one can force you to work, if you feel good, if you have financial freedom then you're already successful.
The big houses, the dream cars etc. these are all icing in the cake. You can become successful without those flashy things. You will define your own success, you will give meaning to it. If you can make it simpler then life will become easier for you.
Just be debt free, feed your family and have all the basic needs. If you are progressing everyday then you're already successful. That's why SERIOUS entrepreneurs were already successful, they are their own boss, they hold their time and they can become very creative in their journey. They can do what they want and they are in full control of their lives.
But that doesn't mean that if you're just an employee then you're not successful. If you're really happy with your career and it's not stressing you too much and you love what you're doing then you're already successful too. Success cannot be measured by how much money you are earning, if you are not complaining with your job, if you are really satisfied with it then you're successful.
Just do good, progress everyday and find the growth in your work. Handle your financial obligations very well, don't do stupid things and you're already successful. Just be consistent and take your work or business seriously. You don't need to have a lot to become successful. Just handle your business properly, take care of your health, do what is needed and you're already successful. Simplicity is the name of the game, the more you make success simple the more you will become successful.
The big houses, the dream cars etc. these are all icing in the cake. You can become successful without those flashy things. You will define your own success, you will give meaning to it. If you can make it simpler then life will become easier for you.
Just be debt free, feed your family and have all the basic needs. If you are progressing everyday then you're already successful. That's why SERIOUS entrepreneurs were already successful, they are their own boss, they hold their time and they can become very creative in their journey. They can do what they want and they are in full control of their lives.
But that doesn't mean that if you're just an employee then you're not successful. If you're really happy with your career and it's not stressing you too much and you love what you're doing then you're already successful too. Success cannot be measured by how much money you are earning, if you are not complaining with your job, if you are really satisfied with it then you're successful.
Just do good, progress everyday and find the growth in your work. Handle your financial obligations very well, don't do stupid things and you're already successful. Just be consistent and take your work or business seriously. You don't need to have a lot to become successful. Just handle your business properly, take care of your health, do what is needed and you're already successful. Simplicity is the name of the game, the more you make success simple the more you will become successful.
HOW TO ALWAYS THINK POSITIVELY
If you want to always think positively which is hard to do... you must focus on your own life. You must focus on your growth, you must focus on your progress and goals. That will keep you away from thinking negatively.
Because if you will think about other people's lives... you will only get jealous, you will see the flaws of other people, you will see their mistakes, you will feel perfect, you will start to compare which is a very bad habit. You will criticize people and think that you are better than them. You may not admit it but it's the reality.
But if you will only focus on your own life... you will see your weaknesses and know how are you going to correct it. You will see your bad attitude, you will admit that you have a lot of improvement that needs to be done. Focusing on your own life is the best way to live your life. It doesn't mean that you need to isolate yourself, you just need to think about your life more than thinking about other people's lives.
You will not care anymore about what is going to happen next if you will focus on your own life, you just want to become better than yesterday. You will not see your neighbor doing rude things in the neighborhood, you will not see other people destroying their own lives, you will not see the bad news that only strengthen your negative thinking, you will only see your life and the lives of people that matters to you.
You will only think positive things if you are focus on your own life because you will not care if other people are doing bad things. Your thoughts were focused on positivity and success, you will not care anymore if other people are doing their responsibility or not.
Oct 28, 2017
CREATION WILL NEVER END
You can always create something new, people can always creating something new. So don't be afraid if you work super hard yesterday and you feel like you can't create something new today anymore.
Creation never stops if you have the willingness to create, it is not the ideas that matter, it is your willingness to create or not. Because if you really wanted to build something then you can build it. It doesn't matter if it is repetitive or not, what matters is you still build it and you feel good about it.
Arts will never end, new buildings will always come out, new talents will grow, new jobs will open, new business will be invented, new products will come out. There is always something new, someone will always create something.
So don't be afraid that you've already given your all yesterday and you can't create something new today. You can always create if you wanted to create. You can come up with new ideas, you can come up with new process or technique. You can always invent something new, all you have to do is trust yourself and really work hard.
Don't be afraid to go all out today, don't be afraid to use all of your skills. You can always thrive again tomorrow. Greatness never stops, keep this in your mind.
If you are so tired today because you feel like you've already given everything you've got yesterday... all you need to do is start, all you need to do is take the first step and there you go again... creating something new again.
The first step is the most difficult because you are always hesitating. But once you already take the first step... it's showtime again baby, you're back in your dominant form again. You will be able to finish something again, how good was that?
Always remember that creation will never end, it is always in your hands if you want to do something or not. Ideas will come out once you start, once you have that momentum... you can become successful over and over again.
Creation never stops if you have the willingness to create, it is not the ideas that matter, it is your willingness to create or not. Because if you really wanted to build something then you can build it. It doesn't matter if it is repetitive or not, what matters is you still build it and you feel good about it.
Arts will never end, new buildings will always come out, new talents will grow, new jobs will open, new business will be invented, new products will come out. There is always something new, someone will always create something.
So don't be afraid that you've already given your all yesterday and you can't create something new today. You can always create if you wanted to create. You can come up with new ideas, you can come up with new process or technique. You can always invent something new, all you have to do is trust yourself and really work hard.
Don't be afraid to go all out today, don't be afraid to use all of your skills. You can always thrive again tomorrow. Greatness never stops, keep this in your mind.
If you are so tired today because you feel like you've already given everything you've got yesterday... all you need to do is start, all you need to do is take the first step and there you go again... creating something new again.
The first step is the most difficult because you are always hesitating. But once you already take the first step... it's showtime again baby, you're back in your dominant form again. You will be able to finish something again, how good was that?
Always remember that creation will never end, it is always in your hands if you want to do something or not. Ideas will come out once you start, once you have that momentum... you can become successful over and over again.
HOW TO CREATE YOUR OWN BUSINESS?
1. Look for what you want. Find your passion, find something that will make you feel alive, something that you think you can do forever and become very good at it. Take your skills to a level where people can't ignore it. Become the best at it, show them something they've never seen before. You must really love what you're doing or else you will quit in the very beginning when hard times strikes you.
2. Find a way how to monetize that skill. This is the fun part and most challenging one... find a way how to monetize your skill. There are lot of ways, you can build a product out of it, you can set up a website or you tube account then study how to monetize it. You can use ads, you can use other business to partner with you. You can't be just doing something without earning.
3. Persevere. Tough times never last, you can outlast the tough times. Of course there will be times when you wanted to stop, there will be times when you wanted to do something else and take the safest route but if you really wanted to build your own business... you have to persevere, you have to outlast the problems and challenges in your business.
4. Focus on the growth. It's a good thing to think abut money but money alone will not save your business. You have to feel the progress everyday, you have to feel happy doing it or else you will quit in just a matter of time. Focus on the growth, even if the growth is too little.. appreciate it and repeat it over and over again. Time is very fast, if you are growing little by little everyday then you will become successful one day.
5. Be consistent. Your business should always be open everyday, you must responsive when someone is contacting you. If you can open during holidays then much better. Consistency is very underestimated nowadays, people don't see its value but if you will practice it.. you will be surprised at how big you already become.
2. Find a way how to monetize that skill. This is the fun part and most challenging one... find a way how to monetize your skill. There are lot of ways, you can build a product out of it, you can set up a website or you tube account then study how to monetize it. You can use ads, you can use other business to partner with you. You can't be just doing something without earning.
3. Persevere. Tough times never last, you can outlast the tough times. Of course there will be times when you wanted to stop, there will be times when you wanted to do something else and take the safest route but if you really wanted to build your own business... you have to persevere, you have to outlast the problems and challenges in your business.
4. Focus on the growth. It's a good thing to think abut money but money alone will not save your business. You have to feel the progress everyday, you have to feel happy doing it or else you will quit in just a matter of time. Focus on the growth, even if the growth is too little.. appreciate it and repeat it over and over again. Time is very fast, if you are growing little by little everyday then you will become successful one day.
5. Be consistent. Your business should always be open everyday, you must responsive when someone is contacting you. If you can open during holidays then much better. Consistency is very underestimated nowadays, people don't see its value but if you will practice it.. you will be surprised at how big you already become.
DO YOU THINK YOU DESERVE TO ASK FOR SOMETHING?
Do you think you really deserve to ask for something bigger than what you have? with all the honesty in the world, answer yourself sincerely... do you really deserve to have something better? Did you really work hard? did you really grind and endure sleepless nights to become successful? if you can answer yes without feeling guilty then good for you.
If you are asking for big things make sure you are deserving to get it. Some people will ask for big houses, cars, big money but all they do is dream about it, they never act, they never kill themselves to get what they want.
You will only have the right to ask for something if you sweat for it and you already paid the price. If you know in yourself that you are deserving more than anybody else.
Work hard and you already deserve it, work harder than anybody else to be the most deserving. Actions speaks louder than words, you will only be deserving if you sweat for it.
You will be the judge if you are deserving of something, they can't tell you if you deserve it or not. Your work ethic is the barometer.
So prove them that you deserve it, prove the universe that you have the right to ask for something.
It will be shown it what you are doing and not on what you can do. You can tell everyone that you can do this or do that but if you're not doing it then that announcement is still useless.
And if they can't give you what you are asking for, it's your duty to get it on your own. Use your own way, because at the end of the day if you really think that you deserve it... you can get it no matter what.
If you are asking for big things make sure you are deserving to get it. Some people will ask for big houses, cars, big money but all they do is dream about it, they never act, they never kill themselves to get what they want.
You will only have the right to ask for something if you sweat for it and you already paid the price. If you know in yourself that you are deserving more than anybody else.
Work hard and you already deserve it, work harder than anybody else to be the most deserving. Actions speaks louder than words, you will only be deserving if you sweat for it.
You will be the judge if you are deserving of something, they can't tell you if you deserve it or not. Your work ethic is the barometer.
So prove them that you deserve it, prove the universe that you have the right to ask for something.
It will be shown it what you are doing and not on what you can do. You can tell everyone that you can do this or do that but if you're not doing it then that announcement is still useless.
And if they can't give you what you are asking for, it's your duty to get it on your own. Use your own way, because at the end of the day if you really think that you deserve it... you can get it no matter what.
DO YOU REALLY BELIEVE WHAT YOU SAY?
Do you really believe that you can win the moment you say you're going to win? do you really believe it or was it just a pure show?
Do you really believe that you're going to do it the moment you promise someone that you're going to deliver on time? Do you really believe what you say? or are you just trying to impress them? which one is true?
Some people are just good in talking, they are selling wolf tickets. They knew from the very beginning that they will not do what they say or they cannot do what they say. If you say something you must fully believe in it or else it will not happen.
It's the power of belief, it's the power of your mind, you should really believe in something to get something. The moment you say a word from the very beginning, you should fully trust it. You should take actions right away, even if it looks impossible to achieve... you must believe it to make it happen.
Yeah, it's hard to believe something that is hard, it's easy to speak but hard to execute. That is why once you say something... you must act right away, you must not let the doubts enter your system. You must keep the momentum going and never stop until it is done.
Saying something and not doing it is arrogance, it is a weak move, it is cowardice. Do you want to be called a liar or a pretender?
Actions fuels beliefs, the more you take action the more it will likely to happen. If you want to make sure that it's going to happen... take massive actions, stop talking now and start moving. People will only believe you once you have an evidence, if you can't present them any... you're still a fake to the eyes of many.
Do you really believe that you're going to do it the moment you promise someone that you're going to deliver on time? Do you really believe what you say? or are you just trying to impress them? which one is true?
Some people are just good in talking, they are selling wolf tickets. They knew from the very beginning that they will not do what they say or they cannot do what they say. If you say something you must fully believe in it or else it will not happen.
It's the power of belief, it's the power of your mind, you should really believe in something to get something. The moment you say a word from the very beginning, you should fully trust it. You should take actions right away, even if it looks impossible to achieve... you must believe it to make it happen.
Yeah, it's hard to believe something that is hard, it's easy to speak but hard to execute. That is why once you say something... you must act right away, you must not let the doubts enter your system. You must keep the momentum going and never stop until it is done.
Saying something and not doing it is arrogance, it is a weak move, it is cowardice. Do you want to be called a liar or a pretender?
Actions fuels beliefs, the more you take action the more it will likely to happen. If you want to make sure that it's going to happen... take massive actions, stop talking now and start moving. People will only believe you once you have an evidence, if you can't present them any... you're still a fake to the eyes of many.
IF IT IS WRONG SO BE IT
No regrets in life if you take actions, if you are wrong so be it. The good news is... you can always change, you can always do something to make your life better.
Just try it even if you're not sure, even if you think that there is only one percent chance that it may become right... still try it. No one will kill you if you try, you're not going to die if you try. And even if you're correct now... you can still make mistakes later, mistakes will always be a part of your life so don't be afraid of it. You will never be immune to it.
Perfection is the number one root of procrastination. People wants to become perfect, they want to make it right on the first try because they don't want to try again. They were too lazy and doesn't want to make any adjustments anymore, and that is why they can't move, that is why they were so afraid to make mistakes.
If you're wrong you're wrong, don't make it a big deal. Don't cry about it, don't talk about it. Just move on and move forward. Forget the past, what is done is done.
If you're not afraid to become wrong... you will become right, you will become successful.
A person who keeps on making mistakes and learning from it will become a genius one day. He will become successful one day. Look at those people who were already in history... their stories has something to do with perseverance and a lot of failures.
So don't feel bad about yourself if you're making a lot of mistakes, at least you're trying, it means you're brave, it means you're trying to make things happen.
THERE IS NO USELESS MOVE
Any of your move is the right move for as long as it is positive and making you progress a little bit.
Don't be afraid to move kid, you already knew what to do then why are you not doing it? what's the matter are you afraid? afraid of what? moving will not kill you, it will only make your position better. And even if you fail, at least you did your part, at least you have no regrets.
Do everything to become successful, there is no wrong move, any move will give you clues, it will point you the right direction. If you hesitate then you already destroyed your fate. Any small action can give you progress.
Maybe you are thinking that your move is wrong, mainly because you haven't see any impact cause by it yet. Once you think of doing something for your dream... do it. Forget about the outcome, free yourself from judging your work if it is right or wrong, what matters is you are taking actions.
Always remember that waiting is for the losers, waiting for the right time will never make you see the right time, you will always feel that it is not the right time, you will always feel that there is something wrong. Get addicted to small actions, be patient because it's only just a matter of time before you become successful.
Some people may criticize your movement but it's none of your business to listen to what they say, what matters is you follow your heart and you did everything you could to become successful.
All of your moves were counted, all of your moves will contribute to your success. Don't stop when you're tired, stop when you're already successful.
Don't be afraid to move kid, you already knew what to do then why are you not doing it? what's the matter are you afraid? afraid of what? moving will not kill you, it will only make your position better. And even if you fail, at least you did your part, at least you have no regrets.
Do everything to become successful, there is no wrong move, any move will give you clues, it will point you the right direction. If you hesitate then you already destroyed your fate. Any small action can give you progress.
Maybe you are thinking that your move is wrong, mainly because you haven't see any impact cause by it yet. Once you think of doing something for your dream... do it. Forget about the outcome, free yourself from judging your work if it is right or wrong, what matters is you are taking actions.
Always remember that waiting is for the losers, waiting for the right time will never make you see the right time, you will always feel that it is not the right time, you will always feel that there is something wrong. Get addicted to small actions, be patient because it's only just a matter of time before you become successful.
Some people may criticize your movement but it's none of your business to listen to what they say, what matters is you follow your heart and you did everything you could to become successful.
All of your moves were counted, all of your moves will contribute to your success. Don't stop when you're tired, stop when you're already successful.
THE LOCK IN MENTALITY
Pick a goal, pick a dream and then lock your mind with it forever. Don't change, don't do anything else... STAY LOCK IN FOREVER.
Do everything you can for that dream, I mean leave it all out on the line. Whether it is about calling someone you don't know and offering your service just to get money, whether it is about not sleeping for 29 hours straight just to get things right... do it. Remember that it is your dream and you should be serious about it. Anything that you think will work... try to make it work, that is what it is all about, that is what a LOCK IN MENTALITY really is.
When I say LOCK IN MENTALITY... you need to make a lot of sacrifices. It's all about giving your life into something, you will fight every temptation, you will become a totally different person. It's like an obsession, it's more than dedication.
Sometimes you have to skip attending your friend's wedding or birthday, sometimes you have to not take a bath to keep your focus alive, once you're in the zone... never let it go, once you're in a roll... never stop it. You should keep going and going and going. It's like you're lock in it and the only way to free yourself is to become successful.
You hold that vision in your mind forever, that picture of your dream.. you should never change it. No matter what happens you will stick with the process, you will never change direction. You will never change the plan, there is no plan B, if there is then that is to execute the plan A.
Success requires a tremendous focus and massive action, if any of the two is missing then you will fall short, you are only wasting your time.
And even if you are doing something, let's say you are following the orders from your parents or you are helping someone.. you should still think about what you are trying to accomplish, it should be always on your mind... that is the lock in mentality.
Do everything you can for that dream, I mean leave it all out on the line. Whether it is about calling someone you don't know and offering your service just to get money, whether it is about not sleeping for 29 hours straight just to get things right... do it. Remember that it is your dream and you should be serious about it. Anything that you think will work... try to make it work, that is what it is all about, that is what a LOCK IN MENTALITY really is.
When I say LOCK IN MENTALITY... you need to make a lot of sacrifices. It's all about giving your life into something, you will fight every temptation, you will become a totally different person. It's like an obsession, it's more than dedication.
Sometimes you have to skip attending your friend's wedding or birthday, sometimes you have to not take a bath to keep your focus alive, once you're in the zone... never let it go, once you're in a roll... never stop it. You should keep going and going and going. It's like you're lock in it and the only way to free yourself is to become successful.
You hold that vision in your mind forever, that picture of your dream.. you should never change it. No matter what happens you will stick with the process, you will never change direction. You will never change the plan, there is no plan B, if there is then that is to execute the plan A.
Success requires a tremendous focus and massive action, if any of the two is missing then you will fall short, you are only wasting your time.
And even if you are doing something, let's say you are following the orders from your parents or you are helping someone.. you should still think about what you are trying to accomplish, it should be always on your mind... that is the lock in mentality.
Oct 27, 2017
5 MAIN REASONS WHY YOU WILL LOSE IN LIFE
1. You don't want it bad enough. You keep telling other people that you want it but the truth is you really don't want it, you are not open to doing some ridiculous things that will give you success, you are simply following the rules that you know, you are so traditional, you can't even make a decision on your own. You said you want it but it doesn't show on your actions. You just want it in the beginning when everything is still easy but when the going gets tough... you are only pretending that you want it, you are only pretending that you are working but the truth is you are almost giving up. If you really want it then you will face all the pain and keep moving forward. If you really want it then you will do whatever it takes to give your chance of winning.
2. You can't motivate yourself. A lot of people were making a lot of excuses that they were not motivated that is why they can't take actions. The truth is... it is your responsibility to motivate yourself. It is your duty to force yourself to take actions. If you're not motivated then you should motivate yourself to take actions. You should be playful with your imagination and think about thoughts that will make you move. There are millions of motivational videos in you tube and if you're so lazy to watch some of them... there is something wrong with you, I think you should better go to the mountains and isolate yourself because success has no place for people that doesn't want to do something about their situation.
3. You're afraid to lose. You are so conservative, you don't want to express yourself to the fullest, didn't you know that expressing yourself is the rightest path in your life? You are holding yourself back, you always think about losing that is why you can't force the winning. Don't be afraid to lose, if you lose then you lose but you need to give your very best to become a winner in life. If you are so afraid to lose then you will always play safe, people who always play safe usually lost, they have something in their mind but they can't do it.
4. You can't sacrifice. You always choose the easier path, you can't sacrifice, all you want to do is feel good, you will choose rest over work. You will choose pleasure over pain. You could have accomplish a lot but you choose temporary pleasures instead.
5. Your ability to focus is so weak. Just a little distraction will stop you from working, just a little critic and bad feedback from other people will make you depressed. You need to focus if you want to become a winner, not just an ordinary focus but a laser like focus that cannot be disturbed by anyone. Even if there is a disaster, even if all of your friends are partying... you should work if you want to become really successful.
2. You can't motivate yourself. A lot of people were making a lot of excuses that they were not motivated that is why they can't take actions. The truth is... it is your responsibility to motivate yourself. It is your duty to force yourself to take actions. If you're not motivated then you should motivate yourself to take actions. You should be playful with your imagination and think about thoughts that will make you move. There are millions of motivational videos in you tube and if you're so lazy to watch some of them... there is something wrong with you, I think you should better go to the mountains and isolate yourself because success has no place for people that doesn't want to do something about their situation.
3. You're afraid to lose. You are so conservative, you don't want to express yourself to the fullest, didn't you know that expressing yourself is the rightest path in your life? You are holding yourself back, you always think about losing that is why you can't force the winning. Don't be afraid to lose, if you lose then you lose but you need to give your very best to become a winner in life. If you are so afraid to lose then you will always play safe, people who always play safe usually lost, they have something in their mind but they can't do it.
4. You can't sacrifice. You always choose the easier path, you can't sacrifice, all you want to do is feel good, you will choose rest over work. You will choose pleasure over pain. You could have accomplish a lot but you choose temporary pleasures instead.
5. Your ability to focus is so weak. Just a little distraction will stop you from working, just a little critic and bad feedback from other people will make you depressed. You need to focus if you want to become a winner, not just an ordinary focus but a laser like focus that cannot be disturbed by anyone. Even if there is a disaster, even if all of your friends are partying... you should work if you want to become really successful.
YOU CAN LIVE WITHOUT IT
You can live without it...
You can live without your friend that is bullying you, I don't know why are you still joining him even if he is not treating you right .You can live without him, life is yours so why worry?
You can live without a car, I don't know why are you so attracted to guys who has a car, is the car going to love you? is the car going to stay with you until the end of time? stop acting like a gold digger, just work hard and you can have your own car in the future. Stop falling in love with a car so much because it will only make you look like a bitch. Stop giving guys an advantage if they have a car, choose the right person who will treat you right even if he has no car or no money at all. Choose the one who is true and will work hard to give you a better life in the future. You can live without it, you can walk, you can run, you can even use the public transportation, stop acting like your rich once you're riding a car that is only a chattel mortgage.
You can live without fancy clothes and shoes. It is true but most people especially teens would love to look impressive, they want to stand out by wearing expensive clothes, remember that it's just a piece of cloth, it is nothing. What if you don't have those clothes anymore? are you still going to have the swagger that you have right now? I know your confidence will go down if you can't impress your friends about your fancy things. Be real, be confident even if you have the cheapest clothes in town because the truth is... you can still live without it.
You can live without those appreciations from other people. Even if they don't look at you as some kind of a special human being, you will still live. You don't need their positive feedbacks, you don't need their fake likes in facebook. All you need is you appreciating yourself, a lot of people were having a depression because they feel like they were not appreciated. This is a weak mindset, you don't need their appreciation if you know your true value and worth.
You can live without anything, all you need is an air to breathe and you will live. Why is it that people are complicating their lives so much? they want a lot, they were full of dramas.
If you will only know that you don't need anything to live... life will become a breeze, everything will be very easy, you will become more creative, you can become successful so fast. Because you have nothing to lose, win or lose...you are still happy.
You can live without your friend that is bullying you, I don't know why are you still joining him even if he is not treating you right .You can live without him, life is yours so why worry?
You can live without a car, I don't know why are you so attracted to guys who has a car, is the car going to love you? is the car going to stay with you until the end of time? stop acting like a gold digger, just work hard and you can have your own car in the future. Stop falling in love with a car so much because it will only make you look like a bitch. Stop giving guys an advantage if they have a car, choose the right person who will treat you right even if he has no car or no money at all. Choose the one who is true and will work hard to give you a better life in the future. You can live without it, you can walk, you can run, you can even use the public transportation, stop acting like your rich once you're riding a car that is only a chattel mortgage.
You can live without fancy clothes and shoes. It is true but most people especially teens would love to look impressive, they want to stand out by wearing expensive clothes, remember that it's just a piece of cloth, it is nothing. What if you don't have those clothes anymore? are you still going to have the swagger that you have right now? I know your confidence will go down if you can't impress your friends about your fancy things. Be real, be confident even if you have the cheapest clothes in town because the truth is... you can still live without it.
You can live without those appreciations from other people. Even if they don't look at you as some kind of a special human being, you will still live. You don't need their positive feedbacks, you don't need their fake likes in facebook. All you need is you appreciating yourself, a lot of people were having a depression because they feel like they were not appreciated. This is a weak mindset, you don't need their appreciation if you know your true value and worth.
You can live without anything, all you need is an air to breathe and you will live. Why is it that people are complicating their lives so much? they want a lot, they were full of dramas.
If you will only know that you don't need anything to live... life will become a breeze, everything will be very easy, you will become more creative, you can become successful so fast. Because you have nothing to lose, win or lose...you are still happy.
DECIDE TO ADAPT NO MATTER WHAT
If you can adapt to any situation... life will become very easy for you. Even if your situation is hard, even if nothing right is going on, if you can adapt then you will be able to find solutions. If it is hard then just do it, do it slowly if needed but don't ever quit.
Adapting and improvising is the best quality that you can ever have. If you have this kind of mindset then you will no longer be scared of anything, you will just enjoy the journey and embrace what might happen.
Because you have no choice but to do it, a lot of people were complaining a lot about what they don't like but in the end they will not do something about it, they will learn to adapt even if they are against it. They were forced to adapt with the situation, even if they want something else. The basic rule is this... if you can't do something about it then just learn to adapt so that you will not feel bad.
It's like having a knee injury, if you have no money for the operation then just learn to endure the feeling. Just keep playing or moving or walking even if your knee badly hurts. Because what else will you do? complain about it? whine about it? that kind of mindset will even make your life miserable. Misery will stop the moment you accept your situation.
Successful people were good in adapting, of course they will feel bad once they see something that is against their plan, they will feel bad too but they they will never nurture that negative emotion for so ling. They will shift their state right away and think for the best solution available.
Adapting will make you unbeatable, it will make you invincible. A competitor who can adapt easily is impossible to beat. He will run fast if the opponent is taller, he will make the game slow if the opponent is quicker, he will play physical if the opponent is weaker, he will do everything to win, he can make adjustments easily.
If you have no money to buy some food then don't eat, that's it, don't complain, don't look for what is missing. If you can do something about it then do it but if there is no available solution for the moment then simply adapt, sleep now and work tomorrow.
Because if you will keep complaining and make dramas about your situation... nothing will happen to you, you are only draining your energy by doing that, just focus on what you can control... decide to adapt no matter what.
Adapting and improvising is the best quality that you can ever have. If you have this kind of mindset then you will no longer be scared of anything, you will just enjoy the journey and embrace what might happen.
Because you have no choice but to do it, a lot of people were complaining a lot about what they don't like but in the end they will not do something about it, they will learn to adapt even if they are against it. They were forced to adapt with the situation, even if they want something else. The basic rule is this... if you can't do something about it then just learn to adapt so that you will not feel bad.
It's like having a knee injury, if you have no money for the operation then just learn to endure the feeling. Just keep playing or moving or walking even if your knee badly hurts. Because what else will you do? complain about it? whine about it? that kind of mindset will even make your life miserable. Misery will stop the moment you accept your situation.
Successful people were good in adapting, of course they will feel bad once they see something that is against their plan, they will feel bad too but they they will never nurture that negative emotion for so ling. They will shift their state right away and think for the best solution available.
Adapting will make you unbeatable, it will make you invincible. A competitor who can adapt easily is impossible to beat. He will run fast if the opponent is taller, he will make the game slow if the opponent is quicker, he will play physical if the opponent is weaker, he will do everything to win, he can make adjustments easily.
If you have no money to buy some food then don't eat, that's it, don't complain, don't look for what is missing. If you can do something about it then do it but if there is no available solution for the moment then simply adapt, sleep now and work tomorrow.
Because if you will keep complaining and make dramas about your situation... nothing will happen to you, you are only draining your energy by doing that, just focus on what you can control... decide to adapt no matter what.
THE POWER OF PUSHING
Are you pushing yourself? are you giving your all every single day? before you go to bed, are you sure that you are super tired and you exhaust yourself to the fullest? because if not then you are simply wasting your time, you will never succeed if you will not push yourself and that is the sad reality.
Because if you will not push yourself then you will never get a different result, you will only advance to a higher level if you will use all of your strength and energy to take massive actions. That is the surest way to get on top.
All you have to do is look where you are and think of some ways how you will be able to make your situation a little bit better and that's it. You need those extra efforts to produce a little progress, always remember that a small progress is still a progress so you better take it whether you like it or not.
If you will push yourself to exhaustion everyday, if you will utilize all of your skills, strength and knowledge then you will reach the top. Not all people are using the gifts they have, instead they make excuses, they look for what is missing in their life that is why they can't forge results.
You don't need special talents, you don't even need a help at all. All you have to do is push yourself to the limits and die for what you want by taking relentless actions. Because that is the only way, there is no other way, if there is then what is it? do you think working for 9 hours a day in a job that you don't like will make you successful and free? do you think by just watching TV and eating popcorn will give you the money that you want? definitely not, you need to do something new, you need to make a lot of sacrifices.
Look at the squatters, they can't even rent a home so and live comfortably, it is because they are not pushing themselves, they are not feeling any pressure. They are satisfied living everyday without paying rent and they think that it is a huge advantage, they think that it is ok to be in that situation because at least they are not paying rent, they think that they will just the money that can be use for rent for some other things like food and clothes. And if you will look at their lives closely, they can even afford to buy a television, they even have cellphones and other things.
If you want to achieve something you must be willing to take the suffering, you must be willing to push yourself little by little. Step by step, sacrifice by sacrifice, inch by inch. You need to do everything you can possibly can to change your situation or at least achieve a different result. Comfort will never make you comfortable, it is only setting you up for failure, be uncomfortable now and feel comfortable later.
Because if you will not push yourself then you will never get a different result, you will only advance to a higher level if you will use all of your strength and energy to take massive actions. That is the surest way to get on top.
All you have to do is look where you are and think of some ways how you will be able to make your situation a little bit better and that's it. You need those extra efforts to produce a little progress, always remember that a small progress is still a progress so you better take it whether you like it or not.
If you will push yourself to exhaustion everyday, if you will utilize all of your skills, strength and knowledge then you will reach the top. Not all people are using the gifts they have, instead they make excuses, they look for what is missing in their life that is why they can't forge results.
You don't need special talents, you don't even need a help at all. All you have to do is push yourself to the limits and die for what you want by taking relentless actions. Because that is the only way, there is no other way, if there is then what is it? do you think working for 9 hours a day in a job that you don't like will make you successful and free? do you think by just watching TV and eating popcorn will give you the money that you want? definitely not, you need to do something new, you need to make a lot of sacrifices.
Look at the squatters, they can't even rent a home so and live comfortably, it is because they are not pushing themselves, they are not feeling any pressure. They are satisfied living everyday without paying rent and they think that it is a huge advantage, they think that it is ok to be in that situation because at least they are not paying rent, they think that they will just the money that can be use for rent for some other things like food and clothes. And if you will look at their lives closely, they can even afford to buy a television, they even have cellphones and other things.
If you want to achieve something you must be willing to take the suffering, you must be willing to push yourself little by little. Step by step, sacrifice by sacrifice, inch by inch. You need to do everything you can possibly can to change your situation or at least achieve a different result. Comfort will never make you comfortable, it is only setting you up for failure, be uncomfortable now and feel comfortable later.
THE GOAL IS TO ALWAYS FEEL FREE
The best goal is to always feel free, feel loose, achieve a freedom that you haven't experience before when you were young.
If you can feel free everyday then you're already successful. That's what most people want, they think that they are pursuing other goal but the truth is they are pursuing freedom.
For example, if you are planning to buy a car, you really don't want the car itself, part of you wants it but what you really want is behind the car. What do I mean by this? what you really want is freedom from commuting because you want to get more comfortable, you don't want to use public transportation anymore because you rather prefer driving by yourself, you don't want to experience the smoke from other vehicles, your private owned car will protect you from dirt. You also want to experience being free from falling in line in different stations, you don't want to wait anymore. You thought that having a car will make you free from discomfort. Some people will just buy a car because they though that it will make their social status higher, they want to be free from being called poor that is why they buy a car. So if you will think deeply, what you want more is freedom and not the car itself.
A young man is pursuing an MMA career because he was bullied in the past. He want to make revenge, he want to free himself from the thought that he may get bullied again. It only means that he really doesn't want to be a fighter, he only wants to be protected by learning the skills that he can learn from training MMA. It's the freedom that he really wants not the art of fighting.
So you if you are doing something, make sure that you are free. Make sure that you are enjoying freedom because that is what you really want. Freedom is what everyone needs.
Just like a man pursuing millions, he wanted to become rich so he will enjoy having a financial freedom. The truth is... you can still feel free even if you're not that rich. Just stay away from debts, be smart in spending your money, save more money and that's it... you're already free from financial troubles. It's that easy, you are the only one complicating your life by thinking too much and making wrong decisions.
You don't need to have this or have that to become happy and feel successful. All you need to do is pursue freedom, do what will give you happiness and peace of mind and you're already successful. The pattern and process will be decided by you and only you, it is up to you how are you going to find it and build it. And once you find it, enjoy it, trust it and become confident with it.
If you are doing something, let's say you are dancing or painting or singing... the goal is not to impress people but to make yourself feel happy while doing it, and you will only attain it by choosing freedom, you need to feel loose and creative, you need to do it your way. Forget about what people say and express yourself honestly, be yourself no matter what... that is the only way to attain freedom.
If you can feel free everyday then you're already successful. That's what most people want, they think that they are pursuing other goal but the truth is they are pursuing freedom.
For example, if you are planning to buy a car, you really don't want the car itself, part of you wants it but what you really want is behind the car. What do I mean by this? what you really want is freedom from commuting because you want to get more comfortable, you don't want to use public transportation anymore because you rather prefer driving by yourself, you don't want to experience the smoke from other vehicles, your private owned car will protect you from dirt. You also want to experience being free from falling in line in different stations, you don't want to wait anymore. You thought that having a car will make you free from discomfort. Some people will just buy a car because they though that it will make their social status higher, they want to be free from being called poor that is why they buy a car. So if you will think deeply, what you want more is freedom and not the car itself.
A young man is pursuing an MMA career because he was bullied in the past. He want to make revenge, he want to free himself from the thought that he may get bullied again. It only means that he really doesn't want to be a fighter, he only wants to be protected by learning the skills that he can learn from training MMA. It's the freedom that he really wants not the art of fighting.
So you if you are doing something, make sure that you are free. Make sure that you are enjoying freedom because that is what you really want. Freedom is what everyone needs.
Just like a man pursuing millions, he wanted to become rich so he will enjoy having a financial freedom. The truth is... you can still feel free even if you're not that rich. Just stay away from debts, be smart in spending your money, save more money and that's it... you're already free from financial troubles. It's that easy, you are the only one complicating your life by thinking too much and making wrong decisions.
You don't need to have this or have that to become happy and feel successful. All you need to do is pursue freedom, do what will give you happiness and peace of mind and you're already successful. The pattern and process will be decided by you and only you, it is up to you how are you going to find it and build it. And once you find it, enjoy it, trust it and become confident with it.
If you are doing something, let's say you are dancing or painting or singing... the goal is not to impress people but to make yourself feel happy while doing it, and you will only attain it by choosing freedom, you need to feel loose and creative, you need to do it your way. Forget about what people say and express yourself honestly, be yourself no matter what... that is the only way to attain freedom.
MONEY IS FREE, YOU DON'T NEED TO PAY FOR IT
What most people don't know about money is they don't need to pay for it, they can have it as much as they want. They don't need to spend money to get money, all they have to do is work and that's it. What's difficult about that? all you have to do is exert an effort and there you go, you have money.
It's easy to make money, all you have to do is look for it and work for it. Most people are having a hard time getting it because they don't want to work, all they want is to have it as fast as they want it. All you have to do is spend your energy, use your strength and you will have it.
Just look around you, look for something you can do that you think will get paid. Do it and never hesitate, if it didn't work then try something new, try and try until you succeed.
I know you have internet connection right now that's why you can read this phenomenal article. That's it, you can earn money through internet. Just look for online jobs, and don't ever tell me that you don't have skills, it is impossible, if you can read and write and analyze some simple things then you can find a job. And let's say that you really don't have the skills, you still have a chance because there are abundant of resources of information available online, you can learn by just simply surfing and reading.
Money is free, it comes in different ways, all yo have to do is work for it and it will submit itself to you. The one who is willing to get tired for it will get it more, as simple as that. Some people can't get it because they were too unappreciative, they can'e become happy with the little income that they can earn. They were too picky, they were too lazy that's why all the get is a miserable life. They want to earn money but they are using their time for useless things.
Look for money now, the more time you waste the more money will escape from your hands. It is free you can get as much as you want.
Just make sure that you will work for it and you will save it, the formula is simple to become rich, you don't need to complicate it. Just work and work and save and save. Never mind if you can't have what you want for the moment, saving money is happier than spending it.
Once you have that enough money and you feel like you have a lot of reserves, you can buy what you want, you can build a business on your own. All you need is time and patience. Just feel happy working for it and saving it and you will become rich.
It's easy to make money, all you have to do is look for it and work for it. Most people are having a hard time getting it because they don't want to work, all they want is to have it as fast as they want it. All you have to do is spend your energy, use your strength and you will have it.
Just look around you, look for something you can do that you think will get paid. Do it and never hesitate, if it didn't work then try something new, try and try until you succeed.
I know you have internet connection right now that's why you can read this phenomenal article. That's it, you can earn money through internet. Just look for online jobs, and don't ever tell me that you don't have skills, it is impossible, if you can read and write and analyze some simple things then you can find a job. And let's say that you really don't have the skills, you still have a chance because there are abundant of resources of information available online, you can learn by just simply surfing and reading.
Money is free, it comes in different ways, all yo have to do is work for it and it will submit itself to you. The one who is willing to get tired for it will get it more, as simple as that. Some people can't get it because they were too unappreciative, they can'e become happy with the little income that they can earn. They were too picky, they were too lazy that's why all the get is a miserable life. They want to earn money but they are using their time for useless things.
Look for money now, the more time you waste the more money will escape from your hands. It is free you can get as much as you want.
Just make sure that you will work for it and you will save it, the formula is simple to become rich, you don't need to complicate it. Just work and work and save and save. Never mind if you can't have what you want for the moment, saving money is happier than spending it.
Once you have that enough money and you feel like you have a lot of reserves, you can buy what you want, you can build a business on your own. All you need is time and patience. Just feel happy working for it and saving it and you will become rich.
TRY THIS NEW LEVEL OF MEDITATION
A lot of wanna be monks out there will tell you how to meditate. They will ask you to go to the top of the mountain, the quietest place, the most serene place and meditate there. They will even tell you the number of breathing, deep exhalation, covering of noses, stomach in and out etc. They will tell you complicated steps that will only confuse you and make life difficult for you. You will even wonder if what you're doing is right or wrong.
The truth is... you can meditate anywhere, anytime. Even if there are noises around you.. you can still meditate. Even if you're at the office and doing something, you can still meditate.
You will just stop thinking and start breathing and that's it. Become very relaxed while breathing. Don't do anything, just focus on your breathing, breathe slowly and calmly. Even if there are noises surrounding you... still focus on breathing and relaxing. This is another level of meditation. It is meditating in noisy places, it is meditating when you need to meditate badly.
Meditational gurus will tell you to meditate in quiet places to avoid being disturb but the reality is in life... you will always be disturb. People and events will always disturb you so you need to try to quiet your mind in noisy places, don't quiet your mind in quiet places because that will only make you a little better.
Meditate during traffic, listen to your emotions, I know you're angry and impatient so that is the time you need to meditate. Just calm your mind, breathe and relax. Focus on driving while not thinking a lot, just focus on the road, breathe slowly and deeply. Quiet your mind, it is possible, never rush and just keep driving while meditating. You will feel good in a while, you will feel better and the traffic will get better too, your decisions will become better. Time will become faster and your driving will become easier.
You can do this anywhere, when your mind is already crowded... just try to relax and breathe deeply. Think slowly and never force anything.
Stay focus on what you're doing, you can even meditate while washing the dishes, just take it one plate at a time, focus on your breathing, enjoy the process and never think about finishing fast. Enjoy as much as you can, look at the plates, forks and spoons closely, wash them slowly and let the water run on them.
Meditating is simply focusing, it is making things slow, it is simply having peace with chaos. It is breathing during pressure times, it is trusting that everything will become alright.
So whenever you feel bad and stressed... meditate. Make your work slow, enjoy the moment while breathing deeply. Inhale and exhale, be aware of your senses and just simply go with the flow.
The truth is... you can meditate anywhere, anytime. Even if there are noises around you.. you can still meditate. Even if you're at the office and doing something, you can still meditate.
You will just stop thinking and start breathing and that's it. Become very relaxed while breathing. Don't do anything, just focus on your breathing, breathe slowly and calmly. Even if there are noises surrounding you... still focus on breathing and relaxing. This is another level of meditation. It is meditating in noisy places, it is meditating when you need to meditate badly.
Meditational gurus will tell you to meditate in quiet places to avoid being disturb but the reality is in life... you will always be disturb. People and events will always disturb you so you need to try to quiet your mind in noisy places, don't quiet your mind in quiet places because that will only make you a little better.
Meditate during traffic, listen to your emotions, I know you're angry and impatient so that is the time you need to meditate. Just calm your mind, breathe and relax. Focus on driving while not thinking a lot, just focus on the road, breathe slowly and deeply. Quiet your mind, it is possible, never rush and just keep driving while meditating. You will feel good in a while, you will feel better and the traffic will get better too, your decisions will become better. Time will become faster and your driving will become easier.
You can do this anywhere, when your mind is already crowded... just try to relax and breathe deeply. Think slowly and never force anything.
Stay focus on what you're doing, you can even meditate while washing the dishes, just take it one plate at a time, focus on your breathing, enjoy the process and never think about finishing fast. Enjoy as much as you can, look at the plates, forks and spoons closely, wash them slowly and let the water run on them.
Meditating is simply focusing, it is making things slow, it is simply having peace with chaos. It is breathing during pressure times, it is trusting that everything will become alright.
So whenever you feel bad and stressed... meditate. Make your work slow, enjoy the moment while breathing deeply. Inhale and exhale, be aware of your senses and just simply go with the flow.
LIMIT YOUR RESOURCES
Sometimes you have a lot of resources that is why you can't become successful. You are so confused because you don't know what to use. It's like having a lot of coaches and you don't know which one to follow, you have a lot of inputs and references, you don't know what will work anymore.
Limit your resources so that you will be able to focus on one thing instead of focusing on a lot of things. Limiting your resources will make you see what really works, if one resources is not working then use another resources, as simple as that.
Because if you will use a lot of things, techniques and process then you will get overwhelmed. You will be stressed and confused, your progress will become slower.
Take social media marketing as an example, if you will use twitter, Instagram, facebook, linkedin all at once then you wouldn't know what is working. You will get confused and frustrated, you will even feel like nothing is working. But if you will only use one and see if it will give you your desired results then you will become more organized, your progress will become more evident.
Like this website, I only use twitter to market it and it's giving me my desired results. I write everyday, tweet everyday and that's it. Everyday I am progressing, everyday my followers were starting to grow, more money is coming to me. It is very simple, I don't complicate it that's why the results are faster to come.
Just make sure that once you limit your resources and you pick one... focus on your choice, never change, focus on it until you become successful.
Having one car is better than having two cars, you will be able to make your car beautiful, you can use it more and you can appreciate it more. A lot of people wants to have three or more cars only to find out in the end that it is not that easy, it is not that happy because you have to pay a lot of insurances, you have to maintain more and pay gas for more. It is not fun at all, it only gives confusion.
Limit your resources so that you will be able to focus on one thing instead of focusing on a lot of things. Limiting your resources will make you see what really works, if one resources is not working then use another resources, as simple as that.
Because if you will use a lot of things, techniques and process then you will get overwhelmed. You will be stressed and confused, your progress will become slower.
Take social media marketing as an example, if you will use twitter, Instagram, facebook, linkedin all at once then you wouldn't know what is working. You will get confused and frustrated, you will even feel like nothing is working. But if you will only use one and see if it will give you your desired results then you will become more organized, your progress will become more evident.
Like this website, I only use twitter to market it and it's giving me my desired results. I write everyday, tweet everyday and that's it. Everyday I am progressing, everyday my followers were starting to grow, more money is coming to me. It is very simple, I don't complicate it that's why the results are faster to come.
Just make sure that once you limit your resources and you pick one... focus on your choice, never change, focus on it until you become successful.
Having one car is better than having two cars, you will be able to make your car beautiful, you can use it more and you can appreciate it more. A lot of people wants to have three or more cars only to find out in the end that it is not that easy, it is not that happy because you have to pay a lot of insurances, you have to maintain more and pay gas for more. It is not fun at all, it only gives confusion.
Oct 26, 2017
REMEMBER YOUR PAIN
If you're experiencing a lot of pain now, if life is not doing well and you're struggling too much... remember your pain. Remember a hardship from the past, remember that you already experienced this situation and what happens from the past might be even worse so there is nothing to be afraid of. If you manage to survive a worse suffering from the past then you can also survive what is going on with your life right now.
It is nothing, you can also survive it, you can thrive from it. If you survive the past then you can also survive the present. Remember your pain, remember what thoughts you entertain to survive a bad situation, remember your actions and decision making ability. It's not that hard, you will just endure it and take positive actions. Any bad weather will soon go away. You already experience a very painful pain in the past so never be afraid if you are experiencing it again now.
You're already tough and you must keep that in your mind, if you manage to survive anything in the past then how come you will not survive anything now? You can survive multiple times if your heart is there and you have the willingness to persevere. Keep in mind that life is hard and it will get harder if you will focus on the hardship, focus on how will you move on, focus on how to make yourself feel better.
You will only feel better a little bit if you will take positive actions that will entertain your mind a little bit. So do what is needed at the moment. If you need to have money then go and look for money, if you need to treat yourself then go and find ways how to treat yourself. The bad feeling will subside, the suffering will go away in just a little while so keep plodding and remember that you already suffer from the past so it is not a big deal anymore.
Pain is there to make you stronger, you have to keep enduring it and never get mad at the world. So if you are having a difficulty in your life right now, remember that it's nothing new. You already survive something like that in the past so you can survive it again now.
It is nothing, you can also survive it, you can thrive from it. If you survive the past then you can also survive the present. Remember your pain, remember what thoughts you entertain to survive a bad situation, remember your actions and decision making ability. It's not that hard, you will just endure it and take positive actions. Any bad weather will soon go away. You already experience a very painful pain in the past so never be afraid if you are experiencing it again now.
You're already tough and you must keep that in your mind, if you manage to survive anything in the past then how come you will not survive anything now? You can survive multiple times if your heart is there and you have the willingness to persevere. Keep in mind that life is hard and it will get harder if you will focus on the hardship, focus on how will you move on, focus on how to make yourself feel better.
You will only feel better a little bit if you will take positive actions that will entertain your mind a little bit. So do what is needed at the moment. If you need to have money then go and look for money, if you need to treat yourself then go and find ways how to treat yourself. The bad feeling will subside, the suffering will go away in just a little while so keep plodding and remember that you already suffer from the past so it is not a big deal anymore.
Pain is there to make you stronger, you have to keep enduring it and never get mad at the world. So if you are having a difficulty in your life right now, remember that it's nothing new. You already survive something like that in the past so you can survive it again now.
IF YOU CAN PROCRASTINATE FOR TWO HOURS, YOU CAN WORK HARD FOR TWO HOURS
If you can watch TV for 2 straight hours then you can work very hard for 2 straight hours too. There is no difference between the two. Your time is running and you can never get it back again. I know you're procrastinating a lot and if you can only understand that you're wasting a lot of time and the time you wasted can be used for more better things then you will become more productive and effective, your life will change.
It's not the smartest, most talented and richest that will always win in life. You don't even need connections or help to thrive, you just need to use your time wisely and do what is best for you. Just stick with the basics, work more, do more and achieve more... very easy and not complex.
Because your time will still run even if you work hard or do nothing, there is no difference. You are still getting old, you are dying slowly, your time is running out. So don't ever think that you are wasting your time working super hard because you don't have time to become happy anymore, that philosophy is so wrong because you are also not having fun doing nothing. I know at some point in your life, you are still getting bored just lying around watching TV. I know you want to do something else but the habit of working hard is not in your system that is why you can't even move.
Always think that if you can become lazy for two straight hours then you can also work hard for two hours, it is up to you how do you want to use your time. Are you going to use it for laziness and procrastination or are you going to use it for more productive activities such as making your health good, getting more money or just simply learning something? the choice is always yours. You are the one who is in charge of your time so don't ever say that you are too busy and you don't have time for this or that, that is total bullshit because you can even waste your time so much for useless things.
Everyone has 24 hours a day but why is it that some are getting rich and some are getting even broker? Successful people uses their time wisely, they know that their time is their most precious resources, they only use it for things that will give them a better life.
It's not the smartest, most talented and richest that will always win in life. You don't even need connections or help to thrive, you just need to use your time wisely and do what is best for you. Just stick with the basics, work more, do more and achieve more... very easy and not complex.
Because your time will still run even if you work hard or do nothing, there is no difference. You are still getting old, you are dying slowly, your time is running out. So don't ever think that you are wasting your time working super hard because you don't have time to become happy anymore, that philosophy is so wrong because you are also not having fun doing nothing. I know at some point in your life, you are still getting bored just lying around watching TV. I know you want to do something else but the habit of working hard is not in your system that is why you can't even move.
Always think that if you can become lazy for two straight hours then you can also work hard for two hours, it is up to you how do you want to use your time. Are you going to use it for laziness and procrastination or are you going to use it for more productive activities such as making your health good, getting more money or just simply learning something? the choice is always yours. You are the one who is in charge of your time so don't ever say that you are too busy and you don't have time for this or that, that is total bullshit because you can even waste your time so much for useless things.
Everyone has 24 hours a day but why is it that some are getting rich and some are getting even broker? Successful people uses their time wisely, they know that their time is their most precious resources, they only use it for things that will give them a better life.
TRUST ME, THEY WILL QUIT CRITICIZING YOU
If a lot of people were criticizing you because you are doing something differently. Let's say you are pursuing your goal seriously and you're doing things in a weird and unique way... don't worry, one day they will stop criticizing you. Just keep moving forward, just keep doing your thing and never stop. Make progress everyday.
Ignore them, don't fight them or argue with them. Let them tell you what they want to tell you, let them criticize you or humiliate you. Just do your thing, they will shut up one day because they will feel that you're immovable and unshakable, they will feel that you're serious. They will see you progressing and see themselves deteriorating. They will feel how low they are because you are not even giving them any attention.
They will stop one day, maybe not now but just keep taking positive actions, they will get sick and tired one day. They will stop doing bad things to you because they know you will not even react. While you are succeeding they are failing, how good was that. Massive success is the best revenge so keep succeeding and let them become even more envy at you.
Because all they do is follow your work, all they want is for you to fail. They never do something for themselves, they were full of shit.
They will quit criticizing you one day because you already succeeded, you already prove your worth while the are living the same lives as before, they never change, they never progress just for a little.
So keep doing your thing and never give them any attention, never let them feel that you're affected. They are quitters so they will quit one day, they might even quit tomorrow because they can't get any reaction from you.
Your critics will quit because they are quitters from day one. They also dream of doing something big but they can't stick with the process that's why they quit. That is only the proof that they can't win over you because they will quit once the going gets hard, and you are making life hard for them because they can't even make you mad.
Ignore them, don't fight them or argue with them. Let them tell you what they want to tell you, let them criticize you or humiliate you. Just do your thing, they will shut up one day because they will feel that you're immovable and unshakable, they will feel that you're serious. They will see you progressing and see themselves deteriorating. They will feel how low they are because you are not even giving them any attention.
They will stop one day, maybe not now but just keep taking positive actions, they will get sick and tired one day. They will stop doing bad things to you because they know you will not even react. While you are succeeding they are failing, how good was that. Massive success is the best revenge so keep succeeding and let them become even more envy at you.
Because all they do is follow your work, all they want is for you to fail. They never do something for themselves, they were full of shit.
They will quit criticizing you one day because you already succeeded, you already prove your worth while the are living the same lives as before, they never change, they never progress just for a little.
So keep doing your thing and never give them any attention, never let them feel that you're affected. They are quitters so they will quit one day, they might even quit tomorrow because they can't get any reaction from you.
Your critics will quit because they are quitters from day one. They also dream of doing something big but they can't stick with the process that's why they quit. That is only the proof that they can't win over you because they will quit once the going gets hard, and you are making life hard for them because they can't even make you mad.
WAS IT REALLY HARD OR ARE YOU NOT WORKING HARD?
Which is real? which is true? Was it really hard or maybe you're not working hard?
Because any difficult task will become easier if you work hard.
Everything will become hard if you're not working hard. Your life will become hard, your business will become hard, your financial status will become hard, your health will become hard, everything will become a struggle. You will feel unsatisfied, you will feel that everything is not clicking.
But if you will work hard... everything will become easy. You will get a lot of opportunities, you will see chances, success will be attracted to you. You will no longer feel that a single task is hard because hardwork makes you tough, it makes you feel that everything is easy.
If you're having a little difficulty in life.. it means you're not working hard. You have to over power hard situations with hardwork. A hard exam will even become even harder if you didn't study hard. A hard opponent will become even stronger if you didn't train hard. A hard challenge will become harder if you didn't prepare hard. Hardwork will make everything easy so you have to invest your life with it.
You can fool other people that you're working hard but you can never fool yourself. You know if you push yourself to the limits, you know if you just bum around and do nothing. A mediocre and soft effort will never get the job done, you will only think about getting lucky by taking that kind of approach.
Hardwork will give you assurance, lazy work will give you worries. So if you want to make everything easy... put in the real hard work.
Because any difficult task will become easier if you work hard.
Everything will become hard if you're not working hard. Your life will become hard, your business will become hard, your financial status will become hard, your health will become hard, everything will become a struggle. You will feel unsatisfied, you will feel that everything is not clicking.
But if you will work hard... everything will become easy. You will get a lot of opportunities, you will see chances, success will be attracted to you. You will no longer feel that a single task is hard because hardwork makes you tough, it makes you feel that everything is easy.
If you're having a little difficulty in life.. it means you're not working hard. You have to over power hard situations with hardwork. A hard exam will even become even harder if you didn't study hard. A hard opponent will become even stronger if you didn't train hard. A hard challenge will become harder if you didn't prepare hard. Hardwork will make everything easy so you have to invest your life with it.
You can fool other people that you're working hard but you can never fool yourself. You know if you push yourself to the limits, you know if you just bum around and do nothing. A mediocre and soft effort will never get the job done, you will only think about getting lucky by taking that kind of approach.
Hardwork will give you assurance, lazy work will give you worries. So if you want to make everything easy... put in the real hard work.
HOW TO BE WEIGHTLESS
You want to feel weightless? you want to feel like floating in the air and not dragging yourself just to finish your work? you can achieve it. You want to stay focused and undisturbed? you want to have a peace of mind and not worry about a lot of things anymore? that is achievable, all you have to do is let go.
Focus on what you want and not on what you don't want. Focus on yourself, what are you trying to achieve. Never focus on other people's lives because that will only make you think negatively.
Don't think, just do. Forget about the results, forget about the things that might happen. Learn to let go and just live with the moment... that is how to be weightless. Never think about what people are thinking.
Learn to disconnect from the outcome, just give your best and never worry if you are going to become successful or not. Just do as much as you can and never take any second for granted. Live with the moment and fully enjoy the process. If you need to do something and your intention is good... do it, never hesitate nor procrastinate.
Forget the past. Past is making you feel heavy so forget about it. If you want to move faster and become happier... forget the past. It's over, you need to think about the better things that might happen with your life. There is a bright future waiting for you so completely get rid of the past and become the best version of yourself. Past is only destroying your brain so forget about it.
Destroy your self image. Forget about your identity. Be like a morph who can change with the circumstances. Never care about your self image so you will feel loose, free and creative. Just move spontaneously and never hold yourself back. Forget about looking good, kind and perfect. Never be too defensive, just feel happy expressing yourself.
Learn to adapt and improvise. Your skills and knowledge will never be enough. Learn to adapt and improvise once you don't know something. Having the mindset that you can always find a solution will never make you feel worry again.
Focus on what you want and not on what you don't want. Focus on yourself, what are you trying to achieve. Never focus on other people's lives because that will only make you think negatively.
Don't think, just do. Forget about the results, forget about the things that might happen. Learn to let go and just live with the moment... that is how to be weightless. Never think about what people are thinking.
Learn to disconnect from the outcome, just give your best and never worry if you are going to become successful or not. Just do as much as you can and never take any second for granted. Live with the moment and fully enjoy the process. If you need to do something and your intention is good... do it, never hesitate nor procrastinate.
Forget the past. Past is making you feel heavy so forget about it. If you want to move faster and become happier... forget the past. It's over, you need to think about the better things that might happen with your life. There is a bright future waiting for you so completely get rid of the past and become the best version of yourself. Past is only destroying your brain so forget about it.
Destroy your self image. Forget about your identity. Be like a morph who can change with the circumstances. Never care about your self image so you will feel loose, free and creative. Just move spontaneously and never hold yourself back. Forget about looking good, kind and perfect. Never be too defensive, just feel happy expressing yourself.
Learn to adapt and improvise. Your skills and knowledge will never be enough. Learn to adapt and improvise once you don't know something. Having the mindset that you can always find a solution will never make you feel worry again.
Oct 25, 2017
JUST BE A TRYER
Be a tryer who will try as much as you can to become successful. Be a tryer who will do his best in order to get what you want.
There is no harm in trying, you can try as much as you can. You can try anything, any process that you think will make you successful. Don't be afraid to fail because failing is normal, what matters is you are doing everything you can and using all of your powers to become one step closer to your goal. A lot of people will criticize a tryer because they themselves cannot even draw the first blood, they cannot even execute their own ideas, they were so scared to fail that is why the choose to just play safe that is not really safe at all. Anyone can still fail by playing safe, it will not even give you a chance to shine and reach a specific level of success.
Do what you are suppose to do even if you think that your skills and experience is not enough. There is nothing wrong in trying, people can say whatever they want but if you will not try now... you will only regret it in the end, you will think everyday what could happen if you only try and forget what they say.
Try will all your might, with all your knowledge and power. Don't be afraid to get scrutinize and criticize, it is normal. You have to face all of the negative emotions, you have to eat all the hate. You need to fail over and over again and not lose enthusiasm.
Have pride in trying, treat trying as a victory already. Because if you never strop trying... one day you are going to succeed. It is a requirement that you have to experience a series of defeats before you become successful. You cannot escape failing, don't be afraid of it because it is the only thing that will make you stronger and a better person.
You can try a million times, it is free, just endure failing and you will become immune to it, you will never feel bad anymore if you fail over and over again. And that brings you to another level, it is like pushing the wall, hammering the door over and over again until it breaks down.
Never lose enthusiasm after failing a million times, that is the key to become successful. If you keep on trying then victory will be attracted to you little by little. It will become nearer and nearer to you and you can grab it with your hands.
There is no harm in trying, you can try as much as you can. You can try anything, any process that you think will make you successful. Don't be afraid to fail because failing is normal, what matters is you are doing everything you can and using all of your powers to become one step closer to your goal. A lot of people will criticize a tryer because they themselves cannot even draw the first blood, they cannot even execute their own ideas, they were so scared to fail that is why the choose to just play safe that is not really safe at all. Anyone can still fail by playing safe, it will not even give you a chance to shine and reach a specific level of success.
Do what you are suppose to do even if you think that your skills and experience is not enough. There is nothing wrong in trying, people can say whatever they want but if you will not try now... you will only regret it in the end, you will think everyday what could happen if you only try and forget what they say.
Try will all your might, with all your knowledge and power. Don't be afraid to get scrutinize and criticize, it is normal. You have to face all of the negative emotions, you have to eat all the hate. You need to fail over and over again and not lose enthusiasm.
Have pride in trying, treat trying as a victory already. Because if you never strop trying... one day you are going to succeed. It is a requirement that you have to experience a series of defeats before you become successful. You cannot escape failing, don't be afraid of it because it is the only thing that will make you stronger and a better person.
You can try a million times, it is free, just endure failing and you will become immune to it, you will never feel bad anymore if you fail over and over again. And that brings you to another level, it is like pushing the wall, hammering the door over and over again until it breaks down.
Never lose enthusiasm after failing a million times, that is the key to become successful. If you keep on trying then victory will be attracted to you little by little. It will become nearer and nearer to you and you can grab it with your hands.
BE AWARE IF YOU'RE A CRITIC OR NOT
If you're being a critic it means you are not pursuing your own journey, it means you are following other people and hoping for their mistakes so they will fail. You love someone to fail because it's either you're jealous or mad at him for no reason at all. If you're a critic then it means you are not focusing on your own life, you are not making yourself better instead you are always looking for flaws of other people.
You're a bum if you're a critic, you can't even start your own journey, you can't even do something significant for your life. There is no critic that has a statue of recognition, any critic wasn't given a medal at all.
Why don't you just move instead of criticizing? if you will just move then some better things will happen into your life. I know it's easier to criticize than to move that's why a lot of people do that. Pursuing your own journey is harder, there will be a lot of challenges and heartaches but it has a better chance of becoming successful.
You are just wasting time if you are criticizing because you're not even progressing at all, all you do is instigate a fight and make someone angry. You will not become successful by doing it because you're just spreading negativity. You are not getting better at all, you're just becoming good in finding some flaws and imperfections from other people's life.
To all the people being criticized... ignore the critics because you're are far way better than them. You are moving and doing something good for your life so just ignore the critics and keep shining. remember that you are slowly becoming successful while they are failing even more each day.
You're a bum if you're a critic, you can't even start your own journey, you can't even do something significant for your life. There is no critic that has a statue of recognition, any critic wasn't given a medal at all.
Why don't you just move instead of criticizing? if you will just move then some better things will happen into your life. I know it's easier to criticize than to move that's why a lot of people do that. Pursuing your own journey is harder, there will be a lot of challenges and heartaches but it has a better chance of becoming successful.
You are just wasting time if you are criticizing because you're not even progressing at all, all you do is instigate a fight and make someone angry. You will not become successful by doing it because you're just spreading negativity. You are not getting better at all, you're just becoming good in finding some flaws and imperfections from other people's life.
To all the people being criticized... ignore the critics because you're are far way better than them. You are moving and doing something good for your life so just ignore the critics and keep shining. remember that you are slowly becoming successful while they are failing even more each day.
MAKE A RANDOM ACT OF HARDWORK
Work hard now, if you're lazy yesterday and last week. Just make it a game to work hard now. In any work that needs to be done that will give you a bright future... work had for it. May it be studying something or just simply lifting weights or running outside... work super hard for it.
It will build your work ethic, it will somehow alter the momentum that is going on with your life. It will make you see the reality, it will make you see your real strength.
Just work hard even if you're not use to it. Work fast, work more and push more. Change your slow pace, that will give you something you haven't have before. You will know something and feel something that you haven't experience before.
Pick a task and work hard for it. Make sure you will sweat for it because when it's over... you will feel very happy and satisfied, you will see that working hard is not that really bad, it is not tiring and stressful. You just need to enjoy doing it and you will already feel successful.
Because hardwork will make you forget the past, it will solve your problems. Time will become very fast and you will be entertained. Any kind of problem that you have... if you work hard then it will vanish like a ghost that cannot be seen anymore. Keep working hard and you will become totally a different person, your beliefs will change, you will get results that you thought were not possible before.
So kill laziness now little by little by making a random act of hardwork. If you're just sitting on your couch doing nothing... stand up as fast as you can and do something that will either give you money or future. Do something that will develop a skill that can be use for some bigger things.
Any kind of hardwork will work, the idea here is you have to build a work ethic that will put you on a better position one day.
Never think about the results, never think about being successful so fast, just be fast in doing things, just be fast in making decisions and never take any second for granted. That is how to change your life, that is how to make results.
It will build your work ethic, it will somehow alter the momentum that is going on with your life. It will make you see the reality, it will make you see your real strength.
Just work hard even if you're not use to it. Work fast, work more and push more. Change your slow pace, that will give you something you haven't have before. You will know something and feel something that you haven't experience before.
Pick a task and work hard for it. Make sure you will sweat for it because when it's over... you will feel very happy and satisfied, you will see that working hard is not that really bad, it is not tiring and stressful. You just need to enjoy doing it and you will already feel successful.
Because hardwork will make you forget the past, it will solve your problems. Time will become very fast and you will be entertained. Any kind of problem that you have... if you work hard then it will vanish like a ghost that cannot be seen anymore. Keep working hard and you will become totally a different person, your beliefs will change, you will get results that you thought were not possible before.
So kill laziness now little by little by making a random act of hardwork. If you're just sitting on your couch doing nothing... stand up as fast as you can and do something that will either give you money or future. Do something that will develop a skill that can be use for some bigger things.
Any kind of hardwork will work, the idea here is you have to build a work ethic that will put you on a better position one day.
Never think about the results, never think about being successful so fast, just be fast in doing things, just be fast in making decisions and never take any second for granted. That is how to change your life, that is how to make results.
DO IT WITH A LITTLE PUSH
If you are doing something... do it with a little push. That will take you to another level. Work harder, make your self a little comfortable.. that is what pushing is all about, that is what getting better is all about.
It's not hard, it's just a little comfortable, but don't worry because it will give you better results, it will make you a better person. A little push will give you a little advantage.
If you are so comfortable... it means you are not pushing, you are not progressing. If you find yourself so relaxed... it means you're not growing. You need to force yourself a little bit. Make yourself do what you don't want to do. If your mind is telling you to stop... don't stop and just keep taking actions. It is fun, you will know how strong you are, your stamina will become stronger.
For example, if you are studying and you set your timetable of studying for 2 hours... study for 2 hours and 15 minutes or even 2 hours and 30 minutes. That will take you to another level, that will ensure that you are going to pass your exam. More information will be installed in your brain, how good was that?
Why are so people afraid to push?
1. They thought that it is hard.
2. They give pushing a complex meaning, it is just about going an extra mile. If you will run for 2 minutes then run for three minutes. It's only about doing better than yesterday or doing more than what you are suppose to do.
3. People thinks that pushing is painful, it is not that painful... it will only give you a little discomfort. If you keep pushing a little bit and a little bit then you will become great one day.
So if you want to become better than others... keep pushing. If you want to change your life... keep pushing. Do more, strive more. Not all people wants to push, they are so afraid of pushing that is why they are being push around.
Pushing a little more will change your life, it will give you a little bit of a stress but that stress is an ingredient for your growth.
It's not hard, it's just a little comfortable, but don't worry because it will give you better results, it will make you a better person. A little push will give you a little advantage.
If you are so comfortable... it means you are not pushing, you are not progressing. If you find yourself so relaxed... it means you're not growing. You need to force yourself a little bit. Make yourself do what you don't want to do. If your mind is telling you to stop... don't stop and just keep taking actions. It is fun, you will know how strong you are, your stamina will become stronger.
For example, if you are studying and you set your timetable of studying for 2 hours... study for 2 hours and 15 minutes or even 2 hours and 30 minutes. That will take you to another level, that will ensure that you are going to pass your exam. More information will be installed in your brain, how good was that?
Why are so people afraid to push?
1. They thought that it is hard.
2. They give pushing a complex meaning, it is just about going an extra mile. If you will run for 2 minutes then run for three minutes. It's only about doing better than yesterday or doing more than what you are suppose to do.
3. People thinks that pushing is painful, it is not that painful... it will only give you a little discomfort. If you keep pushing a little bit and a little bit then you will become great one day.
So if you want to become better than others... keep pushing. If you want to change your life... keep pushing. Do more, strive more. Not all people wants to push, they are so afraid of pushing that is why they are being push around.
Pushing a little more will change your life, it will give you a little bit of a stress but that stress is an ingredient for your growth.
MORE IS ALWAYS BETTER
It's always ok to do more rather than do less. More is more powerful than less. If you have a birthday celebration party... it is better to prepare more foods than just to prepare the exact number of food. You don't know the exact number of visitors so you should prepare reserves so that your party will never be ruined and you will not look poor. Don't be scared to do more because you can always use the excess. The leftover foods can be used again, you can eat it tomorrow or give it to your neighbor.
So if you are thinking about doing more... do it, do more. Don't be afraid that your efforts will be wasted. More is better than less, it will give you a better chance of succeeding. Work more, produce more... one is always better than zero.
So try more, risk more and hope more. Hopeful is better than hopeless.
So if you are thinking about doing more... do it, do more. Don't be afraid that your efforts will be wasted. More is better than less, it will give you a better chance of succeeding. Work more, produce more... one is always better than zero.
So try more, risk more and hope more. Hopeful is better than hopeless.
Oct 24, 2017
SUPERHEROES ARE NOT REAL
At the end of the day... you are the only one who can save yourself, no one will save you, no one will help you if you're at your lowest low. That's the reality and it's something you shouldn't be afraid of. Don't fall into the narrative that someone is there to save you or change your life. Don't put your life into the hands of presidents, governors, social workers, rallyists or even good samaritans... they don't exist. Maybe they are there physically because you can see them but emotionally and mentally... they will not invest their time on you. Superheroes are not real, you are the only one who can change your bum life. If you will not take actions and force yourself to do something about your life then nothing will happen to you.
A lot of people spend most of their lives waiting for someone that will not arrive, their hopes were dependent from an illusion that will never become a reality. Even if someone helps you, let's say that you got lucky and someone give you an assistance... your life hasn't change still. You're still the same person who is always waiting for someone who will make your life more comfortable. You will still always look for help because you don't have a self reliance.
Don't believe in a hero that will make you rich, stronger or better. You are on your own, it's your own strategy and decision making. You have the hands, brain, mouth and feet so why not use it?
The more you become dependent from someone or something... the more you will become weak. You have to use your own energy and skills to become stronger. It is you that owns your life so why will you wait for someone to decide for your life?
Act now and do something, you can always produce something if you do something. Take massive actions and make a forceful change with your life. Don't believe in super heroes because you are your own hero.. period.
A lot of people spend most of their lives waiting for someone that will not arrive, their hopes were dependent from an illusion that will never become a reality. Even if someone helps you, let's say that you got lucky and someone give you an assistance... your life hasn't change still. You're still the same person who is always waiting for someone who will make your life more comfortable. You will still always look for help because you don't have a self reliance.
Don't believe in a hero that will make you rich, stronger or better. You are on your own, it's your own strategy and decision making. You have the hands, brain, mouth and feet so why not use it?
The more you become dependent from someone or something... the more you will become weak. You have to use your own energy and skills to become stronger. It is you that owns your life so why will you wait for someone to decide for your life?
Act now and do something, you can always produce something if you do something. Take massive actions and make a forceful change with your life. Don't believe in super heroes because you are your own hero.. period.
IT'S IMPOSSIBLE TO GIVE UP NOW
I've done a lot of shits, lost a lot of money and opportunity for my dream. It's very impossible to give up now.
I've seen the worst, experience a lot of pain. I know there is something waiting for me if I don't give up on my dream. I grind, I work hard, I do everything I can to make my dreams come true, It is very impossible for me to give up now. Even if nothing good is happening yet, it's ok. I can wait forever. If I need to hustle forever so be it.
That's what hardwork can make you, it can make you a very persevering individual. Your mental toughness will grow into a different level. You will have pride in your journey, you will become proud of what you're doing and you ill never give up... ever.
But if you're just working softly... you will give up easily. It is because you don't have pride in your work, you just work just to tell people that you're working.
So if you don't want to become a quitter... work harder, give your best everyday. Never be scared of being tired, don't be afraid to fail. The idea here is you're making yourself tougher and your endurance longer.
Look at those people who keeps on failing and failing... they don't want to give up because they knew that one day they will become successful, they knew that it's just a matter of time before they taste success.
If you want to win, you have to extend the pain. You have to keep on feeling the pain of failing until you become successful. It's just a feeling, it's nothing more than that. Pain is just a feeling, it's just another emotion that will never kill you. It will only make you stronger.
Once you feel the pain over and over again, you will no longer be afraid of it anymore. You will just laugh at it, you will accept it with open arms.
I've seen the worst, experience a lot of pain. I know there is something waiting for me if I don't give up on my dream. I grind, I work hard, I do everything I can to make my dreams come true, It is very impossible for me to give up now. Even if nothing good is happening yet, it's ok. I can wait forever. If I need to hustle forever so be it.
That's what hardwork can make you, it can make you a very persevering individual. Your mental toughness will grow into a different level. You will have pride in your journey, you will become proud of what you're doing and you ill never give up... ever.
But if you're just working softly... you will give up easily. It is because you don't have pride in your work, you just work just to tell people that you're working.
So if you don't want to become a quitter... work harder, give your best everyday. Never be scared of being tired, don't be afraid to fail. The idea here is you're making yourself tougher and your endurance longer.
Look at those people who keeps on failing and failing... they don't want to give up because they knew that one day they will become successful, they knew that it's just a matter of time before they taste success.
If you want to win, you have to extend the pain. You have to keep on feeling the pain of failing until you become successful. It's just a feeling, it's nothing more than that. Pain is just a feeling, it's just another emotion that will never kill you. It will only make you stronger.
Once you feel the pain over and over again, you will no longer be afraid of it anymore. You will just laugh at it, you will accept it with open arms.
Oct 23, 2017
JUST CARE ABOUT THE MOMENTUM
Never care if you are succeeding or not, what matters is your energy is alive and your momentum for working keeps going. You need to keep the momentum alive, once you are moving and doing something for your dream... never kill it, maintain it and try to keep it alive forever.
Your momentum is the key to success, it will make you move, it will connect success and journey. If you feel that there is something good going on... keep doing it, it may not give you success yet but if you will keep on using that momentum then it will lead to better things.
Care about the momentum, care about doing things on a daily basis. If you are pursuing a goal, you should do something for it everyday. Never care if you are not seeing any significant impact yet, time will come and you will reap the benefits of your hard work.
Never let the momentum die.. ever. Once you start on something.. do it forever until you become successful, that is how to become successful like me. It's not about being arrogant but I've been busting my ass for 8 years in a row, I am not super rich now but I feel very successful because I have no boss and I can earn my own money without kissing someone's ass. And for me, success is about being free and being able to establish your own kingdom. I am free from traffic, I only do the things that I love like writing, designing and of course making money online. I gain my confidence by just keeping my momentum alive, I even work during Christmas.
Manufacture a little momentum now and try to make it bigger and bigger every single day. Once you have it.. take care of it and never let it go. Be a man who's on fire. Never let anyone or anything destruct you, just be yourself and give your best every single day. Don't ever make excuses that you can't work today because you're feeling bad... that shit is for the weak, are you weak?
There will be bad days, of course that will happen, nothing is perfect but you still need to keep working even if the pace is very slow. Every work counts, every work will create a little momentum.
Just enjoy the process and wait for success.
Your momentum is the key to success, it will make you move, it will connect success and journey. If you feel that there is something good going on... keep doing it, it may not give you success yet but if you will keep on using that momentum then it will lead to better things.
Care about the momentum, care about doing things on a daily basis. If you are pursuing a goal, you should do something for it everyday. Never care if you are not seeing any significant impact yet, time will come and you will reap the benefits of your hard work.
Never let the momentum die.. ever. Once you start on something.. do it forever until you become successful, that is how to become successful like me. It's not about being arrogant but I've been busting my ass for 8 years in a row, I am not super rich now but I feel very successful because I have no boss and I can earn my own money without kissing someone's ass. And for me, success is about being free and being able to establish your own kingdom. I am free from traffic, I only do the things that I love like writing, designing and of course making money online. I gain my confidence by just keeping my momentum alive, I even work during Christmas.
Manufacture a little momentum now and try to make it bigger and bigger every single day. Once you have it.. take care of it and never let it go. Be a man who's on fire. Never let anyone or anything destruct you, just be yourself and give your best every single day. Don't ever make excuses that you can't work today because you're feeling bad... that shit is for the weak, are you weak?
There will be bad days, of course that will happen, nothing is perfect but you still need to keep working even if the pace is very slow. Every work counts, every work will create a little momentum.
Just enjoy the process and wait for success.
JUST FIND A SMALL FAN BASE
You don't need to become super popular if you want your business to stay alive and give you some money. You just need to find a small fan base, a fan base that is true and will never leave you, a fan base that truly loves your work and will stay with you until the end.
How will you be able to find them? KEEP WORKING EVEN IF IT IS NOT WORKING. Eventually some people will notice you and appreciate you, your work will resonate with them and they will support you forever. It might need to take a very long time to achieve it but for sure you will have a fan base that will buy your products.
BE CONSISTENT. Work everyday, grind everyday. It doesn't matter if your product is not selling. What matters is you are working. Every work counts, if you will not work then your journey already stopped.
There will be some people who will and can appreciate your work especially if you are taking it seriously. So give your best everyday and strive to produce great products that are product of your blood, sweat and tears.
That small fan base will be build in just a matter of time. They will talk about you and talk to other people how good you are.
You don't need to become popular or number one, if it will happen then it will happen.
For the moment you need to build a small fan base that will serve as your backbone and foundation.
How will you be able to find them? KEEP WORKING EVEN IF IT IS NOT WORKING. Eventually some people will notice you and appreciate you, your work will resonate with them and they will support you forever. It might need to take a very long time to achieve it but for sure you will have a fan base that will buy your products.
BE CONSISTENT. Work everyday, grind everyday. It doesn't matter if your product is not selling. What matters is you are working. Every work counts, if you will not work then your journey already stopped.
There will be some people who will and can appreciate your work especially if you are taking it seriously. So give your best everyday and strive to produce great products that are product of your blood, sweat and tears.
That small fan base will be build in just a matter of time. They will talk about you and talk to other people how good you are.
You don't need to become popular or number one, if it will happen then it will happen.
For the moment you need to build a small fan base that will serve as your backbone and foundation.
BECOME WHAT YOU NEED
Become what you need... this is how to live a very good life, this is how to enjoy your life and get everything you need. This is how to become dependent and become fully responsible of what is going on with your life.
If you think you need someone to love you because you think you're always alone then simply love yourself. Become what you need so be the love that you are looking for for a very long time. You need love so be the love that you need for yourself.
If your business is going down and starting to fail and you think you need employees who will work harder to save your business... be that employee you need, be the one who will work the hardest. If hardwork is what you need so be it, be the hardwork. Don't look for someone else who will do it for you because you can do it for yourself.
What you need is what you need to become, if you want to become rich then be the money, be the rich that you are looking for. No one else will do it for you, no one can give you what you want other than yourself.
If you need a teacher then become the teacher, teach yourself, learn how to study by yourself and teach yourself what you need. It is too easy if you will become serious with it and endure the hardship of studying something.
You can become what you need, you can have everything you need if you will be it.
If you need a hero to save yourself then be the hero. No one will come for you if you have an ugly and losing life, no one will save you so be the hero. Change your life and save your life, because if not... who else will?
If you think you need someone to love you because you think you're always alone then simply love yourself. Become what you need so be the love that you are looking for for a very long time. You need love so be the love that you need for yourself.
If your business is going down and starting to fail and you think you need employees who will work harder to save your business... be that employee you need, be the one who will work the hardest. If hardwork is what you need so be it, be the hardwork. Don't look for someone else who will do it for you because you can do it for yourself.
What you need is what you need to become, if you want to become rich then be the money, be the rich that you are looking for. No one else will do it for you, no one can give you what you want other than yourself.
If you need a teacher then become the teacher, teach yourself, learn how to study by yourself and teach yourself what you need. It is too easy if you will become serious with it and endure the hardship of studying something.
You can become what you need, you can have everything you need if you will be it.
MAKE SOMETHING CIRCLING
Make something rotating, it is one way to have a pretty decent life. You need to make something revolving, it is like creating a round energy and letting it revolve around your world.
Just like money, if you're not working for a company then you need to make your money rotate. Use it, make it walk, make it multiply. Don't just spend it because rotation will stop if all you do is spend and not make it multiply. Make it work for you, if the money is not increasing then it's time to cut the spending. You can only spend again if the momentum is there again. You can only spend if your money is increasing, you should avoid having a zero balance because that is the time when rotation fully stopped.
Just like in developing a habit, you need to do it everyday, you need to do something for that habit or else it will die. For example, if you are wanting to learn how to draw... you need to draw everyday, do it over and over again or else the learning process will not rotate. Do something for it and never let the momentum die.
Just like money, if you're not working for a company then you need to make your money rotate. Use it, make it walk, make it multiply. Don't just spend it because rotation will stop if all you do is spend and not make it multiply. Make it work for you, if the money is not increasing then it's time to cut the spending. You can only spend again if the momentum is there again. You can only spend if your money is increasing, you should avoid having a zero balance because that is the time when rotation fully stopped.
Just like in developing a habit, you need to do it everyday, you need to do something for that habit or else it will die. For example, if you are wanting to learn how to draw... you need to draw everyday, do it over and over again or else the learning process will not rotate. Do something for it and never let the momentum die.
Oct 22, 2017
INVESTING IN BABY STEPS
Taking baby steps is the best investment. This is an investment where you have nothing to lose. You gain progress, you will become better, you will gain momentum and all you need to do is wait for the time when you will become successful. It's too easy, all you have to do is take it one step at a time, no need to rush, no need to get frustrated.
Just move and invest in baby steps. You have nothing to lose but everything to gain. Success is already guaranteed if you will not stop. It's always a win win situation for you. You will become a better person, you will become more patient, you will enjoy the process and just let life bless you slowly.
You will go there, I am telling you... there is no need to doubt the process. Just take it one step at a time and you will arrive in your desired destination.
A lot of people can't wait, a lot of people can't move, they were so impatient that is why they can't get anything, that is why they can't achieve anything.
It's ok to move slow for as long as you're consistent and not stopping. Take non stop action, don't be afraid to get tired. Patience is the key, you need to feel hopeful and motivated even if the results were not showing yet. Once day you will become successful and it will only happen if you will invest in baby steps right now.
Do something for your dream, do something little. Don't be shy, even if your work sucks... if you gave your best then there is nothing to worry about.
If you take an action then you already made a progression, you already did something that will make you one step closer to your dreams. Time is fast. Two years, five years... you will not even notice that you're too old. So if you want to start something, you better start it now, invest in baby steps... one day you're already there.
IT'S FUNNY BECAUSE YOU THOUGHT YOU NEED IT
You thought you need it, you thought you need that exercise machine you saw in home TV shopping, you were so excited when it arrived in your home, you use it for the first few days but after a few weeks... you are not even interested in touching it. You treat it like a normal thing with no use. And you will pretend that you are using it if someone asks you if you are using it so you will never feel guilty of buying it and make yourself believe that you didn't waste money.
The reality is you don't need it, you just became attracted when you saw it on the television, you found hope, you think it is the only think that will change your life. You think it will give you an extra motivation because you feel in love with it when you saw it.
It's just a waste of money because time will come and you will realize that you don't need to buy things to make yourself better. You need to develop your willpower to exercise if you want to have a good body, not the willpower to buy. You can have all the nicest exercise machines in the world but if you will not move then you're just fooling yourself. And even if you are using it for a very long time, let's say you are really serious and you are using it to make your body better... time will still come when you will feel like you don't want to do it anymore. You will lost motivation, you feel so lazy and tired. And that's what I am talking about, you need to develop your willpower to still move despite of feeling bad.
You don't need anything else if you want to make your life better. If you want to build a business... and you don't have a capital... don't use it as an excuse, you can still start a business even if you don't have a capital. Start small, don't start big because you don't have the resources to do that. Start small, work while doing your business. Work at the office in the morning and do business in the evening, is it possible? of course yes. And once your business is doing well and you have enough money to make it bigger... you can leave your work and concentrate on your business. Everyone is making an excuse that it is hard, that they don't have time. But if you will look at their lives, you will see that they have a lot of time doing stupid things.
You don't need what is missing in your life because you can always replace it with willpower, willpower can find solutions, willpower can make you move despite of lacking something. What you need is inside of you, you don't need to look for somewhere else.
The reality is you don't need it, you just became attracted when you saw it on the television, you found hope, you think it is the only think that will change your life. You think it will give you an extra motivation because you feel in love with it when you saw it.
It's just a waste of money because time will come and you will realize that you don't need to buy things to make yourself better. You need to develop your willpower to exercise if you want to have a good body, not the willpower to buy. You can have all the nicest exercise machines in the world but if you will not move then you're just fooling yourself. And even if you are using it for a very long time, let's say you are really serious and you are using it to make your body better... time will still come when you will feel like you don't want to do it anymore. You will lost motivation, you feel so lazy and tired. And that's what I am talking about, you need to develop your willpower to still move despite of feeling bad.
You don't need anything else if you want to make your life better. If you want to build a business... and you don't have a capital... don't use it as an excuse, you can still start a business even if you don't have a capital. Start small, don't start big because you don't have the resources to do that. Start small, work while doing your business. Work at the office in the morning and do business in the evening, is it possible? of course yes. And once your business is doing well and you have enough money to make it bigger... you can leave your work and concentrate on your business. Everyone is making an excuse that it is hard, that they don't have time. But if you will look at their lives, you will see that they have a lot of time doing stupid things.
You don't need what is missing in your life because you can always replace it with willpower, willpower can find solutions, willpower can make you move despite of lacking something. What you need is inside of you, you don't need to look for somewhere else.
WORK OVERDOSE
If you are planning to overdose yourself with drugs then why not just overdose yourself with work? it will make your life better.
People are using drugs, alcohol and any other substance to escape problems, but were they able to escape it? they are only making their lives worse by using those substances.
Why not kill yourself with work if you're just planning to kill yourself with drugs or any bad substance? with work you will achieve a lot, you will have more money and you can become really great. It's all about choosing what type of killing do you want. Do you want something that will make you rich and forget problems? or do you want something that will make you broke, forget your problems for a while and make it bigger in the end? It is up to you, really really up to you.
If you will be work overdosed then you will not die, you will only get better, you will only change your life and discover something that you haven't discover before. It's a win win situation for you if you do it. Unlike killing yourself with things that you think might help you forget your problems... you are only getting worse by doing it, you will lose direction in your life.
Overdose yourself with work and you will not worry about anything else anymore, you will feel great, you will forget your problems, you will have your own world that you're the king, you're the one who is in command. Everything in your life will change, the best thing about it is you will see a different side of you that you thought was not possible before.
Go ahead and do it, if you're going to kill yourself then just kill yourself with hardwork. It is the best thing to do, you will have a big chance of being successful. You will experience more in life, you can achieve greatness, how good was that?
Overdose yourself with hardwork and all of your problems were solved. You will not see small problems in your life anymore, you will not hear any noise, you achieve freedom, everything in your life will become very smooth. It's a pattern or lifestyle that is very effective that will give you power and fulfillment.
People are using drugs, alcohol and any other substance to escape problems, but were they able to escape it? they are only making their lives worse by using those substances.
Why not kill yourself with work if you're just planning to kill yourself with drugs or any bad substance? with work you will achieve a lot, you will have more money and you can become really great. It's all about choosing what type of killing do you want. Do you want something that will make you rich and forget problems? or do you want something that will make you broke, forget your problems for a while and make it bigger in the end? It is up to you, really really up to you.
If you will be work overdosed then you will not die, you will only get better, you will only change your life and discover something that you haven't discover before. It's a win win situation for you if you do it. Unlike killing yourself with things that you think might help you forget your problems... you are only getting worse by doing it, you will lose direction in your life.
Overdose yourself with work and you will not worry about anything else anymore, you will feel great, you will forget your problems, you will have your own world that you're the king, you're the one who is in command. Everything in your life will change, the best thing about it is you will see a different side of you that you thought was not possible before.
Go ahead and do it, if you're going to kill yourself then just kill yourself with hardwork. It is the best thing to do, you will have a big chance of being successful. You will experience more in life, you can achieve greatness, how good was that?
Overdose yourself with hardwork and all of your problems were solved. You will not see small problems in your life anymore, you will not hear any noise, you achieve freedom, everything in your life will become very smooth. It's a pattern or lifestyle that is very effective that will give you power and fulfillment.
CHASING ANY TYPE OF GOAL WITH ALL YOUR MIGHT IS GREATNESS
Greatness is not something that is special, to be honest with you... greatness is very simple, greatness is just a type of effort. It means pushing through, it means powering through and giving everything you've got to achieve a specific type of goal. All you need to do is give your very best, leave nothing on your tank, you must be super exhausted but you still keep moving... that is what greatness is all about.
CHASE IT WITH ALL YOUR MIGHT. You're stronger than what you think about yourself, you can always do better, you can push more, you will never know how great you are if you will never push yourself to the limits. Set your goal now and pursue it no matter what. Display greatness by using all of your power.
Greatness is not only about being successful, it is a journey, it is a forever chase with all your strength, Use all of your knowledge and wisdom, do everything you can do and never stop until you become successful.
Forget about getting it, just do your best until you're done. Greatness is a process, it is never a finish product. Be fast in moving, take calculated risks and endure the pressure.
You need to feel great before you become great, just feel great while moving, just feel great pushing your body and mind to achieve what you want in life.
So stop talking about greatness if you're not pushing yourself, stop talking about becoming great if all you do is talk. Greatness never talk about greatness, it is just happening, it is a commitment and a lifestyle.
YOU ARE STILL GREAT EVEN IF YOU ARE FAILING
If you will keep on trying and trying.. you're already great. Greatness is focus, it is a relentless pursue They can say anything they want because you're losing but just keep persevering and you will become successful in the end. Never listen to them because critics doesn't know victory nor defeat, all they can do is talk. They were bitter because they can't even try something great for themselves, greatness has a lot of critics and you should be aware of that.
Failing means you are trying, it means you really want it. If you fail and you try again then it only means you will get it, success is just testing you. You have to make your mind stronger than ever. It will never be late for you to chase greatness. Because greatness is all about chasing it, it is never achieving it, it is chasing it.
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