I was like this before.. I thought that everyday I must have fun or else I am just wasting my life. Most people have fear in not having fun, they thought that life is all about fun and feeling good everyday.
But that is not what life is all about. Life is simply embracing every situation, it's ok if you're not having fun with what you're doing. It is what it is, this is called LIFE, sometimes it is hard, if you don't want to experience hardships then you are not ready to face life.
Some people don't want to do something because they think that it's not fun. They will not do it even if they have to do it, and that makes them unhappy even more. Look at the kids who were sent to school by their parents, they don't want to study, instead they are doing something else which is more fun, and when they grow up... they end up being a broke. They were caught in this idea that in order to become successful you must really love what you are doing, yes it is true in some ways but you have to have a direction, you have to have an idea. You can't be just playing around with everything and expect to become successful.
Sometimes you need to do what is not fun in order to have more fun in the end. Sometimes you need to work super hard and almost kill yourself to have more money to use for leisure. Sometimes you need to sacrifice in order to buy what you want.
If all you want to do is have fun then you will become broke in the end, you will become unhappy in the end because you have no resources anymore.
It's not fun to make sacrifices but if you become successful then you will become happier in the end. Yeah, you can have a lot of fun now, you can do what you want but in the end it will come back to you, you will get lost, you will get broke and depressed.
Life is emotions, it's not only about being happy and successful. Sometimes you need to face the difficult feelings first in order to become very happy in the end.
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