The best way to live you life is to not be controlled by others rather be controlled by yourself. Something or someone is controlling you, because you are giving them too much emotions. They are making you angry, excited, horny, jealous, mad, happy or sad that is why they can control you anytime they want. You're addicted to emotions that they made you feel that's why even if you don't like them they are still in power, they can change your emotion or mood anytime they want to because you assign a very high value to them. Even if they are your enemies, they still have a big value to you because the can make you feel bad in just a matter of seconds, you angry at them, you want to prove something to them, you want everyone to know that you are right that is why they are winning over you and you're being a victim for a very long time. If you don't want to be controlled by anything... never give it any value, never react to it, never give it any emotion and time. If you can devalue anything then you will become free as a bird, nothing can ever hold you down. If you want to become cold just stop giving value to anything that is hurting you. You can become like a rock that doesn't feel anything if you want to, it's just a matter of training your mind and not giving too much priority to your emotions. At the end of the day it's not the subject that hurts you, it's your perception of the subject. Never give it any value, never make it a big deal, never think that it is too important. The most important thing is your mind, control your mind and you will have more power, control your mind and you will control your life, as simple as that. Nothing can control you if you're not invested on it, you're too serious about it that's why it's making you mad, what angers you is your master because you will do a lot of stupid things but the person who angers you isn't even doing something. Choose to become cold and still all the time, be like a rock, train yourself to become calm and relaxed even if something is stressing you out, stop reacting and start creating. When you are creating you are busy and you will no longer have time for subjects that doesn't even matter at all. Anything of no value can become valuable if you are giving it too much time, importance and energy. An enemy that is poor, lazy and useless will become powerful if you're giving him too much attention and emotion. A simple ugly shoe can make you feel something if you will see it as something valuable. Something is expensive or hard to get if you're respecting it too much. But if you will assign a lower value to something that is bothering your mind then it can no longer bother you, it can never affect you emotionally. This is a mind game, learn to trick your mind, learn to assign value to anything.
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