Control yourself and you control everything in your life, control your mind, actions and reactions. The truth is you will never be able to control everything around you, even if you are powerful... someone or something will b against you.
All you can do is control yourself, control how you feel and control what you think. Life is not perfect, there will always be disturbances around you, some people will disrespect you, some people will not treat you right. It is normal, if all people are kind, if all people are quiet, if all people will be kind to you then it will be a boring life. Sometimes you need a competition, sometimes you need to experience a variety of discomfort so that you will become a better person, so that you will see how patient you can be.
You need to control your emotion, if you can control how you feel then you already won. You will be at peace even more, you will make the best decisions in life.
Just entertain the right thoughts when you feel that everything around you is being mean and disrespectful. Just think about something else, think that what happening is only making you stronger because you are not fighting it, instead you are embracing it.
Every tension, argument, stress, discomfort will go away in just a matter if time. It is not here to stay forever. Just endure it and entertain yourself with some other things.
Always remember that you can control your thoughts and emotions, you are always in charge of how you feel. You think that other things and people are the root of your bad emotions but they are not, you are the one who allow yourself to feel bad by being weak and too sensitive.
You have to be tough if you want to survive in this world, this world is a nasty place. If you are so sensitive and too emotional then you will always be a loser. A real winner is always in control of his thoughts and emotions, he is always aware of what is happening in his system.
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