KNOW YOUR REAL FOCUS

What is your real focus? what is your real goal? because sometimes you know what you want but you are looking at some other things.

If you set a goal then you should pursue it. If you're in a corporate world and you want to become a manager what should you do? of course work really hard, become the best that you can be and try to impress your boss. Do something that other people can't do, show them that you want that position so badly. You should not focus on critics and other people that is pulling you down. Even if it is obvious that some people are fake at you and trying to sabotage you... just keep working, never confront them, never spend energy on them because that will only make you weak, that will only slow you down. Your goal is to become a manager right? so your focus should be becoming a manager and not any other things that is only derailing your progress. Even if they try so hard to break you, never give them any attention. You should have a laser focus on getting what you want and think about it 24/7.

Because if you will do some other things, if you will deal on your anger then you're not focused anymore. You are only sabotaging your own dreams if you focus on the negative things.

If your focus is to make a lot of money this year then make a lot of money this year. Do something that you think will give you some money. It means you need to work extra hard, it means you need to do something special, something that you haven't done before. If a little thing can disturb you like your fake friend who is always borrowing money from you then you will never achieve your targeted number. You will fail because you are spending your energy for non sense things. If you need to take a risk and you're afraid to take it, again your focus is not on the money again, your focus is already on your fears. You should know what you should be focusing upon. You should see what you wanted to see and do what you need to do.

It is a commitment, it is a discipline. If you want something then you should only do something for it, never do anything else outside of it or else you will never win in life. It's like tying your life on it and being a prisoner of your dream. It is hard but the more focus you are, the faster your dreams will become true.

Sometimes some other things are taking away your dreams from you little by little. You don't notice it because you're enjoying negativity too much. You love simple entertainment that will not even bring you closer to your dreams. You think that it's alright to waste a little second or a little time. But in the end you will realize that those little time if added together will make a huge impact if used wisely.

KNOW WHAT YOU WANT AND THAT'S THE ONLY THING YOU SHOULD BE THINKING ABOUT. It's the only thing that where you should place your energy and time. Yeah, it feels like you're wasting your life because it is too boring but it is what it is, the fun is the end, it is not in the beginning nor in the middle... the fun and celebration is always in the end. A lot of people were having too much fun in the beginning but in the end they were miserable because they were failures, they didn't pursue their dream, they don't focus on what they really want instead they focus on what they slightly want.

YOUR LIFE WILL BE A CONSISTENT PUSH. You will push yourself no matter what, you will do whatever it takes to win because that is the only way to win if you're dreaming about becoming a big time. It is a forever push, sometimes you will feel like it has no ending. It is a forever sacrifice so you need to train yourself to become a master of enjoying sacrifices. Because if you will not do it, nothing will happen to you, you will remain the same bum forever. There will be times when you don't want to take actions anymore but you have to conquer that feeling and turn it into motivation. You must fool yourself and pretend that you're always motivated to take actions.

LEARN HOW TO ENJOY BOREDOM.

It is what it is, you have to enjoy boredom, you have to isolate yourself if you needed to in order to gain more progress than yesterday. You will have to separate yourself from the pack. While they are celebrating for nothing, you are punishing yourself just to manufacture a little bit of a momentum. While they are eating you are working, while they are playing you are working. Because you have to do what other people aren't willing to do in order to gain some advantages in life. Don't worry because you will not do it forever, it feels like forever but you will see the light at the end of the tunnel in the right time, you will become successful one day and that is if you endure the boredom now. Not only today but also tomorrow and the next day and the next day until you finally become successful in life.

YOUR REAL FOCUS SHOULD BE YOUR LONG TERM GOAL. Not the temporary pleasures, not the instant gratification like partying, drinking and doing non sense activities. Your focus should be your long term goal because it is what you really want, you just can't do something for it consistently because you easily get tempted by the easy to do things that will only make you happy for a very short time. What you really want is hard to get, you just can't admit that you want it because you are so scared to make sacrifices, you are so scared to get bored for a very long time.