A lot of people were having a miserable life because of regrets. They have a lot of regrets in their life, they think about past so much that they miss the good things in front of them. They were so sad, depressed and sometimes cannot even eat.
But what is regret? why is it so powerful. It is not because you fail or come up short that is why you are having regrets. You have regrets because you know you can do better but you didn't do better. You know you can do something but you didn't do anything.
Regrets will haunt you until the end of your life. The only way to stop doing it is change. Change your mindset, change your approach in life, change your attitude. Don't add something to be regretful again. Once you saw something that you can do... do it. Take as may chances and risks that you can.
Regrets will control you if you will always think about it. The truth is you will only regret the things that you didn't do. You regret it because you didn't see the extreme, the end or the climax. You didn't see a budding potential.
The best way to deal with regrets is to try to make your life better, try to live with the moment and once you see something that you can do... do it and never hold back. Try to fail as many times as you can, try to experience more of life. Because if you will feel that you are no longer stopping yourself from expressing or being great... that is the time when regrets will start to fade out of your life.
Just let it go, let go of the past. Never let regrets get the best of you or dictate your future and present. Just forget it and never blame yourself. Just appreciate what you have at the moment and never forget the lessons that you learned from those regrets.
Because at the end of the day... you should understand that life is not perfect. Everyone has his own regrets, even the most successful person has his own regrets, your life is not normal if you don't have any regrets. Just accept what happen and try not to repeat that pattern anymore.
Regrets is powerful, it will make you feel so bad about yourself so try to lessen the regrets that could happen in your life by doing what you need to do now before it's too late.
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