Many people were asking me what is the right or wrong timing? they were too hesitant to try something because they don't know if their timing is right. I've been telling them repeatedly that there is no wrong or right timing for as long as you will keep trying again for one more time once you failed. If you will consider something as a long term then you're not having a wrong timing, you're just starting.
A wrong timing is when you're just trying to get lucky and you have no intention of making it as a long term. For example, a wannabe singer who is not prepared will make an audition to american Idol... that is a wrong timing. That's why a lot of people turns out to look like clowns is because they didn't prepare. They just dream of becoming a winner so fast without having to work hard for it. They don't know the basics, they don't even show some signs of potential but they were expecting to win right away. Some singers didn't even have history of singing everyday but they were trying to win big time. That is the wrong timing... when you're just trying to get lucky without preparing for it. It's ok if you will try right away without having any experience but again... never think that you're going to win because you will not, consider it as a stepping stone and keep in mind that you will have to follow through, you will have to work hard after failing and keep pushing until your dreams come true.
Another example is a person who starts a business who have no idea of what he's doing, that is a wrong timing too. He will get lost, he will never get overwhelmed, he will get frustrated if his business is not clicking and his money is running out. The result is he will quit, he will do something else. It's ok to start right away without knowing something but make sure you will never expect to win right away, just think of it as a learning curve, consider it as a chance to know something and get some experience.
You're in the wrong timing if you're trying to win without working hard for it or preparing for it. If all you want is to get lucky then that luck will never happen. Luck will come to those who works hard and prepared for an opportunity. Again, there is nothing wrong in being risky but your mindset should be... it's just an experience and you are just weighing on things and scouting if you can do it or not. It's ok to be on a wrong timing for as long as you will try again for the next time, work hard and prepare hard.. the next time can be the right timing for you.
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