IT IS THE RIGHT DIRECTION IF IT DOESN'T FEEL WORK

If you can find something that you will enjoy doing then you're already successful, but... you still need to think about your obligations, you still need to think about your financial status and the family that you have to feed. If you love skate boarding then go ahead and do it for the whole day but if you have children to feed and they are waiting for your support... you can't be doing that because you will have bigger problems in the end.

That is why if you are serious in something and you really believe in it... never have children yet, you have to focus in just one thing, is it building your family or pursuing our hobby? you can't pick both because you can't serve two masters at the same time, one has to go and the other one will remain. 

But if you will choose to just work and feed your family... you need to find a work that you truly love, it can be about selling skateboards or teaching children how to skateboard, pick something that is related to your hobby and at the same time will give you some money. It will be easier for you to work if you love your work because it will never feel like work, it is like playing and letting the time pass by. It is the right direction if it doesn't feel like work. 

A lot of people were so stressed because they were just forced to do something that they don't love just to earn some money, they will work at the office or maybe some kind of a blue collar job. There is nothing wrong with blue collar job or working at the office, what matters is you love your job and you're not forced to do it. Because an 8 hour work will feel like 16 if you're just forced to do it. It is a wrong direction because you really feel like you're working, your mind and body gets tired so fast. 

WHAT IF YOU DON'T HAVE CHOICE TO DO IT BECAUSE OF MONEY? 

Yeah it is true that sometimes you don't have a choice, sometimes you need to stop your real dream because of money. If you're an aspiring singer and you don't have gigs but children to feed... you need to do something else that will give you some money. You need to work on a grocery store, be a clerk or something. Again, there is nothing wrong with that, any work that is legal is ok. What matters is how you feel about it, if you don't feel good about it and you still have some other choice then stop doing it. But if it is the only choice available at the moment then you need to bite it, do it for the moment, think about your family and when you already find another better option then choose what you think is best for you. Sometimes it is not all about doing what you love and getting successful right away, sometimes you need to do what is the best for you and the people behind you. 

But it doesn't also mean that you need to sacrifice your dream forever. If you really want it then you just need to let it go for a moment and then come back to it when you already have the power to pursue it. When everything is ok and you think that no one will be affected then go back to your dreams and pursue it relentlessly. 

Because doing something for your dream and doing something that you really love will never feel like work, it is like playing something, it is like being a child again and figuring out how to win. It will b easier for you to become successful because everything feels like effortless.