I am not a believer of this idea before, I don't even want to buy it but one day I begin to realize that the process is the only think that will make you happy.
Come to think of it... why are there some superstars in sports that are not happy anymore after retirement? some goes broke, some goes depressed, why is that? they are successful, they are rich but why it looks like there are some things that are missing in their lives? it is because they don't know what kind of process to do anymore. They are lost, they don't know what to do anymore.
Before, they were training so hard, practicing so hard and pursuing championship so hard. But after those achievements they became lonely, why is that? because they were tricked from the very beginning. They thought that success is the only thing that will make them happy.
Whey are there some very successful people who are not stopping? why they still wanted to get something? they are not greedy, some are very generous. It's just that they know that the only thing that will make them happy is the process. They are still in love with the process. They knew that if they stop then that is the beginning of misery in their lives.
So if you really want to become happy... set a goal and fall in love with the process. Success is just a bonus, the real success is you're having so much fun with the journey. You will get what you deserve in the end, you will get what is meant for you. But for the meantime... just stick with the process and never get tired doing it.
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