Being ready to lose doesn't mean you will not give your best and will take the moment for granted. It simply means you are loosing yourself up and you are not attached with the expectations or results. It means you are giving yourself the freedom and you are forgetting the outcome.
It will put your mind into a state of creativity instead of worry, you will feel better and stronger.
Winning is simply moving and taking chances, how will you win if you are so scared, conservative and aiming to become perfect all the time? If you will not take the risk then you will never win... ever.
Be ready to lose meaning losing cannot make you feel bad, a lot of people who are competing or pursuing a goal can't execute the right actions because they are so scared to lose, they are playing not to lose and not to win.
Make losing as a default and still give your best, think that you don't care about losing because you already have it and all you can have next is winning. Never be scared of how it feels like losing. Just simply do what you do best and let the results take care of itself.
Because if you have a nothing to lose mindset then it will be easier for you to take actions and become successful, there will be less resistance. You will feel so free and creative, you don't have an identity to protect and property to conserve. All you want is to win and if you don't get it... it's still not a big deal.
There will be less pressure on your side if you are ready to lose, you will become free like a bird, you will feel like flying.
It only means that you don't need to get attached with something so hard, it only means don't expect too much because it will only give you a lot of pain if you do it. Just be free and feel no shame in losing... that is how to cheat the game.
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