USE SOME FORCE IN MAKING DECISIONS, BEING SOFT TO YOURSELF WILL NEVER GET THE JOB DONE

Sometimes you need to go hard, really really hard. Sometimes you need to be hard on yourself because being soft, being gentle will never get the job done. You are only developing a lazy habit by always doing that. If you need to slap yourself if you need to wake up at 3 AM then do it, go ahead, slap your lazy ass and once you're up... never go back to bed again.

Most people nowadays were too soft, they want everything to be handed to them. They were too dependent, they can't make themselves successful by their own efforts and decisions, they want someone who will pamper them. They need a mama or a protector, they need a hero to save their lazy asses.

Force yourself if you can't decide about something, force yourself to make decisions and start the first action. Because if you will keep waiting then nothing good will happen to your life, you will remain as a failure forever.

Because in reality you can get more and be more but you are so soft that's why you are getting less. It's time to enforce your will and be the person you wanted to be. Go hard, be tough and never settle for anything lesser than what you want.

Success is all about getting the job done and being soft and weak willed person will never give you something, you will just take what life is giving you even the worst options... you will take it because you feel like you don't have a choice anymore. You feel weak because you're not forcing yourself to take actions and take full responsibility of your life.

But you always have the choice to go hard, you always have the choice to force yourself and move faster, earlier and harder. You have the strength to do it, your energy is enough, you just think that you can't do it because you don't even want to try. 

THE FEELING OF WEAKNESS IS CAUSED BY... Inaction, as simple as that. If you will not move if you need to take actions then you will feel weak, you will feel little and powerless. All you gotta do is move and that's it, you're on your way to greatness or whatever it is that you are trying to achieve. Just try using a brute force if you can't move, be ashamed of yourself if you're not moving. Feel bad about yourself if you can do something but you are pretending that you can't do it because you are lacking something. Nothing is lacking in you, if your mind and body is operating normally then nothing is lacking in you. You just feel it that way because you're too lazy, you love making excuses instead of making a little progress.

If you feel lazy to day, it means you're not forcing yourself to do the right thing, it means you love getting zero results rather than forging a momentum. It means you need to rest more even if you already rested for 8 or more hours. You will only get energy by moving, you will never get it by resting.Resting a lot will make you weak even more. It will develop a lazy attitude in the long run. You can take a rest, 5-7 hours is enough. Once you feel that your energy is back... go back hustling and grinding, that is what it is all about.

Using force is only hard in the beginning once you fall in love with it, once you see the progress... you will never have a hard time forcing yourself again to take actions.