You think you can become powerful by feeling close to your boss, kissing his ass and making him coffee? do you think that guarantees you a promotion or regular position? I don't think so, if you give someone your power or making him superior... he can do everything to you including getting rid of you whenever he wants to. Don't ever think that by just being closer to someone who is in power then you're already safe.
If you will follow other people's commands just to ask for some favor in return.... you are making yourself look like an idiot. You are only showing your weakness and inability to become successful by your own terms. Don't let others use you or abuse you. Build your own destiny by believing in yourself and working hard everyday. Don't be a lazy bitch who just wants to be spoon fed. Because the one who is feeding might leave you in the future or might not treat you right, you will lose in the end. The worse thing is... because you don't know how to become successful by yourself... you don't know where to start and how to live.
It's not a good idea to expect someone to always be on your side because that creates weakness, that creates a weak mindset and your confidence will go down, you will never believe in yourself, you will never test yourself if you can do it or not. Relying on someone's power will make you powerless.
You can create opportunities on your own, you can create something for yourself without befriending someone whose in position. It's just a matter of making yourself really good and offering people a value that they cannot resist.
You too are powerful, it's just a matter of realizing your own power and potential. You have the ability to succeed and live life on your own terms and rules. If you will rely on someone's power, if that person becomes weak or fail... you will become a failure too, you will never have the strength to stand up on your own.
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