LOOK FOR THE INTANGIBLE BENEFITS

Traffic has a benefit, living in a place that you don't like has a benefit, unfair treatment has a benefit, failing has a benefit. You just need to look for the intangible benefits. You may not touch the benefits but it is still a benefit, it can still contribute to your growth and success.

The benefit is... you will become mentally tougher. Your mental game will rise to a new level. It may sound corny, it may sounds unreal but it is true. If you're living in a tough environment you will also become tough. Because you have no choice but to be tough or else people will eat you alive, the system will kill you if you can't adapt. 

If you can endure any uncomfortable feeling and see the positive side of it then you will become mentally tough, you will be able to endure any kind of pain and stress. The next time you feel any of it... you will never become bothered with it anymore. 

The intangible benefits are endurance, mental toughness and being more positive in life. The traffic, the critics, the unfair treatment, the disrespectful behavior from other people... if you can ignore these bullshits and still live a positive life then it will be easier for you to become successful. Because the next time you experience any of them... you will just laugh at it. 

It is because you are more focus on the positive side of life, you don't want to give an attention to negativity and that is a great thing.

So don' ever feel bad during uncomfortable moments, embrace it and stay tough. Embrace it and still think positively. 

Any discomfort will be gone in a while, remember that it is not there to break you, it is there to make you tough.