MOVE ON

Move on, stop dealing with the past. Even if you cry a thousand river, you will never change the past. What is done is done, all you can do is live with the present and try to make the best out of it. If you will not move on, you will be stuck in the past, you will not be able to do things that will make your life better.

No matter how hard you try, you cannot change your history anymore. The only thing you can do is forget it or accept it. Always thinking about it will make you an unproductive person, it's stupid to always remember it because it's already a regret. It is making you weak and sick. The only past you need to remember are the happy ones, the ones that will put a smile on your face.

Your boyfriend that left you, the company that terminates you, the man that disrespected you at the parking area, your neighbor that is loud, the money that you lost, the game that slips away from your hands. All of the ugly past should be buried from the ground, it's done, it has nothing to do with your present anymore.

Most people can't reach their potential because they were badly hurt by their past, they always remember it, it can't be erased in their memory. For example, you made a mistake in what you do and people criticize you, you can't forget it that's why you don't want to try again. You don't want to get embarrassed again, you are more conservative now. You are playing safe and that makes you unsuccessful, that makes you unable to see the other things that are possible.

There is always another chance, there is always a next time, there is always an opportunity to become happy, don't waste your life and time thinking about the things that you cannot change anymore. Accept it and try to make your life better.

Any traumatic happenings can be erased in your brain if you will entertain a more positive one, not totally erased completely but you can 90 percent forget it, you can feel nothing about it anymore if you will accept it.

Look for the best things that may happen today, you can be happy today, appreciate that you're still alive. Don't well on the past too much because it will make you crazy, it will stop you from being successful. Even the happy memories... don't remember it too much because sometimes you are already comparing the present with the past, sometimes you just want to go back to your happy past and you are already ignoring the beautiful things that are happening at the moment.

You're a grown man now, move on, stop being a dramatic diva who keeps on going back to the past. Even if what happens to you is really tragic... forget it, try to discover the better things ahead. It's never too late to become happy, it's never too late to free yourself.