Mar 11, 2019

YOU STILL GAIN SOME STRENGTH EVEN IF IT DIDN'T WORK

Don't worry if your process didn't work yet, don't feel bad if it didn't give you any result because the truth is... you become a better person, you go to another level, you're a different beast than yesterday. Every time you work for something... you get better at it, there is nothing to be ashamed of. If you really give your best then you should be proud of yourself.

Just like lifting some weights. Your main purpose is to gain muscles, look bulky so that chicks will be impressed at you. But sometimes no matter how heavy the weights you lift... you can't still make any progress. But don't worry, you shouldn't feel bad because you became stronger, your muscles were harder even if it's not bulky and you become stronger, nobody can just shove you around and make fun of you. If you're lifting heavy weights everyday then you will become really stronger than anybody else, you will become stronger than a person who's bigger than you that's not lifting any weights at all. You may not look big but the truth is you can lift a lot of heavy things and not all people can do that. It means your efforts were not wasted because you still gained something. So just keep doing what you're doing, never give up because even if you're not seeing the results yet you're still getting something.

Another example is when you're looking fora  job. You pass the resume to a lot of companies, you're even doing the door to door job application. You wake up early and you come back home late without getting any job, you're so hungry, you're so frustrated and you're a little bit depressed. But you shouldn't be, you shouldn't feel that way because something is developing inside of you. You don't know that maybe it's just a training for you. Maybe you're struggling now so that when you get a job... you will never struggle non the work anymore because you've already been hardened, you already gained a lot of experience from just looking for a job. You become mentally tough, your hard work elevate to another level, your work ethic has a strong foundation already. It means you didn't fail at all because you become better mentally. If you can just power through and think that you're improving every time you take an action then you will feel more motivated.

You still gain some strength even if you're not succeeding. Just like a team who keeps on losing but is giving all their hearts on the competition. They may look like a loser for now but they were developing a strong attitude, it will develop everyday and one day they will learn how to dominate the game.

So feel happy if you're losing, it means you're still gaining something. Just keep working hard because one day the results will show up if you don't quit.

If you want to LEARN MORE how to control and manage your fears and anxiety click this link: https://payhip.com/b/lT9Q

No comments:

Post a Comment