You can change how the people treat you by being confident. If you will act like you can'd to shits then people will treat you like a shit. You need to become confident and assertive, this is a nasty world, this is a mean place, if you will always act like you can't kill an ant then people will disrespect you. It is what it is, you need to look tough and confident, you need to make them feel that you mean business and you're not playing around.
Stay relax and calm when you're talking to someone, be confident, be in the moment, be slow and don't act like you're rushing and staying away from the conversation. Never do stupid movements and mannerism that will make you look afraid of the situation. Just be yourself and never back down if there is an important discussion, express yourself and say what you wanted to say.
Being confident is all about embracing discomforts and forcing yourself to be yourself, don't try to act so fake, be real and show them what you got. Tell them the truth even if they will feel bad, tell them what you want to happen. Enforce your will and never be scared of anything that might happen. They may get uncomfortable with you too but it's their fault if you are overpowering them.
Always believe that you can nail it, always believe that you can get it. There is no room for weak believers in this world. Even the smallest things, you need to get it with all your might.
Being confident is simply a work and staying with the grind, even during simple conversations... you need to stay with it and never try to escape it.
Be confident to say what you wanted to say, be confident to fight if needed. If someone is playing you, don't be afraid to stop him or make him feel that you don't like what is going around.
KNOW WHAT YOU WANT AND GET IT. Push for it, get it even if it is hard. Get it even if it is uncomfortable. That's the true meaning of confidence... knowing that you will prevail in the end, knowing that everything will be fine and there's no need to panic. Just trust that you will become successful. If you really know what you want and you are willing to work for it then you will get it, as simple as that, no need to question your skills and abilities, no need to feel bad about your situation.
Have single minded mentality, just know what you want, be willing to work for it and die for it. Never settle for anything less, that is what it's all about.
You can even act like confident even if you're not really confident, just don't look stupid, ask if you don't know anything, be true and always show them that you are capable of taking actions, make them feel that you are here to get something and you will never go away unless you have what you want.
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