No matter how you change yourself, no matter how you try to be kind to everyone.. you will still not look kind to everyone. Someone will judge you, someone will still call you plastic or pretentious. It is so sad but it's the reality, you will never look like a saint.
Even if you give something for charity, even if you sacrifice big time for something... they will still judge you, someone will still get mad at you for no reason. They will mock you, criticize you, they will say something against your work.
It is what it is, you cannot please everyone, no matter how you change yourself and force yourself to do good things... someone will still not like you, someone will still contradict your ideas. And if you're too sensitive... you will feel bad, you will get mad easily.
The good thing to do is to just be yourself, if you're bad then be bad, if you're good then be good. Never care about what people might say, never care if they are against you or not, what matters is you do what you love to do without expecting something in return.
Accept that someone will always criticize you no matter what, even if you're the kindest, most inspiring person in the world... there will always be someone who will hate you for whatever reason.
But those hate will give spice into your life, it will add another flavor, it will make you feel something different. it's either you use it as a motivation to become better or you take it as something negative and you let it ruin your life.
A lot of people are there to hate, they will never banish, they will never diminish, their numbers even keeps on growing everyday. Accept that they will always be there no mater what, they will never go away.
Accept that this world will never become perfect, no matter how hard you work to do good things... the hate from other people will never go away. It is there to say, it is there to irritate you and make you feel bad.
Just ignore those hate, ignore those critics, ignore those jealousy from other people. That is the biggest challenge in life... to stay positive even if other people are so negative. If you're too good at ignoring them then you will never feel something about it, they are the ones who will even feel bad because they see that you're not affected at all.
No matter what they see of you or how they perceived you... just keep doing your thing. Even if they say bad and not true stories about you.. just completely ignore them, never mind about what they say. Your focus should be your life and your work, if you will give them any attention then you will only feel bad, you will become slow, you will never become successful in life.
People will always have something to say and your only responsibility is to ignore all of it and keep moving forward.
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