Being shy will make you unable to express yourself. You will have a lot of regrets in the end because you know you can do something and you are capable of succeeding but you didn't even try. Being shy means being weak, it means you are trying to stay perfect by avoiding making mistakes and not trying.
1. Forget about your identity. Stop identifying yourself as someone who is not entitled to make mistakes. You are allowed to make mistakes. The only reason why you are shy is because you are so afraid to get embarrassed, you feel you're perfect. You think you have a perfect record.
2. Stop being scripted. Just go with the flow, be genuine. Stop planning about how are you going to do it, how are you going to say it. Be authentic and show your true colors.
3. Be yourself. Show the best version of yourself, don't force too much, don't try to impress people. Just be yourself and show them what you got. Being yourself means you are not afraid to show your strengths and weaknesses. Be real and your shyness will go away.
4. Remember that you're not special. You're not a celebrity or something. No one cares if you mess up or not, nobody cares if you are doing wrong. You're not special, you're just an ordinary human who is allowed to express himself. You're just an ordinary guy, no one is expecting a lot from you so stop acting like you need to stay perfect all the time.
5. Nobody is looking at you so stop feeling like a celebrity. They don't even care. They don't care about how you look and what you're trying to do. You're not a hollywood actor, no one is looking at you so just do your thing and stop being shy because that feeling sucks.
6. Remember that your goal is to simply become happy. Everyday, a man's goal is to become happy. You will not achieve happiness if you are holding yourself back. Choose happiness over insecurity. Choose happiness over being conservative.
7. Blank your mind. If you can't think right then simply don't think at all. Blank your mind, erase all the negative thoughts. If your mind is not consume with bullshit thoughts then you will become a little bit confident.
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