People have different minds, they will contradict you they will disrespect your ideas. It is what it is, you cannot please everyone, you cannot make them believe in you. The more you try to prove yourself the more you put yourself in trouble. And even if you're right... they will not believe you because they don't have an open mind, they simply believe what they want to believe so it's just a waste of time trying to prove yourself to them. Its' none of your business to listen to what they say, even if their opinions where somewhat disrespectful... just go back to your work and never listen to them.
The reality is other people can't mind their own business, they even think that they were better than you even if you're the one who's taking actions and they're not. They will act like they know something, they will even disapprove your right actions which is so funny. It is your responsibility to not listen to what they say and keep yourself busy with your own project.
YOU ALSO HAVE YOUR OWN OPINIONS. Sometimes you also contradict the ideas of others, sometimes you also think that you're always right. You also have your own opinions and not all the time you're right. So if you don't have anything good to say, just shut your mouth and stop offending other people. You have your own opinion, they have theirs, it is better to just focus on your own work so that you will never have an altercation with anyone.
The more you give them attention, the more they will mock you and criticize you. They will never shut up for as long as you're fighting them. The best thing to do is become successful, become big so that all of your focus will go to the positive side. Focus on your own journey and never care if they are saying something or not. Become bigger and bigger each day, become unstoppable. Never care if they are getting jealous with you, that is your revenge... to make them feel bad by being successful while they are getting worse everyday. Greatness doesn't care about the opinions of others. No matter how big the stone they throw at you... you keep getting better and better each day, you just don't care. All you care about is success and making your life better.
Opinions are just words, it's an ego creator. If you will not care about it then it will never affect you even for just once.
You need to develop your mind, develop your mental toughness to protect yourself from harmful words coming from different people. It's all in the mind, the more you make your mind stronger... the less punishment you will receive. An owner of a strong mind will become successful and happy.
Just deal with it, people will always say something to you, people will annoy you. If you're too sensitive then you will never have a peace of mind. This world is a war between strong and weak minded people, if you belong to the weak minded individuals then good luck to you, you will never last longer. But if you're mentally tough then you will survive any struggle and pain, you will be able to endure mockery, criticism and hatred from other people. Make your mind strong and you will control everything.
If you're too emotional and you always take things seriously then you will always be affected. Simple things, simple noise, simple offensive moves from people will make you feel bad. You will lose focus in what you're doing, you will give your power to them.
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