Do something that has a benefit in the end, not just something that will give you a temporary pleasure. Activities like shopping, plastic surgery, taking a vacation, playing easy games - these activities will only give you a short term happiness, it will not make you tougher because there is no stress attached with these activities.
Look for the things that you need to work and sweat but will make you very happy. Not just something that takes no effort at all. Because if you're happy without doing anything then you will feel miserable in the end, you will get lost, you will feel that something is missing and you can't figure it out. There is an empty space starting to occupy your life and you couldn't gt rid of it. No work means no happiness, you need to use your energy and mental strength, you need to feel that you're growing and evolving.
So if you're not really happy doing your work it means you're not evolving. You have to do something else. Look for a project that will make you grow, something that you have to sweat, something that you are passionate about.
It doesn't matter if no money is coming in, for as long as you're happy with it and you feel like you're improving then there is nothing else to worry about. Growth is the true definition of happiness, if you feel like you're not growing anymore then leave it, there is no reason for you to stay on it.
You know what is making you happy and you need to go for it right away, you know what will give you peace and contentment. There is a lot of room for regrets in your life, it is your duty to avoid those regrets. Live your life to the fullest and go for your dreams. Never settle for less.
So no matter what your situation is, even if it looks bad for other people, if you can be happy about it then it means your evolving.
Even if you keep on failing, if you are simply happy about trying and giving yourself a chance to win next time then you are evolving, your toughness is evolving, your character is evolving. So never judge your situation, judge how you feel about it. If you think you can't be happy with it anymore then leave it and try something else, something that will give you real happiness and not just delusional happiness.
Everyone wants to become happy but they don't know how to do it. It's simply going inside of yourself, knowing what you really want and pursuing it relentlessly.
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