A lot of people wants to become successful so fast because they don't want to endure the pain, they kinda want it right away. They don't know that it's in the journey not in the destination. The real fun is in the journey.
Being successful so fast is good only if you can maintain it, it's bad because you're not ye ready for it. People who gets it fast usually go crazy. It's the because the right order of sequences is not right. You need to go crazy first before you become successful, you need to endure the pain, endure the critics, work a lot, endure the challenges and obstacles and then finally become successful. Once you face all the difficulty in life then it will never be hard for you to hold on to that certain level of success.
But people who became successful so fast didn't know how to handle it. Usually they become arrogant, they don't want to work anymore because they think that they were invincible and their lives will never change. They think that reaching the top will never require them to work anymore. What they do is they take their lives for granted, they act like bitches, they were not professionals, they party all day, they were very hard to deal with, they never take care of their money so in the end... they become broke, they don't know what to do anymore because they were completely lost.
Look at those celebrities who became popular so fast... once they feel that they were not popular anymore... they commit suicide or they destroy their lives with drugs. They can't handle their lives anymore, when everything is falling apart... they freak out. It's because they haven't felt that kind of pain before, they were so overwhelmed with that pain that's why they were completely lost, their minds were going crazy little by little. They can't accept the fact that they are not popular anymore, they were so dependent from the appreciation of other people, they love fans, they love the interviews, money etc. Their happiness were too dependent from outside, they don't know that real happiness comes from the inside.
Another example are people who make riches from some kind of a fraud marketing or something. They get rich fast because their products were selling but once their business is falling down... they suffer depression, they can't accept the fact that they are not earning money anymore. They can't make adjustment with their lives, they were blaming other people, economy etc.
So if you're just climbing the mountain now and you can't make a significant huge leap... don't get frustrated. The stress that you are experiencing is helpful, it is preparing your for success, it is making you tougher, stronger and wiser. So when you become successful... you know how to handle it, you know how to take care of it because you've seen the worst in your journey.
It's ok to get it slowly, it's ok to get it little by little. It will give you the right emotions you needed. If you fail a lot of times before becoming successful... it's a good thing because when you fail again, you will not experience emotional trauma anymore. You know how to handle it, you know hot to deal with it. It's nothing new to you anymore so you will be able to make adjustments easily, you can make a comeback easily because the right information and references was fed to you before.
Get it little by little, never get jealous with people who made it fast because you're still ahead of them. You're more experienced, you're stronger emotionally and mentally. Success is not a race, it is a marathon. Being successful is one thing, maintaining your success is another thing.
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