Sometimes you think that what gives you happiness is what you can appreciate. You think that riches, houses, money, nice cars, fancy shirts, kind people, good life and good food are what brings happiness into your life. But it's not, it's what you can endure that gives you the real happiness.
If you love you partner and you are always fighting, do you think it's nice? do you think it's happy? but the truth is... it is real happiness. You love your partner, she is making you happy so you have to endure the fight, stress and hurtful emotions that you get from that relationship. It's painful but you are willing to endure it because it is giving you happiness.
That's why a woman who is being abused by her partner can't decide to leave her partner. In some ways she can endure the pain because she is happy with it. She is happy living with her partner even if it is not good to her life anymore. You may see that she is in pain but she is happy with it even if she deny it.
If you have a dream and you are following it, even if you are failing a lot, even if people are laughing at you you endure it because it gives you happiness. The pain of the process is giving you a bliss that you can't explain, even if it is hard you endure it still. It's what you can endure that gives you the real happiness.
So if you are being bullied by someone and you're not fighting back, it means you're happy with it because if not... you will stop the bullying right away. You can endure it so it means you're happy whether you like it or not.
Happiness doesn't always mean laughter and smiles. Sometimes it has something to do with pain. You are happy enduring the pain because you think that it's the best choice remaining.
Poor people are happy being poor because they can endure it, they don't want to change their situation, they are happy being lazy... just saying.
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