You can use everything for your growth or success. You can use both positive or negative, you can use anything. That is the beauty of having a vision and being single minded, it doesn't matter if what's going on is positive or negative, you can find a way if you have a clear vision.
If someone is doing some negative things to you... use that as a motivation, use that to fuel the fire in your heart to make your life better. User that anger not for destruction but for progression. Make your life so good that they have no choice but to give up on you because you don't care about them and all you are about is being successful. You can use other people's negativity to conquer any adversity. Use every critic or hatred as a motivation, never believe in what they say, keep believing in yourself and prove them wrong.
You can also use positivity for progress. If your parents or friends is giving you full support system then you should take advantage of it. You must use their kindness to get your dreams easier. Some people, if they have a lot of support... they get weak, they make wrong decisions in life because they knew someone is going to catch them and give them help. That is a wrong mindset, you should reward the people who were kind to you and give back the favor to them the moment you become successful.
It is your perspective that matters, you can use a negative energy to fuel your dreams and become more motivated. You can even see a negative situation as a blessing if your an optimistic person. You can use any kind of energy to your advantage and make good decisions in life.
If your professor or coach is yelling at you, you can use that as a motivation to hone your skills and become great so next time they can't yell you again. Some people will feel bad and lose confidence if someone yells at them while some people can use it as a motivation to become better. It really depends on what kind of person you are, you can be sensitive or you can be creative.
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