If you can reject an offer and feel nothing about it then you already won. You may not earn money but you didn't lose money, the money is not yours from the very beginning, it's just an offer so you didn't lose anything.
People are so afraid to reject a bad offer because they think that they are losing something, they think that there is no better opportunity waiting for them. Don't focus on the lost, focus on the better opportunities that may happen.
Some people will abuse you, they will offer you a bad contract or project that is not matching your worth. If you know your worth then you should never accept a bad offer. If you are receiving bad offers, it only means that they feel that you are replaceable.
If you don't need them and you honestly feel that there is something more... never submit to their power. Sometimes they will increase the offer and give you what you deserve. The question is who needs who? do you need them or do they need you more? the one who doesn't need anything is the real winner, he will not feel bad, he will get better opportunities in the future.
Money is not an issue here, no one lost something. The issue here is who will feel bad if the no agreement was done.
If you can walk away from something and never feel anything bad about it... you already won, it's all about how you feel, it's all about feeling like a real winner. After all, if they really need you... they will treat you right, they will submit to your will.
But if you accept a bad offer even if you don't feel right about it...it means you need them more than they need you.
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