Everybody wants to become the best version of himself, well, who doesn't want to? being the best version of yourself feels like being successful and fulfilled. You feel like you already reached the pinnacle of success. You feel like you're on top and you are so powerful. You feel like number one, what a feeling!
But it takes a lot of effort to become the best version of yourself. You need some time, you need to be patient or else you will not become successful. There's a lot of work needed to be done, a lot of discipline and sacrifice. But don't worry once you reach the pinnacle, everything will become easy. Everything will be a breeze.
1. BELIEVE IN HARD WORK. Most people believe it but they don't apply it to their lives. If you really believe it then you must apply it to your life. Work as hard as you can and see what hard work can give you. If you're not making results yet it means you're not really working hard or maybe you're hard work is not enough, it means you still need to do something else, it means you need to add a missing ingredient and it's your job to find out what it is. Hard work is simple, it is hard but it is simple... just push through no matter what and don't be afraid if your time will be wasted for nothing.
2. DESTROY THE COMPARISON GAME. Never compare yourself to others, if you do it you already lost the game, you already lost in your journey. You're a unique individual and if you're not doing well not, it only means you still need to work on yourself, it only means you still need to make yourself a little bit better than yesterday. Stop comparing yourself because it will make your confidence go down. You have your own unique set of skills that will make you a winner. Stop comparing yourself now because it is only a wast if time, it will make you feel bad because you will always see someone better than you. Just focus on making yourself better, continue to hone your craft. Focus on the little progress that you are getting and celebrate the small victory that you can do everyday.
3. LOOK FOR SOMETHING THAT YOU CAN DOMINATE. There is always a place waiting for you where you can dominate. It can be small things or big things. You can dominate on something that will give you a strong confidence to win in life. If you're an basketball player, you can dominate on defense or offense. You can dominate on assist, rebounds, steals, points or even just becoming a leader. You can always dominate on something. Find a skill where you an be really good at and take it to a whole different level, practice it everyday and become the best in it.
If you're in business, you can dominate in calling different clients, you can dominate in simply being the hardest worker in your field, you can dominate in taking care of your brand and advertising it in simple ways like social media or even giving a business card to random strangers on the street. You can become the best in simple ways. Never underestimate the little things because it can create a huge impact in the future.
4. TAKE CARE OF YOUR HEALTH. Your health should always be in check, if you have a lot of money but your health is not good then you are in big trouble. You should have time for exercise even if it is just a little time. Take time to jog everyday for at least 30 mins or more, it is simple, just put your shoes on and run. Never think, just run. Eat healthy foods, you don't necessarily need to be a vegan or something. If you see a healthy food such as fruit or vegetables in the refrigerator... eat it. Drink a lot of water too, it is very easy but a lot of people don't wanna do it because they are too lazy and they think it is not effective. Drink 10 glasses of water for 30 straight days and you will see a big difference in your health. I tried this for a few months and I feel like stronger and more energetic.
5. DO SOMETHING THAT WILL GIVE YOUR SPIRITUAL ENERGY A BOOST. It can be going to church, meditating or simply reading a simple quote. This helps, it will make you a better person because it will give you a peace of mind. It will give you a different lesson in life. It is up to you to find out what is best for your spiritual energy. Any process will do, if you believe it then for sure it will work. Don't be shy of any process that will give you more spiritual energy, if it makes you feel good then you have to keep doing it.
6. SET A GOAL AND GET IT NO MATTER WHAT. Whether it is a big goal or a small goal... pursue it, get it no matter what. Do the impossible steps, try every process. If you will set a goal for yourself and give your very best then you will become a better version of yourself. You will become stretched, you will expand. You will have a hard time but that will make you tougher, smarter and wiser. You will be able to developed new skills, you will become more experienced on different things and that will
7. ALWAYS STAY HUMBLE. It is better than being arrogant, always stay humble so that less people will disturb you. If you are too loud and you can't prove it... people will come back at you and do the mockery. Just stay humble and work hard, there is nothing wrong with it. Being humble will make you attract less enemies and haters, less things will disturb you and that will make you more focus on yourself and the things that you are trying to achieve. If you are too arrogant then you will attract negative energies and circumstances, that will waste a lot of your time and drain a lot of energy.
8. HAVE THE TENACITY TO PUSH YOURSELF. If you will not push yourself then you will remain the same person as yesterday. What you can do now is not all you can do, you can always do better if you will push yourself. It's simply increasing your numbers, if you can do ten yesterday then do 11 now, make your numbers increase until you reach the point of exhaustion. Always be tenacious, don't believe that 10 or 11 is all you can do, you can make 20 or even more. Just be patient in pushing yourself and never be afraid to do more. Have the mindset that doing more is always your goal. people who can push themselves are the people who always thrive.
9. BE WILLING TO ENDURE UNCOMFORTABLE MOMENTS. You need to face discomfort and manipulate the feelings, always treat it as a blessing not a curse. Always think that uncomfortable moments will give you something in the future. It is just a feeling, it will soon go away. Feelings will always change, keep that in your mind. There are rewards behind those uncomfortable moments and you will only get them if you are willing to embrace the negative emotions that is happening inside of you.
10. ALWAYS REINVENT YOURSELF. Become unpredictable, reinvent yourself if nothing is working for the moment. Always try something new, try something that will give you a chance to become a better person. Reinventing yourself will make you discover more of yourself. You will see that you can do some other things that you thought were not possible before. Don't be afraid to reinvent yourself because that will give you happiness, you will become excited even more by doing that. You can change the color of your hair, make your tummy smaller, study a skill that will give you money, make your skin darker or whiter, enhancing your communication skills etc. Reinventing yourself means you are making yourself grow even more.
11. ALWAYS CREATE SOMETHING TODAY. Just do something, never waste a day. Never make this day unproductive because you are only wasting your life by doing that. Do something for your dream, do something for your goal. Even if the steps looks useless... still do it. Creating something today will make you a little bit better than yesterday because there is a production, there is a small victory. Never let this day be over without doing something significant to make yourself better. Anything you think will give a little something in return... do it. It can be a 25 minute run outside, solving some elementary math problems to sharpen your brain, selling something that you're not using anymore on ebay, continuing your musical lessons in violin etc. Do something today, don't just watch TV the whole day.
12. LEARN SOME FEW LESSONS IN LIFE. You can read books, you can watch a motivational video in you tube, you can visit a website that has a lot of life quotes. You need to learn some new lessons in life so that you will have a lot of reference when you experience something new and you don't know how to react on it. If you know a lot of life lessons then you will become mentally tougher, you will have the ability to adapt to any situation no matter how bad it is. Those lessons will give you confidence, it will give you the courage to face the different challenges of life.
13. FOCUS ON PROGRESS. Focus on progressing, you know if you are progressing or not. Just take small steps and you're already progressing, as simple as that. If you want to lose weight then just keep progressing everyday. Run everyday, eat healthy foods or don't eat at all. Moving is already progressing, if you will do something for what you wanted to achieve then you already made a progress. Small actions, baby steps. once inch forward - these are small progress that if you did consistently will make a huge impact in your life in the future.
14. TAKE RISKS THAT WILL GIVE YOU SOMETHING. Take risks that has a prize, don't take risks such as driving your car so fast and beating the red light so you will make it on time, don't take stupid risks like that. Never take risks like gambling and throwing away all of your money, that is a stupid risk again. Take risks that will make you a better person or will improve your life, risks like establishing your own business or asking your boss for a promotion. Take risks that s dangerous but will never make your life worse.
15. STRIVE TO BECOME FINANCIALLY STABLE. If you want to become better, you must have money, as simple as that. You need money to support your dreams and ambitions. You can't just be pretending to be kind and expect that the world will also be kind to you. You need to get money on your own, lean some skills how to get money. The more money you get, the more you are giving yourself the position to become a better man. If you are financially stable then you will become more creative, you will have more freedom to try different ideas that will give you money. Your worries about money will go away and that will give yourself a bigger room for improvement.
16. FACE SOMETHING THAT SCARES YOU A LITTLE BIT. If you are scared of working hard then face hard work. If you are scared of rejection then put yourself in a position where you can be rejected. Always face something that scares you a little bit. Have fun facing your fears. If you are scared of asking a girl for a date, go and ask her on a date, don't be afraid to get rejected. Once you face those tiny stupid fears, you will never become scared of it anymore, it might scare you still but your courage will still become triumphant in the end.
17. ADMIT THAT IT'S YOUR FAULT. Admitting that it's your fault why your life is not better than yesterday will make you more responsible. It will develop your self reliance and awareness that your life is only created by you and no one else. Because it is really your fault why you're not happy and always failing. Who is the one who become lazy? it's not them, it's you. Who's the one who did stupid decisions from the past? it's you. Once you admit that it's your fault, that is the only time that you will do something about your situation.
18. AVOID BEING A QUITTER. Work until the end, fight until the end. Avoid being a quitter because once you do it... you will do it multiple times and that will never make you a better person. Once you set the bar so high... do whatever it takes to get it. Never quit if the going gets tough because those challenges will only make you a better person. It is hard but the prize behind it is bigger. Don't quit ever, work until you become successful. Never believe in people who are asking you to quit because they will never achieve anything in their lives.
19. ALWAYS FOLLOW YOUR HEART. Whatever happens, always follow your heart. Follow it where it may lead you. It is always right, it is the truest path in the world. It will never fail you and it will make you very happy no matter what. Follow it and you're already a better person because you are being true to yourself and you're following your intuition. A lot of people earned a lot of money but they never follow their heart so they still feel like a failure in the end, they still feel incomplete.
20. IT'S OK TO IMITATE BUT ALSO TRY TO BE AN ORIGINAL. Try to become original sometimes, just try it. Even if you look ridiculous, try it. Doing it will make you know who you really are and what are the things that you can do.
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