SOMETIMES YOU CAN THINK BETTER THAN THE GREAT ONES

Never underestimate yourself because sometimes you can think better than the great ones. You can invent something, you can be more creative. It's not that you're greater than them but sometimes you have an idea that will beat their idea. For example in basketball, Kobe Bryant invented the Mamba mentality, you too can invent something better than that. What if you invented the cobra mentality or gorilla mentality? do you think it will work? it will work if you will put an effort into it. It can beat the Mamba mentality if you're obsessed on trying to make it work. It's all up to you if you want to make it work or not.

The Wright brothers invented the airplane what if you invented the space ship? everything is possible. But make sure you will work for idea, don't just brag to everyone that you have a great idea but you will never work for it in the long run. Remember, no matter how much your idea sounds good... it is still useless if you can't make it work, the world wants to see results. The world is already sick and tired of hypes and wannabes, they world needs to see something that is for real. Once you have an idea, try to make it work and do everything you can to prove it.

Me, personally my idea is to stop thinking too much and just keep moving towards my goals and dreams. It made me feel good all the time. I am forgetting my problems, I am focus on taking actions, I never focus on complaining too much. It works for me, I am getting successful little by little and my life is in good direction. I don't want to think anymore, I am a doer, I commit to move forward all the time. Most people were thinking too much, they were talking too much so I decide to go to a different direction. I just want to keep moving forward all the time regardless of what might happen.

BE THE AUTHORITY

Don't be afraid to try even if they call you crazy or arrogant. Once you feel something in your heart and there is a burning desire... express it, set yourself free. Don't be afraid of what people say, it's normal to get criticized, what matters is you try your idea and you really believe in it. Go ahead and shock the world, go ahead and implement your own idea, never let it die, never let it be forgotten.

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THE FAVORITE IN OUR HIGH SCHOOL DAYS LOOKS LIKE A BUM TODAY

I always get jealous during my high school days with my classmate because he is the favorite of out teacher. Our teacher is always praising him, she said that my classmate is going to be a star one day, she even compared me to my classmate and tell me that I am nothing compare to her favorite. Of course I got mad, I was only a teenager and I don't know how to handle emotions. I was embarrassed, my other classmates thinks that I am a bum and I will never have a bright future. I will never forget that incident.

One day our high school reunion finally arrived. Me and the student that I am being compared to during high school days meet, we both say hi to each other and talk about our careers. I found out that he is not even a boss or an entrepreneur, he is working for a small company and he really hates his job. We're already 38 years old and that person still has no direction in his life, he makes a lot of excuses, he is blaming a lot of things and people, I immediately feel that he has a lot of regrets and he is not happy with his life. I said to myself... I thought this kid is going to have a bright future, what happened to him now?

Success is not really about hype, they can telly you that you have a bright future ahead of you, they can tell you that you're going to win but if you don't work hard to grow your talents then you will never succeed.

The best revenge is massive success, ignore the haters, ignore the people that tells you you can't do it. It's all in your hands, nobody can predict the future. You can become successful if you want to just never listen to people that is putting you down, they don't know anything about your heart, they don't anything about you.

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YOU KNOW WHAT'S NEXT KID

Ok, you've done partying last night, you already rub elbows with your so called friends. You already wasted a lot of time. You already tasted some pleasures, you know what's next. You already have some fun, you made yourself believe that you need something that will take away your stress. Ok let's agree with that, now what? you know what's next, you know that you need to go back to the grind. There is a time for being lazy, there is a time for pleasures but there is also a time for hard work. Go back to the grind right away if you don't want to lose your momentum.

You can have fun, you can waste time for a bit but never forget to go back to hustle. Because if you will not then you will lose your momentum forever, you will lose the sight of success. Sometimes it's ok to give yourself a break, it's ok to give some time for pleasures but never get lost, never get addicted to rest.

Some people will work so hard, I mean really really hard and when they give themselves some rest... they lose their momentum, they lost the habit of working hard. That will happen if you get so comfortable... you will lose your way and it will be very hard for you to make a comeback.

The best thing to do is work a little bit after partying, work a little bit before going to sleep so that your mind will switch back to working mode, do it so your body will no longer be in a party mode. Work a little bit, if you can just open your computer and look for what you've missed... do it, at least you already forced yourself to go back to work a little bit.

BE fast in switching state, if you're lazy earlier force yourself to become a hard worker again, master handling your emotions, master forcing yourself to work even if you really don't like it. Your body is a slave to your mind, anything that your mind think... the body will follow. So work right away so that motivation will come back fast and you will return to beast mode again.

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THE FASTEST WAY TO BECOME SUCCESSFUL

Each one of us were looking to become successful fast, it's in nature of a human being to look for success without having to work hard for it. Who wants to work hard? only ants were having fun working hard.

The fastest way to become successful is to appreciate what you have and learn how to work hard, have fun working hard like the ants. Treat hard work as a normal day, don't make it a big deal, make it as your culture. BE satisfied with what you have, never complain and try to grow everyday. That's how to become successful fast, it's all about enjoying the process and not looking at the things that you don't like. Don't look for what is missing in your life, focus on what you're trying to accomplish and simply have fun in your journey.

Success is all in your head, if you're having fun with the journey and you're not comparing yourself to others and you're not bothered with other people's lives then you're already successful. It is very simple, do something positive and keep going. If you're chasing success and you're loving each moment while chasing it then you're already successful. Because you will get there, it's just a matter of time before you get there.

Be patient, have fun along the way because if you're not having fun then you will become frustrated, you will feel like success is not coming but if you're having too much fun out there... it will feel like success is getting closer and closer to your life. It's all about how you feel, it's not about the money, it's not about fame and cars or houses... it's about how you feel, if you really feel good about it and you appreciate your daily life then you're already successful.

Don't get jealous with other people's success, focus on your own life, focus on what you have and try to grow it as much as possible.

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THE GAME PLAN IS TO ALWAYS FEEL LIGHT

If you want to make your life easier then you should always feel light, what I mean is... there should be no hesitation at all. There should be no worries after all. If you have a goal chase it, if you have a job do it, if you want to ask a girl out on a date.. do it. Feel light, feel like a worry less human being. Drive during traffic, don't be scared of the resistance, don't be scared of pain and stress... that's how to feel light.

Go all in with the situation and never think that it's hard. Enjoy every single second of your life because the moments that passed will never come back anymore. Feel light on your journey like an eagle soaring above the skyl, like an ant that doesn't care if he can still comeback in his cave. Just work and give your best, endure some pain, enjoy the difficulty and simple keep moving forward.

Life can be so much easy even if it's difficult, the idea here is to feel light. You don't need to drag yourself every now and then, just make a commitment of moving forward all the time. Know what you want, what you really really want and go towards the direction of it. Focus on what you're doing, try not to procrastinate too much. You can gain a lot of success by feeling light, stay calm during tight situations and always look for improvement.

If you want to ask someone go and ask her, if you want to buy something go and buy it, just make sure it is important and you have an extra money later, if you want to exercise then exercise. DO one task at a time. Feel free all the time, enjoy every second that you're taking an action. Life will become heavy if you're thinking too much. Don't think about the results, don't think about what might happen next. Feel light during pressure times, feel light even if you're scared.

Go hard but never get hard on yourself. Once you fail... forget it fast and move forward right away. This game plan will work on you, you will enjoy it once you mastered it... feel light doing anything with your life.

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YOU CAN IMPROVE ANYWHERE, ANY TIME JUST USE YOUR TIME

The best thing about improvement is it can happen anytime, it can happen anywhere even if you're doing something else. You can still improve if you're not taking actions or if someone is stopping you. All you have to do is pay attention to details. For example... if your coach is not using you in the game and he has no intention of using you for the whole game... you can still improve by watching and visualizing that you're there. Just accept that you will not enter for tonight's game but make sure you pay attention to details, imagine you're on the game and you're shooting the ball. Secretly close your eyes while you're on the bench and visualize that you're on the game shooting the ball. That is improving your mind, look at the possessions, pay attention to what every player does and imagine yourself playing with them. It's training your mind, you are improving mentally. And a mental improvement is better than physical improvement because it will all start in your brain, every manifestation will start inside of your head. Do it every single game, imagine yourself being a good offensive and defensive player. Imagine yourself shooting over a 7 footer, stealing the ball from a good ball handler, dominating the game. It's much better if you will become more detailed about your visualization. The more you do it the more you will become mentally stronger. Believe in the power of your brain, it will give you your reality.

If you want to improve your body a little bit... you can still do it while you're at the office. Do squats every time you go to the comfort room.  Nobody can see you there, it will only take 50 seconds to do a couple of squats, it will make a difference even if it is just a small drill. It can hep you is some ways.

There is always a time for improvement, all you need to do is find that little space and be a little bit creative, you can do it anywhere if you really want it. There s no excuse not to improve if you really want to improve. You can find a way, all it takes is commitment and a little imagination.

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MAKE MONEY EVEN IF YOU CAN'T SEE THE MONEY

Money has a lot of mysterious ways, it is moving fast, sometimes it's playing hard to get, sometimes it's like a ghost... now you see it now you don't. I've been a money chaser all my life and I learned about momentum, timing, patience and hard work.

Money is suppose to be attracted, the good money bait is hard work. If you keep working hard all the time and you're thinking about money... it will be attracted to you. You will earn money during unexpected times. So the best approach if you want to make money is make it even if you don't see it yet. Meaning, work hard and think about it, do something that may click in the future. It can be doing a small business, learning skills to make money, it's just like investing... you know the money will come even if you can't hold it yet.

Hard work and visualization creates money, money loves hard working people, it hates the lazy ones and big time spenders. Don't ever act like you're a millionaire and you can spend a lot of money even though you're just earning a few bucks a day, soon your money will run out and you will have a hard time looking for it again.

MONEY IS ON ITS WAY

Don't worry if you can't see the money yet, it's on its way, it will come. Just keep working hard, keep doing things that will create money in the future, if you keep doing it... money will come to your life faster than expected. Think about holding it, think of a figure, keep visualizing everyday. Do it again and again until the money comes, you need to have a lot of patience and belief here. Once you quit and you don't believe the process anymore... money that is on the way will never reach the destination, it will evaporate. Money is already walking towards your house as you do the process, keep working and always believe.

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AGGRESSIVENESS AND CALMNESS AT THE SAME TIME

There are two things that you can combine to create success in life that is aggressiveness and calmness. You can't be calm all the time and expect to get amazing results, being in all aspects of your life will make you lazy, you will think that everything is alright, you will think that it's ok to become slow.

You need to become aggressive and at the same time calm, meaning you need to move fast, take risk, do it right away but never get frustrated and never rush. Being aggressive doesn't mean you need to rush things, doing this will only create a lot of mistakes, it will create frustration and stress. You need to decide fast and be bold with your process but still maintain a calm head. Sometimes being too aggressive is making your temper hot, it's making you out of your mind in a wrong way, that is setting yourself up for a failure.

Being calm means being in control, it's feeling good under pressure, if you combine it with aggressiveness then you will create amazing things. Being aggressive but rushing will only create havoc and tragedy, it is the wrong path, it is the path to more resistance. Being calm while being aggressive means you're thinking but doing massive actions, you're mindful of what is going on and you know what to do next when you make a mistake. Being aggressive in a wrong way will only make you say things poorly and make a lot of mistakes during the process, you're pushing the wrong way, you will only become heavily exhausted and you will feel like quitting. There is no good thing that is happening to you anymore.

But if you stay cool, calm and collected at the same time while moving fast (not rushing) you will achieve the unachievable, you will make good decisions during pressure times. Being calm but passive will only give regrets, it will create fear, you will no longer try, you will think that it's always ok even if you're not making enough results.

Look at those rookies in a game that were so aggressive and rushing... they always make mistakes, their inexperience is showing up, they cannot be trusted during pressure times because they will make mistakes for sure. But if you're calm while pushing... you will open opportunities, your actions will all be in the perfect timing.

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REALISTIC APPROACH

In order to make a real progress in life... you have to have a realistic approach. You can dream about big things, you can think about the stars but sometimes you don't know what to do, you're lost, you don't know what kind of process are you going to use and that is killing you, that is making you go crazy because you keep on stumbling all the time but that dream is still inside of your head.

The best thing to do is use the realistic approach, if you want to change something then invent a process that you will do everyday, stop thinking about millions if you don't know how to get it, stop dreaming about it if all you want to do is get it fast, you will never get it fast, that's the sad reality of life, if success is easy then everybody would do it. Only few will witness success because only few were willing to die and sacrifice for their dreams, only few were focused. A lot of people have big dreams but their minds were scattered everywhere, they were thinking about a lot of things, they cannot even stick with a project for a long time.

So if you're trying to lose weight... don't expect to get leaner for weeks. Don't just walk for 10 mins a day and expect to get rid of that fat stomach for just 2 weeks. You will really work hard. You need to feel the pain, you need to be patient here, you need to use a lot of perseverance and remove the expectations that it's going to be easy. Accept that you will fail, accept that you will become depressed sometimes because you will never get results so fast.

Accept that it will take months to see the improvement. You need to really exercise for more than 30 minutes a day and make your belly sweat, if you will not do it then don't expect to get slim. Create a method that is a little bit hard but sustainable, don't create a program that only professionals can do... that is an unrealistic approach and you will quit in the middle of the journey because you will get burn out.

If you're planning to become a millionaire... what is the realistic approach? what is the process that you can do to get it. Remember that it shouldn't be a short cut, it should be something that you can do everyday. You are training the body and mind here to get small results everyday, you should not try to get it fast because that was unrealistic approach. Never think about joining a marketing group and being successful fast, most people fall into this trap, they were dreaming with their eyes wide open, they will only realize that they were getting scammed after they lost all of their money.

Never believe in shortcuts, never think about big dreams if you're not willing to grind for it, you should be smart, stop guessing, stop trying to get lucky because you will surely fail if you have that kind of mindset.

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THE REAL STORY IS YOU

Why are you wasting your own precious time reading the story of others? why will you waste your energy and emotions with their crappy stories that were not even real. A fiction about draculas, vampires, maniac, zombies, witches, wolves, super hero, snow white that isn't even real and will never become real. Those stories were just manipulating your mind and making you lost in touch with reality. It is eating a lot of your time that could have been use to create your own real and amazing story.

The real story is you, it's your life. It's how you evolve and grow from the difficult challenges of life. The real story is your journey and how you overcome those frightening obstacles but still succeed in the end. You can create an epic story about your life... real people, real problems and real success. You are the director and the star, your own movie can become a blockbuster if you will just work hard and focus on your own life.

Stop wishing to become a super hero, stop wishing that you're rich, stop wishing owning 8 playmates and living in a playboy mansion, stop wishing for powers because those were just illusion. The greatest story yet to be told is your life, you can do amazing things with your life. You can be anything, you can invent something that the whole world will buy. You can start now, you can narrate your own story now. Little by little, page by page, chapter by chapter... create your own story. Never let anyone direct it for you, you always have in control, you will be the one to write the ending. Never let the ending become tragic, always make it epic. DO your very best now to improve a little bit, face all of your problems, create magical solutions, work hard and never take any second for granted.

Push a little bit today and push again tomorrow, your story can be built through pain. A painful story has a better ending than a story that is all about fun and fantasies. The real story is you... it's your LIFE.

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THE BEAUTY OF PUSHING AND FEELING FREE

Everybody is looking for something, everybody is trying to get something but they are having a hard time getting it. It's because something is stopping them and they don't know it, there is a powerful resistance between them and their dreams, they can't see themselves winning, they can't establish a strong momentum at all. There is only one big reason for that... they are not pushing themselves, they don't feel free. They don't feel free to decide, they don't feel free to become creative, they were not giving themselves the authority to make an little improvement that will make themselves happier.

If you want to feel free... you need to push, force yourself to move towards the direction of your dreams, push every now and then so you will experience a different kind of freedom. Push your body, push your mind, just push a little bit, you don't need a very strong push at all, just take it slowly so you won't fall so bad when you made a mistake, take it gradually... little by little get it.

Freedom means allowing yourself to at least try. Try to become a superstar, take the limelight and steal the show. Try to become a millionaire, establish your own business, grind all day and invent your own idea. Use your imagination and execute right away, never day dream for so long because life and being free is all about making dreams happen, it's not about just dreaming about it. You don't have the right to dream if you will just lie on your bed the whole day and wish for a big break.

If you push yesterday push again today and push again tomorrow. Discipline yourself, do it over and over again until it feels easier and effortless, just do it even if you don't feel good and you will feel so free. You will feel proud of yourself because success and freedom is all about making yourself move when you feel lazy, it's simply about making yourself productive, there is no secret formula for it. All you need to do is move, there is no secret ingredient behind it.

Do it now, if there is an urgent work... do it now, avoid laziness and procrastination and you will become a different person, you will be in control of your reality. Always remember that freedom can only be obtained by pushing yourself and doing what you don't want to do.

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CREATE THAT SPECIAL BELIEF

Belief is something that is hard to create especially if you find yourself on a very difficult situation. It's hard to believe when you're losing, it's hard to believe when you're behind with a large margin, it's hard to believe if you're losing millions, it's hard to believe if you're scared and you really feel bad.

Because in reality... it is easier to believe if you're not the underdog, you will feel better and more confident if you know that your cards were pretty and everything around you is doing well. It's easier to become brave once you have a strong alliance, it's so easy to become scared if you don't know how are you going to win.

But if you can create that special belief, if you can just believe that no matter what you're going through you will still find a way to win then you will become something special. You will be able to create a miracle, a huge comeback, something that is unusual to the norm. It's easier to become scared then to become brave because your body and brain is always looking for comfort, it doesn't want to go to the unknown.

SAY TO YOURSELF "I CAN DO THIS"

These words were too powerful, say this to yourself over and over again and you will be able to do it. Words and thoughts were too powerful, it will control your body, it will create your reality. You may not believe it in the beginning yet but if you repeat it a million times then you can create that special belief that will protect you from being scared and doubtful.

Always remember why you are here, are you just going to let yourself lose? are you just going to see what happens and not do something about it? You have the power to belief, any mantra or affirmations will work if you keep repeating it over and over again. Build that special belief inside of your head and pair it with actions, just move and do something while believing.

Never look at your situation. never believe that you're struggling, focus on your belief. The belief will protect you, it will make you rise, it will make you feel hopeful, it will keep you going even if it looks like you're already lost the battle.

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WHAT CREATES LUCK?

Confidence plus unlimited number of tries creates luck, that's it... that was it. You need hard work and confidence, feel so sure that it's going to happen because you're working so damn hard that you're not even sleeping everyday.

If you want to become lucky... just work hard, work harder than anybody else. Be confident with your work ethic, trust that every thing will work out in the end. The funny thing is.. confidence will only come if you're taking actions, I mean massive massive actions. You have to move first before you become confident, it's no other way around. You can't be confident first before you take actions, that is a fake confidence. A person who is not working hard and confident himself is a fake, that's not pure confidence, that is arrogance because it has no content, there is no effort in there, he may look confident in the beginning but that confidence will go away so fast because he will be stunned once he see something that he hasn't experience yet. And because he didn't endure any hard work in the past... he will quit once the challenge becomes tough.

Some people will just wait for luck and some people will create it, those who are willing to create it knows the formula, they know that luck is being attracted by hard work and dedication. There is no such thing is a random luck, it only touches hard working people. It may be true that there are some people who become rich by just joining the lottery but look where they are now... THEY WERE BROKE AGAIN. It's because they didn't work for it, they don't know the value if it, they think that their money will never run out even if they don't work. They act like their riches will never run out so all they do is have a happy time. One day they found out that all of their riches were gone.

But if you're a hard working person who won the lottery... you will value what you get, you will never act like a millionaire, you will use it to become richer and richer. The funny thing is... hard working people don't join lottery because they believe in themselves, they create their own opportunities, they were confident that they will become successful one day because they work super hard.

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LET THEM DISTURB YOU

Because at the end of the day... someone or something will still disturb you, something will still ruin your day but keep in mind that they are only 10 percent of the equation, 90 percent is your reactions about them. They can make noise, they can annoy you, they can disrespect you but if you will just ignore them and stay true to who you are then they will fear powerless. The only think that's giving them power is your worries and fears and reactions towards them. If you will just discipline yourself to not feel anything about them then you will be fine, you will still succeed and live your normal life like it was before.

I was so mad when one of our neighbors build an apartment that was few steps closer from our house. His tenants were so noisy and arrogant. I was so stressed everyday, I almost wanted to fight one of them but luckily I was able to control how I feel. But as the time goes by I was slowly beginning to adapt to the situation, I am still bothered sometimes but I was able to accept them little by little. There are still some times when I was mad at them but I am beginning to adjust. I learned that it's all in my head, I am disturbed because I let them disturb my peace, it's my reaction that is making me feel bad not their actions. Because the truth is... they are not even touching me, they were just making noise and such unusual behavior but they are not even hurting me physically at all.

I realized that the only way to get peace is to have peace with any kind of situation, let them disturb yo, let them be themselves, for as long as you're true to yourself and you know where you are headed... you will find peace.

Let them disturb you, let them do their thing, there's nothing wrong with that, it's ok. Sooner or later they will stop. The funnier thing is... what they are doing is affecting them, they are ruining their own lives by trying to impress other people, sooner or later they will become broke because their lifestyle is not headed to a right direction, they were full of crap and useless activities, you don't need to make a revenge for them because they were already ruining their own lives.

Just feel the noise, absorb everything and you will never feel it anymore. Ignore them until you can't see them anymore. Everything happens for a reason, now I know that they were near me to strengthen  my mental toughness, they were just challenging my focus, and to be hones... they made me a better person with their noise and arrogance. I was able to strengthen my patience and I am not affected by noises and unusual behaviors anymore.

Now I know that the real power is on the inside and not on the outside. They can do whatever they want, they can disturb you as much as they want but if you will go to your inside and relax then they will never control your feelings anymore.

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THE ONLY FUEL FOR MOTIVATION

Motivation will never stay forever in your body, it will run out sooner or later. You need to find what fuels your motivation, you need to known where to push the button so you will be able to move faster and stop procrastinating. While I was working for myself for so many years, I've found out that the real fuel for motivation is ACTION. You will only get motivated after taking the first step and the next one and the next, it's kind a difficult a little bit in the beginning but you will enjoy it as you keep pressing forward. Look at those people who keeps on listening to motivational stories and watching inspirational videos... they get addicted to those stuffs that they don't even know they were procrastinating. I was once like them, luckily I found out that I was just fooling myself by doing that. You will feel motivated for a few seconds, you will say I will do this after watching this video but later you will not really start. You will be stuck in the same rut as before.

It's ok to watch those videos but start right away after watching one. Some successful people doesn't need to watch videos anymore, they just do it no matter what. People who were watching those videos still have a lot of work to do on themselves, they need to create the habits first. They don't know that it's not about motivation... it's about taking action and then getting motivated with the little success that you might get. And even if you can't get any small amount of success... you still need to take action to keep that motivation alive.

MOTIVATION... sometimes you feel it sometimes you don't. Whether you feel good or not... you need to take action, because that is the only way to refill your dying motivation. So stop looking for a motivation, stop looking for a coach to tell you what to do, stop looking for something that will spark you. Just take action so that you will become motivated to follow through, keep moving forward all the time so that good feelings will start to show. Stop being like a spoiled brat who needs to get pampered and appreciated before you moving, you can always move now, you can do something that will give you momentum. Stop waiting and just GO!

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YOU REALLY HAVE NOTHING TO LOSE, WHY FEEL THE PRESSURE?

There is no reason to hold back, there is no reason to stop pulling the trigger. You really have nothing to lose, why don't you allow yourself to do what you want to do? just do what you want to do, follow your dreams with all your heart, never take your life for granted and never let an opportunity escape from your hands. You have nothing to lose here so just enjoy your life and try as much as you can. Do whatever it takes to win and life and never feel bad if you fail. You can always try again tomorrow, you will only lose if you give up. So keep trying over and over again, one day is going to be your day, have fun with your journey and never take life so much seriously. Just have fun with life, have fun winning and losing, have fun going hard and never think that the world is unfair.

Stay calm during pressure because you really have nothing to lose here, you may look like you're losing but the reality is you're just experiencing a not so fun experience in life but the beauty of it is you're learning something. You only think that you're losing because you're not getting what you want, you want something to happen but it didn't that's why you feel like you've lost. But the truth is you just experience a painful event, it's not a big deal.

Always feel free to try something new, always feel free to become something you haven't become before. Always try to expand and never think that you're already a finish product. You can always expand every day, you can always learn something new and be something that you can't imagine when you were still young. Life is so short and precious to waste, why will you let pressure crumple you, never back down to any kind of pressure... just feel and it and have fun feeling it. You can always find a way because everything is just a game. The only difference is... winners can find a way how to enjoy the chaos, they knew that life is suppose to be enjoyed, the take risks and they never think that failing is a big deal. Don't be afraid of failing, it's just part of your life, it's just part of the process. Why will you put a lot of pressure on yourself if you can have fun in your journey.

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3 EASY STEPS TO BEAT ANXIETY THAT WORKS FOR MILLIONS OF PEOPLE SUFFERING FROM IT

Anxiety is really hard to deal with especially if you feel like you're having a heart attack. You're so shy, you don't know what to do, you want to hide on the mountains and live peacefully with the monkeys and snakes. You feel weird, you want to run but you can't, you're sweating like a maniac and you feel so weak. You don't even want to talk with anybody. This article tackles about how to beat anxiety, I have these steps that I test for myself and it made be a better person, I begin to feel peace every time I am talking to a big personality, I feel so calm and relaxed.

1. Destroy your identity. Be ready to look ugly and funny, be ready to look like a bum. This is just practice. Whatever you are feeling now... feel it, it doesn't matter if they laugh at you or look at you... just feel it. There is nothing wrong with you, you just need to feel it. Embrace your sweaty armpits and palms, listen to your weak voice, appreciate that you're still alive. Don't be afraid of what people say, you have a problem and you need to fix it. Every experience will help, even if you really look bad in front of a lot of people... just deal with it. You want freedom right? the only way to escape that mental slavery is to look like a clown. Accept that you're not special, you're just a human and you're allowed to look stupid and low. Try destroying your identity every now and then and have fun.

2. Face it. Face every problem of your life, face your fears, it's easier said than done right? but facing something is just a matter of forgetting about what will happen next. Face it like it is nothing, don't give something or someone power, just think that every situation is a common situation, never treat anything as special so that you won't feel any pressure. Don't be afraid of getting rejected, don't be afraid of asking. Don't expect that they will become nice at you, it's better if they ignore you or reject you, you need to feel the pain over and over again until you realize that it is nothing. You got rejected, you got humiliated, was it really a big deal? no right? Face it now, if you will not face it then you will become scared forever, you will become a loser in your whole life.

3. Don't prepare. Anxiety is building up because you're preparing too much, it's better if you will not prepare so you won't overthink things. Because even if you prepare or not... your anxiety will still attack, practice going with the flow, if you're not prepared then you have no choice but to be yourself. If you are prepared then you are following a layout, what happens if your plan didn't materialize? you're in a panic mode right? so stop preparing and just have fun looking like a bum. Remember, this is just a practice, everything is just a practice, every experience is just a stepping stone to make you hard. You need to look stupid all the time so it will never bother you and you will never get insecure again in the future. It's like... you're already a loser, what is left to lose? nothing right? once you realize that it's ok to get embarrassed then you will feel better, you will have more confidence.

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THE BLOW OF THE WIND WILL CHANGE

Don't worry if it seems like nothing right is going on with your life right now,, too many problems, too many challenges, it feels like bad luck is taking over your life. Don't feel that way, it is what it is, life is just like that, just keep persevering and the wind will change. It's not how lucky you are, it's how tough you are. This world is survival of the fittest, if you think you can't survive anymore then it's game over for you... see you in hell.

But if you keep on persevering, if you keep on believing then everything will be alright, little by little your life will change, little by little you will see some hope. Your life is so ugly because you're not doing the right thing, if you destroyed it then you will be the one to fix it. Fix it now, never stop until your life become better. Be fast and never wait, the wind blow of the wind will change, the universe is hearing you, it will give you what you need.

So keep doing what you're doing, keep working hard and never give up, it's all about moving forward and nothing else, life will be so much fun if you will make your day very productive. Just start now and give your very best to change your life, focus on one step at a time, little by little create your own destiny, never take your life for granted, you should always be in command. Trust the process and appreciate every small progress. Never do something that will not improve your situation, the focus is to make your life better and nothing else. If you really wanted to change then embrace the difficulty and stress of change. You will feel weird, you will feel so bored and stressed but that's because change is already happening. If everything is easy then change is not happening. There should be a resistance and friction, it will be hard but you have to keep going no matter what.

Not all the time you will be at the bottom, time will come and you will rise again, and that is if you work so hard and give your very best all the time. So stop making dramas and excuses, just change now and the blow of the wind will change.

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MY GREATEST SKILL THAT MADE ME HAPPY AND FREE

My greatest skill that made me happy is I just do it whenever I don't feel like doing it. I am very fast in making decisions. I never hesitate, I never procrastinate. I just do it no matter what, I don't care about how I feel, I don't care if I feel lazy or heavy, I just do it, it made me happy because I feel so powerful every time I do it.

If there is an urgent project I just do it, I never make dramas and excuses before I do it. That's why all of my clients were very happy, the call me "the flash" because I am so fast. It's because I knew that speed is the name of the game, speed can make me successful and that is what is happening to my life now, I use speed to make my life better.

If I needed to exercise I just exercise, no stretching, no opening of music in cellphone, no changing of clothes, no more ceremonies.. I just do it, I don't care if my body is not ready, I know it will be ready the moment I do the first step. I just jump in, I knew this kind of mindset is giving me advantage in everything. Most people were so slow, they were thinking too much before they do something. I am different, my mind just switch to action mode even if I am feeling lazy. I develop this character because I wanted to change, I want to see a different result in my life, I don't want a slow life anymore, I want something different. If I said I am going to do something... I just do it even if I feel that I don't have an energy to do it.

It's so funny because people think they don't have enough energy to do it, they feel that they were lacking the strength, it's because they don't practice forcing themselves to move whenever they feel lazy.

Just do what you need to do and your life will be good. If you need to diet then diet, if you need to exercise then exercise. Stop thinking too much because it will ruin everything, it will put your life into a bad position.

I am so happy because I was able to develop this kind of mentality, to do it whenever I need to do it. I never wait, I am so disciplined and consistent. It made me feel that I have more time to do some other things, I am not rushing anymore, I am not feeling heavy, I just feel so light and fast.

The best time to start something is when you feel lazy. Whenever you need to do it... just do it, start something, procrastination will kill you if you allow it to take control of your life, you need to be moving forward all the time. Just do it and you will become happy.

You too can have this mindset, just practice it. Whenever there is an urgent task.. do it and you will feel much much better. If you have an assignment in school... just do it, open your notes, open your book do some research and just do it. It's too easy if you will start, even if you don't know some parts... just do it, it doesn't matter if you're wrong... just do it.

If you can master this skill... you will become very happy, you will feel powerful, you don't need time management anymore. This skill will make you disciplined, this will give you freedom. The reason why you're not happy is because you want something to happen but you're not doing anything to make it happen, you're so focused on thinking too much and that builds a lazy body.

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JUST SMILE WHEN THEY ARE MAKING FUN OF YOU

Some people are really nasty and mean, no matter how respectful you are they will still disrespect you. Or maybe it's just you that is thinking about it, well whatever the case maybe... just laugh at it. Just smile when they are making fun of you, smiling and laughing is a very powerful thing. They will never read your mind, you will look powerful because you look unaffected. It means you are enjoying it even more, it means you are clowning them. They will get mad at you because you are never giving any signs of being affected, you will look strong... they will be the one who will get affected.

Because at the end of the day... you should never give any attention to any clowns, you should just focus on the better things of life. They can do anything they want, for as long as they are not hurting you physically... you are fine, there is nothing to worry about. Just ignore the people that you don't like and you will have more fun in your life.

This world is a battle of mentally tough people, if you are not tough then you will never survive, you will become a loser, are you ok with that? if you will allow something to get inside of your head then he will have control over you, you will look like a fool, you will get manipulated. The best thing to do is focus on what you're trying to achieve and never let something disturb your peace. Always feel good despite of those people disrespecting you. It's ok to get disrespected, don't be too sensitive because that will be the start of your failure.

Just smile and ignore them, just smirk, make a sarcastic laugh, make them guess, feel invincible by looking unaffected. Sometimes you don't even need to react, sometimes all you need to do is stay quiet and ignore the garbage people and things around you. Let them be themselves, the best revenge is massive success, don't give them any attention and they will feel weak. Just remember that their main goal is to make you mad.

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HOW TO MAKE FEAR SCARED OF YOU?

You are scared because you don't want to fail, you are scared because you don't want to get exhausted, you are scared because you don't know what might happen next.

If you want to make fear scared of you then be a fast starter, start it without thinking if you're going to make it, start it even if you don't know a lot of details. Just start and go all the way, fear will conquer your mind and occupy a lot of space in your brain if you keep on hesitating if you will do it or not, what's the big deal if you made a mistake? what's the big deal if you're always failing? you will only win if you will face the unknown.

You are not scared of it, you are scared of the pain that you might get, as simple as that. You don't want to get humiliated, you don't want to get criticized by a lot of people, and that is stopping you from evolving, you always wanted to look perfect, you don't even want to do something that you don't know, you always wanted to be sure that everything will be fine, that mentality is making you weak. If you really want to conquer your fears then do everything you can to push yourself to the limits. You must be on the edge of defeat, you must be on the brink of elimination, you must not be afraid to do it by yourself.

Fear will be scared of you if you will look at it super close, it will stay away from you if you are ok with the presence of it. Fear will never be out of your life permanently, it will always visit you from time to time. But you can defeat it today if you will start fast without even thinking if yo can make it or not. Just start, just do it and never care about the results. If you fail you fail, don't feel bad about it because you didn't even die.

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SUCCESS HATES PEOPLE WHO WERE TRYING TO LOOK CUTE

If you're always trying to look cute, if you're always trying to look cool then success will hate you. It's because you will never make yourself dirty, you will never push yourself to the limits and risk everything. Success is not all about trying to become the prettiest in the world, success is about wanting to get dirty and exhausted. If you're not tired, if you're not suffering then success will never be yours, if you really want it then you will push past pain, you will challenge yourself mentally and physically. You will never hesitate, you will go all out even if it's already too painful. 

It is what is, do you really want it or do you just want to look cute? answer yourself honestly, you know if you're just a joke or if you're a real deal. You can lie to people but you can never lie to yourself. Stop fooling the public that you're great if you're not even risking everything you have. 

If you don't want t get blamed for taking a huge risk then you will never become successful, you will never make a name for yourself if you're not willing to fail big time. Look at Lebron James, he is great, he is one of the best but most people still like Kobe, it's because Kobe is willing to risk everything, he is willing to look dirty and ugly, he doesn't mind getting blamed by his teammates and coaches, don't assign him the last shot but he will still take it, that dude doesn't care that's why people were so amazed with his character. Lebron James is trying to look cute a little bit, he will shy during tough times, he will not even hustle anymore once his team is so down, he will not even take the last shot that's why he gave the ball to Kyrie Irving during championship, Kyrie took the shot, he could have taken it but he didn't because he is so afraid to take the blame, he wants Kyrie to take the blame if Kyrie misses it. 

If you really want to become successful then be ready to face the pain, be ready to use all of your energy, knowledge and skills. Always go the extra mile, always take it further. 

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2 SIMPLE INGREDIENTS THAT WILL WORK

All of your life you're looking for an answer, all of your life you're wondering what you should have done to become happy and successful, you've been trying a lot of things, you've been scammed by a marketing strategist because of wanting to become rich so fast, you've trey a lot of shortcuts that didn't work, you are getting frustrated now and your confidence is going down.

But what do you really think must be done in order to get what you want? the answer for that is very simple. There is no specific process to become successful, you only need two things... that is speed and hard work. Be fast and always work hard, if you keep on trusting these two things then you will have a wonderful life, a lot of opportunities will be attracted to you.

So stop looking for a specific process that will work... just be fast and work hard. Be fast in starting, stop thinking, stop looking for the good feelings... just be fast, do it now, never wait for tomorrow, never wait for the perfect timing and idea... do it now. Be faster than anybody else so you can do more. Most people were only dong what they think they can do, but if you are fast... you will have a lot of time to do some other things, you will become a work horse. Be the hardest worker, be the fastest and let's see if your life still can't change, let's see if you can't be proud of yourself. Taking massive actions is something you can be proud of. Only few can take massive actions, most people will just sleep and rest once they get tired. Most people will think before they do something, hey were thinking twice, they were hesitating and that's why they can't make results.

Try a different approach this time. While most people were lazy and has a slow pace... do the opposite. The moment you wake up, start fast and finish strong, make your day epic, make yourself a legend by doing something that not all people can do. Everyone is lazy and tired, everyone is inconsistent and slow, it's time to become different. Do the opposite of the norm, be the hardest worker and be the fastest worker... your life will change as soon as possible.

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THE KEY TO SUCCESS - STOP LETTING THEM GET INSIDE OF YOUR HEAD

As tempting as it sounds, the reason why it's hard for you to win is because you're letting someone or something get inside of your head. You are letting them control your thoughts and emotions. You are mad at something, you are scared at something that's why you can't perform at your best, you cannot reach your peak because something is stopping you, something is playing inside of your head, you're not in full control of your own mind.

YOU WANT TO BECOME SUCCESSFUL RIGHT? Stop letting something bother you, follow your instincts and never let something get in your way, completely get rid of the things and people that are making you feel bad. Go all out for something, make your mind bulletproof, you don't need to think at all, just think go what you need to do and do it.

You want to become a star right? stop thinking about what your coach is telling you, stop thinking about your teammates shouting at you... follow your heart, you feel you can do it so do it. Stop letting something control you or make you cautious, you need to be out of your mind, you need to be a single minded person, follow your heart and feel unstoppable.

Never let something bother you, never let something make you angry, stick to your own game plan and do whatever it takes to execute it. Never let the outside information confuse you or make you change plan, once you have a plan... follow it no matter what and forget about the results that may happen.

Forget the noise outside, forget everything that is bothering you and taking away your focus, just believe in yourself and follow the game plan that you set for yourself. Never change anything, never adjust... just follow it and make a stand for it. The reason why you can't get ahead in life is because you're listening too much of what other people are trying to say. You need to listen to your own heart, protect you dreams and ideas and never let them get inside of your head.

Stop thinking about them, ignore what annoys you, ignore what makes you mad. Stop feeling anything about them, if they criticize you... so what? answering them and trying to prove yourself is just a waste of time. You know who you are, you don't need to tell anybody to respect you.

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GREATNESS IS SIMPLY IGNORING GARBAGE ACTIVITIES

If you want to become great... I mean really really great then you need to change your lifestyle, you need to change the way you think, basically... you need to change everything. That's it, it's too damn hard because your mind was so accustomed to mediocrity and bad habits, you're so in love with garbage activities that is pulling you down even more... you're not even trying to go to the top. If you don't know how to become great then simply look at yourself. What are you doing? be honest with yourself, is it making you improve a little bit? is it a potential to give you a good life? is it molding you physically and mentally?

Greatness is for the chosen few because only few people can sacrifice big time, only few people can stop watching TV, only few people can stop partying and talking to their toxic friends.

The prize of greatness is when you are making people look like kids, they were so below your level. Once the competition is there, once the moment to prove yourself is there... you will feel so confident that you can dominate the situation, they will be stunned, they will look like kids because what they have is very far from what you have. That is the prize of greatness... that is your reward, you will see that you're too different because you're so skilled and great.

What garbage habit are you so addicted right now? using your phone for 5 hours a day? watching stupid videos that will not even make you gain something? gossiping? thinking about people that doesn't matter at all? you have a lot of garbage activities that you think are fun but is not helping you to improve at all. Get rid of the 90% of your garbage activities or more and you will become great. Why will you give attention to something that will not even help you at all?

It's all abut the focus, if you're focused on becoming great then you will become great, if you're focused on getting the money then you will get money... as simple as that. The problem with you is you're so focused on the garbage activities that are only fun in the beginning but will eat a lot of your time and make your life miserable in the end. You know better, you know what is good for your life, it's time to live straight and get to the point? what do you really want? go and get it.

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GETTING BETTER IS FOREVER

Don't ever think that once you get better today then you're already on a different level, don't think that just because you become successful today then you will never become successful forever. Success is not fixed, it will never become permanent... if you want success to stay in your life better then never get complacent, always push, always get better everyday.

Getting better is a commitment, it is not a one month streak nor a one year or decade streak. Just because you are getting better for a very long time doesn't mean you can afford to become lazy now. It's a forever curse, it should be part of your daily life. Getting better is FOREVER, you have to keep doing it from time and time again. Repetition is the key, again and again and again, the cycle should never stop. Because greatness means continuation, it's a mindset, it's a culture. It's not something that once you get it then you're allowed to stop. Don't ever think that you already made it because that kind of mindset will make you lose everything that you work hard for. Someone will still your throne, there will be another batch who can become greater than you and if you keep feeding your laziness then you will be out of the competition, you will be out of the conversation.

Getting better should be your identity, there is an infinite room for getting better, it will never stop, the possibilities were endless. You will only get better if you keep moving forward, once you get satisfied then that will be the start of your fall down, you will fall faster than your climb. Come to think of it... you climb for so long but you will fall very fast, it's because success gets into your head, you think that you don't need to work anymore, you become arrogant and stagnant.

For as long as you'r alive... you can get better, be patient, enjoy the small steps, enjoy doing it slowly. If you think that there is no more room for improvement in your skill then you're wrong, there is always a space for improvement, all you have to do is look for it and learn it, work for it so greatness will not be out of your sight.

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ONE OF THE BIGGEST PROBLEM NOWADAYS

One of the biggest problem nowadays is you're getting a lot of inputs. A lot of things were confusing you that you already forgot what it takes to win. You're always watching some videos on how they do that, you're dreaming about it but where is the action? you've been talking about it but where is the sacrifice? you're completely lost because of those videos. If you're dreaming about it then be about it, don't just watch it, don't just try to duplicate it... there is a big work behind that success.

Most kids nowadays were watching the videos of their idol Stephen Curry, they were copying his moves, they were shooting threes from half court. That is becoming a huge problem because they were dreaming of doing Curry's style too. They don't know that there is a lot of hard work behind that shot. It takes years to master something, they think that they can just copy someone's style and emulate the same success. That's becoming a problem that most you kids are facing now... they are dreaming about something but they are not willing to put in a lot of work. Practicing it once, twice or thrice will never work, you have to practice it a million times.

People were getting a lot of inputs from you tube and any other source. They were getting the ideas of becoming successful, they were seeing success stories and they also want to become one. There is nothing wrong with that, what's wrong is most people wants to become successful past, they don't want to work hard. They just want to copy the same success that they seen on the internet. It's not about copying it, it's about doing it. You can never copy someone's success if you are not willing to work a lot and improve yourself day by day.

The problem with people is once they see someone doing it... they want to do it too. They want to become successful too, they think they can do it too without having to work for a very long time. And once they saw that they can't do it, once they saw that it is hard... they will quit right away, they will never even try again.

Success will not come to you if you will keep on watching other people's success and dream to become like it too. There is a lot of behind the scenes with that success. You need to be realistic here, if you want to become like them then discover the behind the scenes, do the work needed to go to that level. It's not about getting it fast, it's about trying to master it.

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WHAT TIME IS IT?

What time is it? it's your time, it's your day, your time has finally arrived. It's time to work and become a winner. You've been waiting for this for a very long time, now is your time. Stop waiting, stop hesitating because it's your time. If not now then when? it's time to make things happen. Force the fate, success will never favor the hesitant and overthinkers, success will ignore people who were making a lot of excuses in life. Do it now, what are you waiting for? the best time to start is when you feel uncomfortable. That is the secret of successful people... they don't want to get comfortable, they always put themselves on pressure cooker, they roast themselves so they will be able to grow and get tougher in life. The more you feel pressure and embrace it the more you are likely to succeed. You will never become something if you don't feel the pain, you will remain the same bum if you just watch time goes by.

The time is now, devour the situation, never let the opportunity go. Every second can be your time if you will push so hard and see the shadow of greatness. Anything is possible, anything can happen so keep pushing. Most people were waiting for the perfect time, don't be like them, be a doer not a waiter. Take matters into your own hands, do some unbelievable things, shine on the big stage, own the spotlight. The time for being a coward is over, it's time to do your thing and believe in yourself to the fullest.

Slap yourself if you're still sleeping, get mad of yourself if you're not moving. Remember that the time is now, if you will not take advantage of the opportunity then you may not see it again. Go all out now, do your best now. Forget the past, don't think about the future and just own the now. This is your time, this is your last chance... you better do something powerful today or else you will become a failure forever.

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SUCCESS CAN HAPPEN NOW SO KEEP PUSHING

You never know what may happen now, who knows what will happen now? what you are waiting for can happen now so keep pushing. You've been working really hard, you are not wasting time, you're so focused and determined. Maybe the time is now, so never quit and never stop. Stay relentless, keep pushing up the pace. You will never know unless you try, the breakthrough can happen now so keep grinding and give your very best every single second. Remove the doubts inside of your head, stay lock in to success.

Nobody knows the future, the better way to predict it is to keep working hard. You are giving yourself a chance to have a better life if you keep working hard and doing your thing. Forget about what they are doing, forget about what they are trying to prove. Just stay on your lane and never give up.

And if it didn't happen now... it can also happen tomorrow or the next day or next week or next month or even next year, don't get tired of waiting. Your time will come and it will only come if you will never stop what you're doing. So never get tired, never think about giving up, change your mood once you get frustrated, change your state from being depressed to motivated. It is possible, all you have to do is work again and forget about getting the results. Enjoy what you're doing and never try to rush finishing things. Remember that this is a journey, it's not getting success... it's being one with success. What I mean by that is you're having a marriage with success, you think about it, you do what successful people does, it becomes your life. Failing is part of being successful so if you keep on failing time and time again then it means you're already successful.

Always check what you're doing, if you're not pushing anymore then it means you're losing. Grind forever, keep hunting like a lion, keep chasing your dreams. Don't try to get it fast, be patient all the time because it can happen now.

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IF YOU'RE NO GOOD THEN WHY ARE THEY HATING YOU?

Accept that you're good because you really are, never doubt yourself never think that you don't have what it takes to win in life. If you're not good then why are they hating you? why they keep on pointing out your flaws? it's because you're interesting, you have a potential to become successful. They see something in you that catches their attention. So stop believing other people and just believe in yourself. If you're really not good then they should have ignore you before but they didn't, they keep noticing your actions every now and then, they keep on trying to put you down.

It only means you have it, you have what they don't have that's why they keep on hating. They were so jealous of you because you're trying and all they do is watching, they can't even start, they can't even make a move.

Just keep being yourself, forget about them, ignore what they say. Just do your thing because that's the best thing to do. Forget about anything else, they can say whatever they wanted to say and it's none of your business to entertain their comments, your focus should be taking actions and giving your very best every single day. People can say whatever they want, they will never stop talking. If you will listen to them then you will only get distracted, you will never succeed. But if you listen to your heart then you will succeed for sure. Follow your instincts, listen to your intuition. Just do whatever you can and be happy with the results.

You have what it takes to win, if you're giving your best every single day then you have a big chance of becoming great.

Sometimes you will really get hurt of what they are saying, sometimes no matter how hard you try to ignore them you will still feel something. But it's ok, just keep moving forward and ignore those haters. They are here to make you better, you will never try to prove yourself if everybody loves you, you will get comfortable if everyone is pampering you. Just keep doing your thing and prove yourself.

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MAKE YOUR LIFE ALL ABOUT TRYING

Success is all about trying over and over again until you get it. If you want to have a better life then change your style, change you style from being a watcher to a doer. Most people spend their time watching other people's lives, they don't want to be themselves, they don't even dare to try, they were so scared of failing. They don't know that it's not about the results, it's about taking actions. Most of the time you're just wishing you don't even dare to give yourself a chance to become successful.

It's a very simple logic, if you will try then you will have a chance. Don't be afraid to try, fail a lot of times and keep trying until you get it. If you will not face failure over and over again then you will never achieve something good in life. Never get intimidated by failure, don't be scared to fail because it happens to everyone and it can happen to anyone. No one can avoid failure, even the most successful people failed a lot of times in their lives.

If there is an opportunity knocking on your door try it, even if the percentage of winning is very slim... just try it. A tryer is better than a watcher. You need to become a doer not a wisher. Anybody can just wish but not everyone can try. Ignore your number of failures, even if you already failed a million times... forget about it and just keep trying for one more time.

Make a decision to just keep trying over and over again, make it your game plan. Never change direction, never change that kind of mindset. Because at the end of the day... you will only have a lot of regrets if you didn't try. Why will you stop yourself from trying if you can do it for free? you have nothing to lose here you have everything to gain, why will you hold yourself back? you have nothing before, you will never lose anything even if you fail. You will only gain experience, you will become a different person if you try because your confidence will start to build up. So allow yourself to try, forget about winning or losing... just try.

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USING THE WORD "I DON'T CARE" TO BECOME SUCCESSFUL

If you want to become successful then you need to stop caring. Stop caring about the people around you that gives pressure, stop caring the difficulty of the task ahead of you, stop caring about how you feel towards your work... just do it, do it over and over again to become successful.

Stop caring about failing, stop caring if you're making progress or not. The only thing you need to care about is if you're taking actions or not. If you're moving then you're on the right path, if not then you're on the wrong path, you need to correct yourself right away, you need to follow the simplest and basic rule... KEEP MOVING FORWARD ALL THE TIME.

Never care if there is a party, so what? it will never give you anything, it will never give you the life that you want. Stop caring if they already forgotten you, it's ok, what do you really want? success or companionship? they can forget you they can get rid of you but the most important thing for now is you're chasing success, you are working your way to the top.

Never care if you keep failing over and over again, it's ok, you can stand up again, you can try again for one more time. Never care if they can't appreciate you... you don't need praises from other people, all you need is a working mind, a strong mind that will push through no matter how hard it gets.

Never care if you're slowing down, never care if you're getting tired, always remember the game plan and that is to push through no matter what. One day you're going to become successful, one day you will reach the top but you have to endure boredom now, you have to endure the difficulty of life, you should be ok being alone because success can never be accomplished by having a lot of friends and people around you. You need more time for yourself, you need to discover the right path on your own.

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HOW TO STOP HOLDING YOURSELF BACK?

The truth is... you're the only one who's stopping yourself from being successful and happy, you're the only one who is blocking your own way. You're holding yourself back too much that's why you can't see any results and change in your life, you are stopping yourself, you are not allowing yourself to become the authority.

ALWAYS REMEMBER THAT YOU'RE IN CONTROL

You're in control of your life, you're in control of how you think and feel. The reason why you can't have a break through is because you always think you can't. You judge already lose before you even try, you're not even trying... you just want to change but you are not facing the discomfort of change. You're in control here, you have the power to change something and do something. Do it now before it's too late, stop being slow, stop procrastinating because that is the most stupid thing to do. Always remember that you can do anything and be anything if you will allow yourself to keep moving forward, forget about what might happen next and just keep moving forward... that is how to change your life completely. 

FACE UNCERTAINTY RIGHT AWAY

The moment you feel uncomfortable.. that is the perfect time to start. You're always holding yourself back because you hate discomfort. You want a sure answer, you want a sure win, you don't want to face uncertainty. Life is all about challenging yourself, you can only grow by facing stress and discomfort. There is no growth in a comfortable place, you will remain the same person as yesterday if you're not making yourself uncomfortable. Face it now, do it now... never care if it is easy or hard and just do it. Remember that you're the only one who's stopping yourself and nothing else.

GO ALL OUT

Just give it a try, give your very best now, push yourself to the limits. Move fast, decide fast and go all out. Allow yourself to rise, allow yourself to become the number one. Forget about anything else and just keep rising. You will feel good if you will give your very best, you will feel great if you're focused on accomplishing something. Go all out now and forget about what might happen tomorrow.

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GREATNESS CAN HAPPEN ANYTIME

Most people thinks that greatness is something that will happen 7 or ten years from now if you start working hard now. No, greatness can happen now, you can become great now. Greatness is not about making results, it's about building an attitude, it's the way you work, it's the way you hustle. If you can give you very best now and push yourself to the limits then that is greatness already. Greatness is giving everything you've got despite of the hard times, despite of the frightening obstacles that is on your way. Greatness is really hard to achieve but it can happen to anyone on any given day.

All you have to do is be it, embody it, make sure it is running in your system. Think act like great, do like great and you're already great. Don't focus on the results, focus on the attitude. It can also happen to you now if you will take things seriously, you just need to have an insane focus... be the best that you can be, upgrade you skills, evolve your work ethic. Ignore the difficulty of the task and push through no matter what.

If you want to become great then start being great now, what is the attitude of a great person? how does he talk? how does he handle problems? how does he take actions? Greatness is seriousness, if you're not serious about your work then you will never become great. Even a janitor can become great if he clean the toilets seriously and passionately. Even a simple kid can become great if he push himself to the limits and forget about failing. Anyone can become great, it's all in the attitude of a person. Greatness can be seen in your work, it will reflect in your work, people will see if you really give some time and effort for something. You can lie but numbers won't, you can pretend to be great but the universe always see you.

Chase greatness now, forget the past, forget what you can do and break all the boundaries, forget the limitations... just push and you will feel greatness in your life.

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IF YOU'RE SAD IT MEANS HAPPINESS IS ON THE WAY

Why are you so sad? your crush didn't text you? your mother didn't give you money for party? you forgot to watch american idol season 69? why are you so sad? was it really a big deal? why are you making a lot of dramas? did you die? you're still alive so there is nothing else to worry about. If you'r sad then it means happiness is on the way, just keep living and don't give up, keep persevering because your emotion will not stay in the same place forever, it will change, it is always changing no matter how bad or perfect your life is. If you're sad now you will become happy later, if you're happy now you will become sad later... all you have to do is wait and stay positive and everything will be alright.

Just appreciate life, appreciate that you're still alive, always remember that all you need is the air that you breathe. Stop complicating things, stop looking for the things that you don't have... you will have it if you work for it not wish for it.

Sadness is part of our lives, there is nothing we can do to avoid it. Accept that life is just like that. Find some ways to entertain yourself, you can do anything, you can become very creative here. It's all about moving forward and not being lazy, stop procrastinating and stop wasting a lot of time. You need to stay active and productive, life is too short to waste it for nothing, always be on the move... you can revive your motivation by always staying active and busy. Time will pass, sadness will past, soon you will see that you're happy again, you just have to accept that feelings were always changing, there is no permanent feeling in this world. That is the beauty of life, it is full of challenges. Big or small problems... just deal with it now, never shy away from it, face it like a real man, don't forget to always give your best.

Sometimes all you have to do is survive this day and nothing else, just stay strong and never make dramas, don't look for sympathy, don't look for help or approval, learn to stand on your own.

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STOP THINKING ABOUT HARD WORK

Stop thinking about hard work and it will be an easy work, just think that it's just an ordinary day. You think that it's hard work that's why you feel a lot of resistance. It's all in your head, if you will just make your mind believe that any work is an easy work then everything will be easy for you. You have to work anyway so why complain?

If you really want success then you will work hard for it but you will never think of it as something hard, you will enjoy the process and you will push through despite of the difficulties. So what if it is a hard work? why are you scared of it? it will never kill you, it can only make you grow. Just have fun doing every step and find a way how to enjoy the process even more. Never think that you needed to get rewarded right away after working hard, sometimes the results takes longer than expected so be patient all the time. Hard work pays off, you don't need to doubt it, you just need to work and love every step and you will be rewarded in the end.

You have no right to complain if you're pursuing something, it's your duty to keep working hard because there is a price that you have to pay. Do you think that success is that easy to get? of course not. Sometimes you even have to double or triple your effort just to make a little success, what more if you are chasing a big fish? It really takes a lot of effort, your dedication must be on a different level. Never care if you're getting too tired, it's ok to feel that way, it means you are really serious about your dreams and ambitions.

Remove all the complaints and keep working hard, complaining is for the weak, you can do something about it right? why not do it and stop making a lot of dramas? dramas are for divas, it's for the weak and not dedicated, it's for people who wants something but are not willing to give everything.

Hard work should be your number one habit so that you will never complain about any kind of work anymore. It should be installed in your system forever so every work will become an easy work.

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GET DESPERATE DURING DESPERATE TIMES

There will be times when you don't know anymore what to do, you feel like you've given everything but you still can't become successful, it's normal, it's happening to everyone who is serious in chasing success. You will even question yourself why is it happening to you. But you don't have the right to do it, you don't have the right to question the process because nobody forces you to chase your goals. Nobody is telling you to go hard at it, you want it from the start so why are you now complaining that it's too hard? You want it so bad right? if nothing is working and you don't know what to do anymore then it's time to get desperate, do something that looks crazy, do something that you haven't done before.

It's the only way... get desperate during desperate times. Try everything that you can try, never stop, you have to be a little insane here. Take a big risk, leave everything on the line, burn the ships and never return from where you started.

You have nothing to lose anymore, you already lost a million times so there is no more pain in losing anymore, you feel nothing from it, you're not even scared of it anymore. Go all out this time, use all of your energy and knowledge to succeed, make sure you are 100 percent depleted before you rest. It's time to force the fate, it's time to command the universe to follow you.

Free yourself from the resistance, do it even if you think that it will not work, this is the time to get desperate... keep going no matter what and never show signs of losing, be happy even if you can't see any progress. Try over and over again, fail over and over again until you succeed. You are running out of patience so get desperate... surprise the world, do the unimaginable thing, do the most impossible thing.

Because if you will not do it then you will fail again, you are just repeating the cycle. It's time to do something different now, stop holding yourself back and just do it.

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IT'S NOT THE LACK OF SKILL, IT'S THE LACK OF WILL

There is nothing lacking in your life so stop looking for what is not needed. Stop looking for what is missing because there is nothing missing in your life, you're just making excuses, you think you don't have the skill to win but the truth is you only lack the will. You don't have enough willpower, it doesn't matter if you don't have the skill... it will develop as time goes by, you will be able to create the skill you needed to become successful if you want to succeed bad enough. So focus on developing your willpower, you can do it by working hard and not giving up. Chase a goal and let the skill be developed naturally, you will learn a lot of things if you want it bad enough, you will become a totally different beast if you keep pushing until the end.

So don't worry if you don't know how to do it, just keep working and you will discover how to do it. All you need to do is start and decide that you're not going to give up no matter what. What is the point of giving up? what is the point of dreaming about it but not trusting yourself? If your will is so powerful the success will become so big. You will become better everyday as you keep pushing, don't worry about the other things that you needed, you will find it and it will come to you naturally. Just focus on getting it and improvement will happen, the magic will happen, you will transform without even noticing it.

So study yourself, are you this type of person who quit so fast when everything went wrong? do you give up easily when you feel uncomfortable? you can have all the skill in the world, you can be so talented but if you don't have the will then nothing will happen to you.

So just keep pushing and never look again for what is missing in your life, if you can think, if you can move then that is enough. All you need to do is enjoy the process and keep pushing everyday. Success will be yours if you have that indomitable spirit.

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CONSIDER THAT EVERYDAY IS A BATTLE

If you want to make your life a little bit more exciting and different from what it used to be... always consider everyday as a battle. You always have to be in a sense of urgency if you want to get better results. You need to move faster, make decisions bolder, you have to make it happen now. If you will not go hard then nothing will happen, you will become miserable forever, you will get the same things that you don't want, there will be no better things that will be attracted to you.

Focus on winning, set your intention to victory, think that you're going to die if you're not going to give your very best. Always give your 100 percent every now and then and try to beat mediocrity. You need to win now, you need to own the moment, never relax nor take it easy because having a lazy pace will only make your life worse.

GO for your dreams, fight for it, never let it go. Battle with laziness, defeat procrastination and excuses. Consider that you're battling against yourself, you're battling with your lazy side that doesn't want to work hard and become successful. You need to get hard on yourself, you need to feel bad every time you're taking your life for granted. Everyday is a must win situation, consider everyday as critical. Never think that there is still another chance, consider the moment as your last chance to prove yourself and win in life.

Never let the weak version of you take over, always bring out the best in you, always push yourself to the limits and use the edge of your skill. Never think that you have limits, always stretch your body and mind and discover what is possible, see what you can get today by simply working hard and believing in yourself.

Conquer this day, declare yourself as a winner. Always think that every time you're moving you are winning the battle. Be the strongest that you can be... always push no matter what, make sure you're the last man standing.

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YOU KNOW SOMETHING THAT THEY CAN'T UNDERSTAND (GREATNESS CHECK)

If you're really chasing greatness and working hard every single day.... you will go to a different level, you will learn some tricks and knowledge that they will never understand. Sometimes they will even laugh at you and doubt you, it's because they haven't went to the place you've been before. They didn't experience your determination, depression and success. All they do is watch, all they do is wait for something that usually never come.

You're a different person now, you work hard for that skill. You emit blood, sweat and tears from your body, you din't clown around like them, you're serious every single day and that's why you were able to learn something that is very difficult to understand. You are seeing something that they cannot see, that's what chasing greatness and perseverance can do to someone... it can turn him into a different animal, a different breed.

No matter how hard you try to explain it to them... they will never understand it because they never experience what you did. You knew something they can't understand and they will only be able to understand it if they suffer and work hard the same as you. So don't ever feel bad if they can't understand you, don't ever feel bad if they have no intention of following you... the idea here is to focus on yourself and keep improving everyday, that is what great people does.

If they don't want to believe you then just show them what you can do, school them, make them feel that you're on a different level, make them feel the huge gap between your level and their level. Stop talking and just show them what you've got, use your knowledge that you discover yourself by chasing greatness. It's time to prove yourself, it's time to show them greatness that they will never see from themselves.

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12 BEST TIPS TO IMPRESS YOUR DATE

It's really nerve wracking when you're having your first date. It's really scary and you will doubt yourself if she will like you or not. There will be a lot of thoughts and negative voices that will play inside of your head, sometimes you even want to cancel it because you will like vomiting already before you even wear your shoes before the date.

1. Stay calm. Girls love a person who is calm, they feel at peace with a person who is cool, calm and collected. Talk slow, be at your pace, never rush things and always be in the moment... that is attractive already, maintain an eye to eye contact with her when you're talking and just stay relax even if you make some clumsy gestures. Act as if nothing happened once you made a mistake. Let the situation flow naturally. It's ok to have idle moments but never think that she is getting bored with you, just stay confident even if she feels like going home already.

2. Use a super hard cologne. Make her smell you, make here feel your presence. Using a hard cologne that can be smelled by a person who is hundred kilometers away from you is attractive. It's a turn on to all ladies. She will think that you're clean, she will think that you prepared for the date.

3. Pay the bills. Invest first, pay the bills. You can only ask a 50 percent share from her once she's your girlfriend and she can't do anything about it anymore. But while you're still courting her... pay the bills, don't worry because you can make a revenge on her once she's yours.

4. Listen to her. Listen to her, pay attention to her feelings. Remember what she likes and dislikes. Even if she's acting like a baby... just be patient and follow her. Remember that you want her and you're dying to get her so be patient and take it slow. Don't worry because once you have her... you can do everything to her. Listen to her for now because you will be in command later.

5. Stop talking about yourself. Stop telling her that you're the number one varsity player in high school and you should have been in the NBA now if you only didn't get caught using marijuana. Stop being arrogant that your daddy is a stock holder of a tissue company. Stop talking about yourself and ask more about her, ask her life, ask her favorite panty color, ask her favorite position while sleeping. Get to know her more instead of introducing yourself. Doing this will make her feel important, it will overwhelm her for sure.

6. Be aggressive a little bit. Girls hates boys who looks like gays. They love aggressive boys, they hate someone who is holding himself back. If you can touch her then touch her, you will know if she didn't like it. Threat her that you're going to kiss her and once she approve it... ask for more, sometimes you need to take matters into your own hands. But if she hates you being touchy then it's time to step backward a little bit. Be fast but don't rush, remember that she will still be the one who must be followed.

7. Be decisive. If she can't think of what to eat then just order anything, order an grilled octopus, order a steamed shark. If she can't think of what movie to watch then offer a sexy movie, if she didn't disagree then she's ok with you being the leader of the date. A girl loves a guy who can decide for hs own. If you can't be decisive then how will you be able to make her fall in love with you. Decide fast and never regret your decison.

8. Be yourself. Be honest, if you're just poor then tell her that you're just poor. It's ok to tell the truth, show her your cards, show her what you can do and what you can offer. Be yourself no matter what and never do things that you can't really do. Don't tell her that you have a car when the only thing you have is a skateboard. People loves people who are real, you can fake yourself today but not forever.

9. Compliment her. Make her blush, make her feel aroused by saying the nicest things to her. Tell her that she smells good, tell her that she is sexy even if she's chubby, tell her that she has a beautiful eyes even if she has some eye bugs. Tell her that looks fresh even if her armpits were sweating, make sure she feels good with your words.

10. Crack some jokes. Invent some jokes, even the corniest ones will work, make her laugh, some kind of a knock knock who's there joke will work. The best joke is a joke that will compliment her, make sure she will blush again with your corny joke. Another joke that will work is a dirty joke, something that is naughty but will not offend her.

11. Say I love you in the end. Say I love you before you too went home, that will make her blush again, she will be impressed with your speed and bravery. Tell her that you're a victim of love at first sight. Don't be afraid to get rejected, don't be afraid if she tells you that you're too fast. If she become quiet after telling those sweet words then it means she loves you too or maybe you have a chance.

12. Don't be afraid if it didn't work out. Always have a mindset of you have nothing to lose. If you got rejected then cry for three nights, become depressed for two days and then move on. Forget her and just look for another victim, keep hunting like a lion. Once she saw that you're dating another girl then maybe she will text you back. Girls love boys who has nothing to lose.

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