Sometimes being happy is all about letting something go, throwing away something that is blocking your flow.
If you can't find the right friends in your life then throw away all of your friends, isolate yourself if needed, the right people will come into your life if you will start to love yourself. You don't need to impress people nor please people, if your present friends is only making your life difficult then throw away all of them, just ignore them and live your life. I am sure you will become happier because the toxic friends were no longer around. You will feel lighter, you will see your real value and purpose.
What people don't know is they can walk away from something, they can always change their lives, they're just afraid to do it because they think that they will not become happier with their decisions. You can decide for your life, if you have a bad habit then you can get rid of it as fast as you can, just throw it and never do it again... as simple as that. Don't be on an auto pilot mode, be mindful and always be aware of what is going on, that is the key to controlling yourself and your life.
Change is difficult, it really is. Making decisions is scary but if you will just learn how to not think about regrets for every decision and action that you made then your life will become happier and easier.
Feel free to cut the people that is making your life miserable. Even if they are your cousins or close friends... cut them. Never feel bad about ignoring them. After all, they really don't like you because if they really care then they will support you all the way and never become an obstacle to your journey.
You have the power to throw away something, change something, get rid of something, not do it anymore. You have the power to stop what is irritating you or making you feel bad. It is your life, don't dwell too much on the negative side.
You can even control your mind, if it is all in your mind then simply get rid of the negative thoughts that is running inside of your head, get rid of them and just entertain the positive ones. Just one decision will change your life so do it.
Do it now, shave your hair, leave your job, change your body, change your lifestyle, change your thoughts. It is free to change, it is free to eliminate something. Sometimes changing your life is that easy, you just need to stop or get rid of something that is making your progress very slow. Cut out what doesn't motivate you, as simple as that.
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