If you want to have a better life... you have to choose a boring life. A boring life is a life that is in control, you own your time, you have full control of your life, emotions, money and happiness. And even if you have a boring life, well at least nobody can tell you what to do. Boring life is defining your own happiness, you never follow the crowd, you put yourself in a position where you are in total control of the outcome of your life. A lot of people will think of you as a boring person but at least you are living your life in your own terms.
1. Party less, do what is needed to succeed. Choose studying or grinding over partying and having fun for no reason. Yes it is so boring to always keep working but what has the bigger benefits? is it partying or grinding? Don't worry because once you fall in love with working so hard and seeing yourself become successful little by little.. you will enjoy working hard, you will choose it over partying. It is just difficult in the beginning, you need to familiarize yourself with the process first, once you make hardwork as a habit... you will love it more than anything else.
2. Have lesser number of friends. If you have lesser friends, you will have lesser activities and that will make your life a little bit boring. But the benefit of having lesser friends is you have more true friends, almost all of the people in your circle are the people that you really want and true to you.
3. Don't work for a boss. Of course not working on a corporate world is boring, you will never meet new people, you are on your own but the good thing about this is you can become successful fast. Unlike in a corporate world.... you need 10-20 years to have a very strong position but if you are on your own... you can become successful in just 3-5 years depending on how hard you work and how strong is your focus.
4. Choose old school and minimalist life. Lesser stuffs, very simple things, very bold and straight mindset. You will have lesser problems, your mind will be free from toxic thoughts. Happiness is very easy to achieve, your standards in life is very low and that will make life very easy for you.
A lot of people thinks that having this kind of lifestyle is very boring because it has lesser activities and it is very different from the crowd. The truth is.. if you will choose this lifestyle.. you will become more happier and fulfilled, you will achieve goals so fast, you will know how good you are and what is possible for you. You will have lesser problems, true people will be at your side no matter what.
Being simple is cool if you really like it, this is not for everybody, it is just an idea how to live your life simpler, lighter, easier and more successful. Remember that you don't need a lot of things, activities and friends. All you need is know what you really want and get rid of what doesn't serve you.
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