REMOVE SOMETHING TO MAKE A PROGRESS

If you ever feel stuck in your life, if you think you're working too hard and yet you can't see results... it's time to do something, but what if you don't know what to do anymore? what if stress, busy work, failing projects is overwhelming you? then it's time to remove something, it's time to get rid of something that is stopping you or making you slow. It can be anything, it can be a habit, a hobby that is so time consuming, anything, it can be a simple part of your life or simple part of the process. Sometimes all you need to do is get rid of a little thing and everything will flow again. 

Maybe there is something wrong with the chemistry of your life that's why you need to remove something. You need to remove a thought, a habit or a relationship with other people. If you will remove something then your system will change. You will feel a little bit weird, you will feel that there is something new going on even if there's no addition into your life. Removing something will open up a space, it will create new opportunities. That's why don't be afraid to resign in your job if you don't like it, you will find a new and better one. Don't be afraid to get rid of your toxic friends, you will meet new people who will treat you better. Don't be scared to dump your useless and jobless boyfriend, you will find a rich DOM who will give you everything you want. 

It's like giving space and energy for something that is more useful. You place your energy on the right things, it is allocated for winning and nothing else. If you can't make a progress then it means there's a lot of things consuming your mind, you need to free up some space, you need to forget everything that is not serving you. Declutter your thoughts, filter your habits, have an inventory where your energy goes. Progress is not that hard to do, its simply doing the right thing, doing something different, doing something that is very much related to your goal, it's simply getting better each day. It's a small improvement, it's a small sacrifice, it's a one right decision. 

Your simply one step away from making a progress. All you need to do is execute that step. Be real, you know what is a trash, you know what is useful. If something is stopping you then stop focusing on it. Be matured enough to do the right things. You what are these things, you know what to do, you're just afraid to make sacrifices. Stop acting like you don't know it, stop pretending to be blind, face the pain of making the right decisions, face the boredom of choosing the right activities. It's going to get harder but it is what it is, you want it right? so keep moving forward. 

Even if something is fun, if it's not serving you or giving you anything that is useful... stop it, you better stop it now. Stop it while you still have a strength to stop it, because time will come and you will no longer have the power to stop what is making your life miserable. Success is in your hands, you have the power to make progress, you have the power to become successful. It's all about going further and believing that you're going to win, there is nothing special needed to be done here, you can become successful even if there is no special on you. 

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RATHER GET BORED BUT NEVER GIVE YOUR TIME AWAY FOR FREE

It's better to become bored, it's much better to not look so cool but never give your time to people and things that has no value at all. Never waste your time for people who will never value your time. Giving away your time is like giving away your power and energy, you're burning every opportunity to live better and feel much alive. Every second can become a bridge to wealth. I just a few seconds you can create a momentum that will lead to greatness. So stop giving away your time for free because it's a sin to do it. Wasting time is a mortal sin to the most successful people. The greatest ones wee always active and moving, they're using their time for themselves and not for others, their time were allocated for their growth and evolution, they never use it for stupid activities that will only benefit others. It's really easy to become successful, just don't waste time and that's it, how simple was that?

Embrace boredom, you will do the things that you hated the most in order to make some progress, you must train yourself to enjoy working hard and sacrificing because that's the only path to success. They say you need to do what you love in order to become successful, but what if you need to do what you hate? the only choice you have is to enjoy it and make the best out of it. Go all in for the process and see what you can get. Because time is more than just gold, it has no equivalent value. You can replace cars, houses, money, wives but your time... you can never replace it ever. If you want to become successful and big, if you want to have an exceptional life... you better respect your time and the time of others, you better think of time as something holy and irreplaceable, you should feel guilty and ashamed of yourself every time you're wasting time because it means letting a big opportunity go away. 

So never let your guard down while disciplining yourself, you have to be strict, you have to be committed. Never let your time fly for nothing, be productive, be useful, use your time for growing and not for just entertainment. You can have a lot of fun later when you become successful. So use your time now, sacrifice and live your life like a champion later, this is what the great Muhammad Ali said. You can create a new life by creating a new mindset. It's too simple, it's hard but it's too simple. It's hard because you will control your mind, you will reprogram it, you will create new set of beliefs, you will do something that you haven't done before. It's too simple but really uncomfortable because you're trying to create a new and unfamiliar world. You will crate new thought patterns, you will reinvent yourself. 

Because the most of the time you're using your time for nothing, you're wasting it like you have a lot of it. You better change now or else you can never change forever. The time for changing is now, force yourself, take actions, stay committed and simply never give up. It's about doing it, it's about staying committed and not taking any day for granted. Just do it, whatever it is that you need to do... do it early, never procrastinate nor take a long break. Rest if you must but once you feel your body and mind has rested a little bit... go pushing forward. No time to waste your time, no time for nonsense things. 

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NOTHING CAN MAKE YOU GIVE UP

If you're on a slump right now, if you're struggling like a slow turtle and you feel so weak and you don't know where to go or what to do... keep moving forward, nothing can make you give up. All you have to do is persevere and things will get better, as simple as that. There's no other way to win, you have to stand up when you fail, you have to try again when you got denied, nothing can stop you, nothing can make you give up and that alone is a big privilege. 

Most people are panicking when they're on a difficult situation, most of them would want to go anywhere else, they're looking for a comfortable place, they're acting like a weak puppy that is looking for its mom. Life and success is not about comfort and easy, it's about facing the pain, you will feel more alive if you're life is not comfortable, it will become spicier if there are struggles and challenges so don't worry about comfort and safety. Always take the risk, always push forward and feel greatness in your life. Because greatness cannot be seen through situations that are easy and predictable, greatness can only be seen on the most difficult moments of your life, you will only witness it in times of danger and fear.  

Don't be concern about a lot of things. Be concerned about how are you going to move, how are you going to work hard, that's all you need to think. Because you will be fine once you are moving forward, great things will come if you're doing something. Forget the situation and always check yourself if you're giving your best. There is nothing else to worry about if you give your all. 

Once you're pushing everything will become easier. You will gain numbers, you will get opportunities, you will attract positive circumstances, your life will become much much better. It's all about not giving up, that's how to have a good life. You keep pushing, you keep trying until your life become better again. The play is simple, you don't need to complicate everything, just keep moving forward and never get tired trying. Fatigue is all in your head, you think you're getting tired because you don't want what you're doing anymore but if you will learn to love what you're doing and just keep pushing until the end then you will have a big chance of winning. 

Focus on what you want and keep grinding until you find it. It's all about putting your energy on the right place. What will happen will happen, you don't need to worry anymore if you're going to win or not but you have to make sure that you're giving your all because it increases the chances of winning. 

You are too strong, no problem can make you quit. It's all up to you if you're going to continue or not. The control is always yours, but just keep in mind that if you lose then it's your fault because you didn't try again. You lose because you didn't try hard enough. 

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WHAT'S YOUR WORLD?

You're giving time for what? you're using your energy for what? you're placing your attention on what? where your focus go is your world. So if you always use your time and energy for things that is giving you a bad feeling or putting you on a bad position then that's your world. We are all living in different worlds, just because we're living on the same world doesn't mean were are connected. We are not one, we are not connected. Don't be fooled by the idea that we are one, this world can't be united, it will never happen because we have different agendas and attitudes, we have different beliefs. It's up to you what you want to believe, what you believe and what you see is your reality. 

If your mind or strategy is about crimes or illegal activities then you're a criminal, as simple as that. If your life is about gaming, entertainment, fun but you're not getting any money then you are broke, your world is about laziness and uselessness, your world is about unproductivity and not growth. So make sure if you're doing something you are getting something from it. Don't do something because it is fun, do something because it is the right thing to do and will give you a very good life one day. 

Your activity is your reality, what you're doing now is your world. So if you're lazy now and procrastinating all the time then it means failure is your world, mediocre is your reality. But if you're working hard now and doing whatever it takes to improve a little bit then it means greatness is your world. Your action is your life, the way you live your life today is your self image and identity. So if you want to experience a new life then do something different. Work harder than yesterday, stay disciplined, stay focused and stay committed to change. 

Me, my world now is all about moving forward, it's all about taking actions. I'm trying to minimize the downtime hours in my life a much as I can, I am avoiding procrastinating, I am avoiding idleness and that's why progress has become my reality... endless progress and improvement. If I need to do something, I'll do it away, I am addicted to taking actions and I don't mind if my efforts were being rewarded or not. And this kind of culture makes my life easier, I am happier and more fulfilled, I am free, I feel so powerful. 

So look at yourself, what is your world? where are you addicted at? what are you doing everyday? what are you thinking everyday? your thoughts and actions is your world, it is your life. Take a look closely at your life and admit to yourself if you're doing the wrong things. You must be thinking the wrong way, your habits must be garbage that's why you keep getting garbage results. Force yourself to work and create a new world, force yourself to be something else. 

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THE POWER OF SMALL THINGS

The small things can give you bigger things, the smallest things can give you the biggest things. It's just a matter of believing in it and trying to make it bigger each day. It's just a matter of hard work, discipline and perseverance, it's just a matter of not giving up. So enjoy the process and keep pushing forward no matter what, do something every single second because every action will contribute to something you're tying to grow. Every small business will become bigger, every money will doubled, every small dream will become bigger, every mediocre will turn into greatness. So appreciate whatever you have in your hands and make it bigger every single day, try with all your might and stay relentless, stay hungry like a wolf that haven't eat for weeks or even months. Your desire to grow and become bigger will become the barometer of your success. 

Create a new pattern. Look at your pattern, look at your behavior and attitude towards trying to achieve your goals. You're always quitting every time things gets hard, you're a quitter, and that's why you can't make a progress. Create a new pattern, appreciate all the steps that you've been doing, enjoy every action even if it is so hard and impossible, always move forward no matter what. Don't ever think that you will fail and just move forward. Even if you're just repeating, even if you're just trying again... always believe that what you're doing will give you something in the future. Create a new habit that will take your life to another level. It's a small habit that will change your life. It can be simply avoid procrastinating or stop watching TV, stopping something is a habit too. If you want to create a new pattern in your life then you need to stop something that is badly eating a lot of your time. What are the stupid habits that eats a lot of your time, what are the habits that makes you broke and powerless? you know what are these, get rid of them and start a new life, a life that is full of great things and opportunities. You have the power to do it but you have to start small, start slowly, start at the bottom and be brave enough to grow everyday and make small progress. Patience is the key, time is fast so don't worry, you will never even notice that you're already improving. It's slow in the beginning but rapid progress will happen if you keep pushing forward. 

Appreciate the small things, take small actions and be consistent. Be happy with the little improvements that you've been getting, these small things will become big in the future. All it takes is consistency and tenacity, out work everyone and let's see if you can't make it in top. Always remember that if you're the hardest worker in your craft then you will become the number one. Be happy if you're not getting rewards yet, that's how success was designed... you will never get anything in the beginning but you will get a lot in the end. 

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CHOOSE SPEED OVER QUALITY

It's ok to make your work really great and cute but sometimes focusing on quality too much breeds procrastination. You are overthinking, you are comparing your work with others, you are stressing yourself too much and you're focused on the results. But if you will choose speed, I mean you fall in love with massive actions, you go all out, you don't stop and you outwork everyone what do you think the results would be? 

Looking for perfection takes away your power, you're thinking too much and not accomplishing something. Looking for perfect results is making you unproductive. In this competitive world the fastest ones are the ones who are thriving. You better master speed now if you want to become competitive. You already have an edge if you're so fast and not thinking, don't think about how it will go wrong and just do it. Allow yourself to take massive actions, be fast, be bold and decisive, you have what it takes to become a winner in life, choose speed over quality. Because the truth is... you don't know what is in high quality now, there's a lot of content, a lot of materials being sold, you don't even know what's legit or not. 

You can judge quality but not speed, if you're fast you're fast but if you're good somebody will tell you that you're still not good. Be all about speed and you will see a tremendous change in your life. Speed is a good direction, it's a very powerful energy, trust it and a lot of people will like you. 

Speed will make you forget your problems, if you're just invested on speed then you will be able to produce more, experience more, learn more and succeed fast. Everybody loves speed, companies loves speed, if you can just be the fastest worker in the world then there is a big chance that you will reach the top of the mountain. And even if you're not that good, if you do it over and over again then eventually you will become great. It's just repetition, believe in the power of repetition. Repetition will make you  a genius, it will make you discover things that are useful to make you successful. Sometimes even if your work is really good and of high quality, people will still judge it as something ugly, it doesn't pass everyone's standards. But speed... they can never judge it, they can never deny that you are fast. Speed can't be question, if you're fast you're fast. 

The key here is to just start and give your best. Stop thinking too much, just because you're fast doesn't mean you will play in your work, of course you will still give your very best and try to produce a high quality output but speed is your number one priority, you don't like slacking off, you don't like being the last, you want to become the quickest, you want to produce more. 

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IT'S BETTER TO JUST REST THAN TO DO SOME STUPID THINGS

You're doing a lot of things and that's why you feel so busy. You schedule is messed up, there are lot of activities in your life that are completely just a waste of time and energy. That's why you always feel like your energy was easily depleted. You don't mind if your energy goes to useless activities like watching TV, playing stupid games, gossiping, talking about the people you hate, joining activities that you don't even like, spending your time with the wrong people. It's better to just rest and do nothing than to spend your time taking actions that will only make your system weaker. You have to conserve your energy to do more important things. The reason why you can't do a lot of things is not because you don't have enough time, it's because you're wasting a lot of time for nonsense activities. It's draining you, it's pushing you away from progress.

Even if you're just thinking about negative thoughts, it's also draining your energy, it's making you powerless. Just choose to never think or put your mind on neutral to avoid draining your energy. Because negative thoughts is so poisonous, the more you entertain it the more your body will become weak, you will never take actions anymore, that negativity will control you and will immobilize you, it will scare you, it will stop you, you will become a slave of it. Just rest if you will never do something good because at least you're gaining more energy from it. When I say rest just stay neutral and plain, don't do anything like playing video games or using your cellphone and hanging with social media all day long. Just close your eyes and sleep if you can, or at least meditate. 

If you can just focus your mind and body to more productive and meaningful things then you will have a much better life. It's easy to have money if you will focus on getting money, it's easier to become healthy if you will focus on taking care of your body. The reason why you're failing is because you're doing a lot of things, you're too busy everyday thinking about problems that's not even connected to your journey or growth. Be mindful of the things that you do, be mindful of the thoughts that you think. It's simply about disciplining yourself and focusing on the things that really matters, if something will not make you grow then get rid of it, throw it away off the window, get rid of it as fast as you can. 

Don't tire yourself out, it's not the difficult tasks that makes you tired... it's yourself, you're making yourself exhausted because you're entertaining too much useless activities. You love a form of entertainment that is not helping you to make progress. 

You will become very unproductive if your mind is stressed, you will become slow and weak if you're thinking too much and if there's a lot of things going on with your life, you have to trim your activities, you have to prioritize the things that makes you better. If something is not making you improve then why the hell will you give some time for it? throw it away the window, get rid of it. You know what's better for you, you know what will work or not. 

TOO MUCH IMAGES IN YOUR HEAD

The main  reason why you can't get what you want is because there's too many images in your head, your mind is crowded with a lot of information that you don't even need. And that's why you can't focus, that's why you can't make progress and you can't become really happy. Get rid of the images that you don't even need, take away all the information that is only crowding your mind. You don't need a lot of information, you need to focus at the end of the tunnel and never travel a lot of ways. Where your focus go the energy flow and where you grow. So if you're focused on negativity then you're growing with negativity but if you're focused on positivity then you're growing with it, you're starting to become a better person. There is too much images inside of your head, you're wanting too much, you don't have a direction, you don't have a plan. Or maybe you have a plan but you're not executing it. Something is always taking your energy away and you're not aware of it. Something is always making you weak and slow. If you're just focused on what you want then you will get it no matter what, no matter what challenges tries to ruin your life... you can overcome all of it. 

Be a single minded person. Define what you want, define what you really need and go for it. Go and get it, period. Stop thinking, stop worrying, stop entertaining a lot of people and things that will only eat your golden time. You're wasting your energy for no reason, and that what makes you weak and slow. Too much image, too much information, too much useless entertainment will make you out of control, it will make you unproductive and wasted. You have to train your ability to focus on one thing alone and get it no matter what. That's how to become fast and productive, that's how to become successful. Train your drive, fuel your desire with the most correct and useful information you can come up with. 

Always ask yourself do you need to do that? do you need to watch that? do you need to be engage with that? do you need to participate with that? do you need to react with gossips or useless information? do you need to use your energy for news and such? Do you need to think that way? stop fooling yourself, stop getting caught up with something that is not useful at all. It's better to be just selling some random things in streets rather than wasting your life doing something that is only trapping you. You can train your mind, you can create a new habit that will put you to success. It's all about discipling yourself and depriving yourself from activities that will put you on a worse situation. 

Get rid of the subjects that are making you slow and lazy, some information are really entertaining but it has no real content, it's only putting your life into misery. Get rid of the negative and useless images in your head, think about what you want to happen in your life and forget everything else. 

YOUR PAIN IS GIVING YOU THE STRENGTH

What you do not know is your pain is giving you the strength. It's hard, it's painful, it's irritating, it's depressing, it's frustrating, you want to get rid of it right away but why are you still alive? why are you still fighting? why are you still breathing? it only means that that pain is giving you the strength, it's there for a reason, it's there because it's making you a better person. It's already in your life for a very long time but it can't kill you. You feel weak sometimes but the more you accept it the more you get stronger. Your mental game is improving, your tenacity is improving, every time you overcome it... you gain confidence, you feel proud of yourself. 

So let that pain remain in your life for as long as it wants to, never despise it, never get emotionally weak because of it. Don't talk about it, don't complain about it. Let it remain in your life because the moment you accept that pain, it gets weaker and you become stronger. Stop wishing for a perfect life, wish for more strength to endure any kind of pain. It's ok to feel it, it's ok to have it, it's nothing it's just another feeling. Keep going no matter what, push forward as hard as you can and pain will go away. Work, ignore the pain and focus on your goal. The side effect of focusing on what you really want is getting what you want and not feeling the pain anymore. You will never even notice that the pain is gone already. 

Feel it little by little, slowly move forward, focus on doing something, focus on appreciating that you can move. Don't worry about pain, it's not here to stay forever. Be happy because that pain is giving you the power, it's giving you the strength, you just don't know it because you don't want it. But if you will accept it with open arms then that pain will be converted to energy. You can convert any kind of pain into power, use it as a motivation, use it as a fuel to take more actions, let it make you mad and do the right thing, let it be a reminder that you need to become better than yesterday. 

And the truth is... you can push forward despite of pain, you can still live a normal life even if you have it. It's not there to make you weak, it's there to make you more alert and appreciative of your life. It's only making you harder and tougher and wiser in life. Don't give it another meaning, don't give it a weak meaning, see it as a blessing. It's only testing you, it's only preparing you for a bigger challenge. There is no pain that you can't overcome, there is no challenge that you can't face. So open your arms to everything, open your mind and always be ready for everything that may come. Let that pain live in your life for as long as it wants but never complain about it, don't be proud if it, just endure it. Don't brag about it, don't use it as an excuse, don't use it to get sympathy, don't use to to have self pity, just feel it and watch your life transform with it, watch yourself grow and enjoy it as much as you can. 

YOU THINK YOU'RE NOT IMPROVING BUT YOU ARE

The truth about consistency is... if you're really consistent everyday and doing what you are suppose to do then you will become a master of it. You don't need to check if you're improving or not, you already improved the moment you do the first step. There is no such thing as a dumb and stupid person, the only problem is most people were pretending to be ignorant and knows nothing. They don't want to even try, they don't want to train themselves or at least learn a skill. And that's why they can't make a progress. 

There's no secret to greatness, it's simply repetition and willing to work for a long time. There's no secret recipe to success, you just need to move and do what you're suppose to do. Just keep practicing, survive the good habits, stick with the routine and you will become great one day. Time is fast, one year is very fast, and it will become faster if you're enjoying what you're doing. Trust the process, never doubt it for a second, you have to believe it until the end, keep doing it even if it's not giving you any result. 

You don't know when you're going to become successful, the only thing you have control is your actions. It's better to be moving than waiting. Waiting will make you bored, it will make you frustrated, it will make you quit. But if you're doing something positive... you will enjoy your life, time will become faster, you will not even notice that years have passed already. 

Never feel bad if you work hard and yet didn't get anything, it's ok, your character improved, your attitude was so much better not, and that's the most important thing. It's not the result, it's the culture that you have, it's your way of life, it's your philosophy that matters. Look at those people who become successful fast, they don't know what to do anymore when they fail, it's because they don't have a philosophy or belief to use when things gets rough. They were not tested before that's why they were lost when a big challenge is on their lives. 

Just keep working hard, hard work pays off, make it as your culture, make it as your game plan. Keep pushing forward no matter what like ants. Never stop and simply focus on what you want and never focus on what you don't want. Get addicted to taking actions, stop checking for results every now and then because it will only give your frustration and depression. Always remember that it's your attitude that counts. It's your belief that matters, success  is on the way and all you have to do is keep working harder every single day. Stick with the grind, keep hustling and you will get rewarded one day. 

IT ALL STARTS WITH WHAT YOU HAVE

Sometimes you want to build a new life on a different place, you want to leave your present home because you feel it sucks and the environment is ugly. Sometimes you want to start a new career on a different company, you think you're not getting enough credit for the hard work that you put in. Sometimes you want to have a new life because you don't like your life anymore, you have everything about your life, you hate yourself and you can't see any beautiful things in your life anymore. But what you do not know is the problem is within you, you're the one who's making your life worse by being unappreciative and complaining too much of what you're getting. You think you deserve more but you're getting less, you think you're better than anyone else but you're not proving it, you think the problem is the people around you but the power is in your hands, you have the power to change your life right away, all it takes is a change of perspective. When you change your life will change, when you start to commit to getting better then your life will become better, as simple as that. 

It all starts with what you have, you can never find a better home if you keep hating your present home. You can never find a better job if all you do is look for some negatives in your company and the people there. You can never change your life if all you do is blame the world. Why not start with what you have and turn into gold what everything you touched? why not fully appreciate your surrounding and the people there? why not fill your world with love? why not try to become better where you are? why not use everything you've got and try to make it big as it can be? the choice is yours, always yours. You have the power to change your life, you have what it takes to make it better. You can make the worse better and the better best. Why not stop complaining and just clean your house, decorate it and make it new? why not just try to work hard and stop complaining about what your company can't give you? why not look for your bad attitude and habits and try turning things around? you feel weak because you have a victim mindset, you feel that everything around you sucks but you deserve better, you can't see the beauty in your place anymore because you're so poisoned with the habit if not appreciating what you have. You know millions of people are dying to have your place, millions of people would love to take your place but they can't because they don't have the resources and skills to do so. And much worse, they lack the support, they can't believe in themselves anymore so all they do is hope. 

You're on a good position right now, you're too lucky but the reason why you're so depressed is because you can't make the things and people around you better. You're taking everyday for granted instead of trying to see what you can do to make your life better. Once you move towards improvement then your life will change right away. Clean your house, love your life, ignore what makes you feel bad, work hard to make some improvements and you will see how your life has dramatically changed. 

It's not about what is lacking in your life, it's about you not seeing what you have that makes you feeling like a loser. Start where you are with what you have and build a better life. There's no need for an instant fix because it's not true, your life will never change right away, the more you force things and become needy the more your life will fall. Do it gradually, be patient, this is a discipline, it takes time but everything is possible. 

YOU JUST DO IT

No more thinking, no more doubting, no more over worrying... you just do it. Forget the result and you will be a fast starter, forget the future and you will be able to do a lot of things. Forget about winning or losing and you will be able to express yourself even more, you will feel free, forget that you deserve something and you will never hesitate if you will go all in or not. The reason why you can't move is because you think that life is so long, your time is so limited in this world so you don't need to worry about failing or embarrassing yourself, life is so short. 80 years or 90 years is so fast, even 100 years... it is so fast, people will forget you, people will never care for you. Even if you're a legend or something popular... your name will be forgotten. So forget about looking like stupid, forget about your ego, never mind if you look weak, never mind if people treat you like a junk. It's ok, time will pass, just focus on giving yourself a chance to win, focus on going all out and expressing yourself... that's how to become happier in life, that's how to erase all of your regrets. Give yourself a chance to shine, don't just let life pass by without fighting. 

Because you deserve anything you desire, all it takes is the willingness to take actions and go further. You need to stretch yourself, push yourself to the limits and never give up when things are hard. Keep pushing when the going gets tough, never stop, never settle... go all the way. Be a doer not just a watcher, it's better to be doing something rather than just watching people do their thing. You have your thing too, you have your journey too, never waste your life wasting your time watching other people's journey. It's a disrespect to yourself if you're giving too much of your time to others and not giving quality time for yourself to grow or at least do something that will make your life improve a little bit. Life is to be live, are you living or not? are you doing everything for yourself or not? it's all about investing your time for yourself and not for other people, that's how to live life to the fullest. Be selfish with your time, don't give it too much. 

If you need to do something... just do it, forget about what people say, forget about what other people think and just do it. Allow yourself to fly, be playful, be creative, take risks and don't be afraid to fail... ever. Failing means lining yourself up with winners, if you're failing then it means you're trying. The mist successful people in this world failed big time but they never lose hope, they even got hingrier after failing. 

BE A FAILURE

There is nothing wrong being a failure, there is nothing wrong with doing it your way and following your own belief. There is nothing wrong being a rebel and just following your own intuition. You only have one life why not try everything you can? Life is not about winning or losing, it's about trying and doing it your way, it's about putting yourself on the best position to succeed. The more you fail the more you learn, there is nothing wrong about failing, you will become mentally tougher, you will become more experienced. You will become a different person, you will become a different animal, a different beast that doesn't feel anything about defeat anymore, you are here to win and you just knew that it will happen one day in just a matter of time. Failing is all part of your life, if you're not failing now you will still fail in the future, don't be afraid of it, people who doesn't want to fail are weak. Look at some fighters who were undefeated before, they feel so low after tasting their first defeat. It's because they haven't felt that pain before. You will only become tougher and stronger every time you incorporate failing into your life. Don't ever think that you can bail yourself out from failure, you will experience it in the future even if you're not experiencing it now. 

Keep pushing forward every time you fail, don't be scared to try again, don't be scared to fail again. You have to show the universe that you want it so bad or else you will never have a break through, you have to keep pushing no matter what, even if you're not making results. It is what it is, it's really going to get hard, it's really tough but you have to make yourself believe that you can still do it. No matter what is your age, no matter what skills you have or what cards you hold... you still need to believe, still try and give yourself a chance to succeed. Failing is normal, it will never make you bad, it doesn't mean you don't have it, you just need more time to achieve, you just need to work harder. So keep pushing, keep grinding, always dare to sacrifice, always dare to move further. 

One day you will become a winner too, one day all of your works will be recognized, one day all of your efforts will be rewarded. So never get sick and tired of trying, always be patient, always believe in yourself and always work hard every single day. One day the universe will hear you because you are legit, you are real, you're not playing around, you are here for a business.... you are here to realized all of your dreams. 

IT WILL RETURN

Whatever you lost right now... it will return, don't worry because it will always return, you don't need to feel about what was lost in your life, you can replace it, everything is replaceable, the only thing that is irreplaceable is life, time and virginity. You can replace anything, what is lost will come back if you work hard and make an effort to make it go back. Even if your girl friend that ditched you for a new handsome boyfriend may come back if she sees that you're already rich and smelling good. Don't worry about anything that goes away in your life because something better will replace it if you keep believing and keep working hard everyday. 

RELAX AND TAKE IT EASY

Don't feel so sorry about what's already gone, if it is gone then it is gone. It will return, if your girl left you there will be another girl who will come to your life. If you lost your job you can find another job next day or next week, it may take time but the job will come back. The good thing is, maybe this time the pay is much higher than the previous job. If you lost an opportunity there will be a new opportunity that will come, all you need to do is be patient, what is lost will be replaced, it will return in just a matter of time, just keep waiting and have faith, what you want was not gone forever... it will come back on the right time. 

If you got tired your energy will return, if you got sick your strong body will return, if you become bankrupt your money will return, if you lose your friends a new set of friends will come, if you lose everything you will have something in the near future. Everything is replaceable so don't worry, just relax, don't panic because there is always something for you. You will get what you deserve, you will get what you are working for, it's just a matter of trusting time and trusting the process, have faith in yourself, have faith in your life... good things will come. So just keep moving forward all the time and stay optimistic, what is lost will be replaced. Don't get attached with something too much to the point that it's consuming your mind and affecting your life, you need to detach from something that was lost, if it comes back it comes back, if it doesn't then there will always be something better that will replace it. 

Ditch the past, forget what makes you feel bad because every time you do that good things will come to you. Don't ever think that what is lost is the only best thing in your life, you still have a lot of good things in your life, all you have to do is focus on what you want to love, focus on what is in front of you. What is gone is gone, let it go and it will come back. 

THIS YEAR IS ALMOST OVER, WHAT DID YOU ACCOMPLISHED?

How are you going to finish this year? that's the big question, most people already considered this year over, they already concede, they already gave up. They treat it as another useless year, some people hated it, some people thought that it's a nightmare. The truth is it is not, year 2020 could have been the best year of your life if you only did what is best for your life. And even if your life is bad all year long, you still have more than a month to fix it and do something great. It's not how you start, it's how you finish. Finish this year strong and try to squeeze something from it, try to make it great, you have the power to do that if you will move now and force things to happen. 

Just keep moving forward no matter what, forget the future and stay with the NOW. Just enjoy the time remaining for this year and simply give your best, don't be a slacker, don't take any given day for granted. Don't ever think that this year is almost over so you have the luxury to be lazy and do nothing anymore, that kind of attitude will lead to nowhere, you have to finish this year strong so that you will have a strong momentum next year. You don't know what may happen, all I know is good things happen to people who work hard. This yea is not yet over, you can still do something about it, you can still make it great. Your dreams can still come true, but if you feel like time is not enough anymore then just accomplish some parts of your dreams, maybe 25% or 50% of it, it's still possible, never waste this year for nothing because just like what I've said before... if you want to become successful then you got to keep on pushing, push yourself to the limits and never give up. What's the point of giving up? nothing you can get from that crap, it's a waste of time, it's a waste of life, you have to keep pushing no matter what. Not giving up is all in the mind, if you can make your mind powerful then you will never give up ever, convince your mind to keep going, condition it to face all the disappointments and pain. A strong mind is a strong life, a strong mind will keep you unrattled, you will be able to face any kind of problem at ease.

Look at your life, what did you accomplished this year? be happy if you improve a little bit, a little improvement will lead to bigger things, be happy if you gain a little bit financially, be appreciative if there is something small you were able to build. Be proud of yourself and never belittle yourself, if you manage to make a small improvement with your life then it means you're going up and not going down. You're headed on a right direction, all it takes is sustaining it and pushing more a little bit. The year is almost over but there are plenty of days remaining. One month, three weeks, two weeks, it doesn't matter, for as long as you're still alive... you can still make your life a little bit better than what it was yesterday. 

DOING SOMETHING IS FREE

Why are you so afraid to pull the trigger? why are you so afraid to take actions? don't you know that doing something is free? people won't charge you anything for taking actions. You can do anything you want, you can start now, you can chase your dreams or simply do what is needed. Nothing can stop you, you're the only one who's holding yourself back. You can start whenever you want, what is it that's stopping you? define it and study it, ask yourself why is it stopping you? is it really powerful or is there something you can do about it? of course there is something you can do, all you have to do is decide that you're going to pull the trigger. It's stopping you because you're letting it stop you, you're attached with it. But if you will completely detach from anything then you will become unstoppable, you will feel free, you will feel good, you will learned that it's ok not to win for as long as you're trying... that is where fun is. 

The just do it mentality. Always remember that you have nothing to lose, this is just fun and games. Take action now, just do it now and give yourself a chance to win. Detach from the outcome, if you win you win, if you lose you lose. You will never know what will happen unless you try. Because the real meaning of success is knowing if you can make it or not by doing whatever it takes to win in life. Do the first step and then follow through, never stop, keep moving forward and go further as much as you can... that's how to win in life. Just do it, push yourself, force yourself to take actions, never stop when it's hard, stop when you're already done. 

The number one reason why you're losing is because you don't have your own culture, you don't know what you're going to do, you're always doubting yourself. What if you just do it and be ok with the results that may happen? why not just shut your mouth and just execute? you're always looking for something before you start, you don't know that what you need is already inside of you. You have the power to move, don't forget about it, you must do something or else you will not be in control. Whatever may happen, always choose taking actions. Don't just sit there and wait, don't just hope that everything will be alright even if you're not doing anything. Do whatever it takes to get what you want, give yourself a chance to succeed. 

It's all a matter of choice if you will work hard or not, are you going to do something about it? are you going to pull the trigger? stop acting like you can't do anything, always choose working, always choose giving your best because that is what it's all about. Keep working, keep pushing, it's always free to move, it's always free to take actions, nothing can stop you if you will choose to become unstoppable. 

STOP BEING FANCY

Being too flashy, being arrogant and loud means you're trying to impress somebody. Being yourself is the best thing you can do. Because by doing that people will love you more and you will be able to make the right decisions. A lot of people nowadays will do something stupid just to make themselves look superior and interesting. They will buy expensive clothes, post naked in social media, make dramas, will try to become generous even if they don't feel it, and this makes them broke in the end, this kind of attitude makes them lose a lot of money and respect, they were lost, they feel bad if people doesn't respect or appreciate them. Some people wants to get feared, they want to get respected but forcing these things to happen is pushing it away even more. 

Just be yourself, so what if you look poor? so what if you don't look great and cool? people will like you more if you're not loud and just simple. Be simple if you are simple, don't try to make yourself something you are not because it's only making your life worse. Because the truth in life is people doesn't like you they will not like you, it's hard to change their opinions, you can please them now, you can impress them now but they will hate you again in the future. You need to just be yourself and never try to change the opinions of people about you. You are looking like a clown even more every time you do things that you really don't like. Being true to yourself will make you more happy. It's a mistake to do something that is outside of your values. Because you are embarrassing yourself even more every time you do things that you feel impressive but are really not impressive. 

Because if you are really great then you must be confident about yourself, you don't need to worry about what people say, you don't need to worry if you're on top or at the bottom, you just simply live your life the way it is. There's no pressure at all, there's no attachments from their comments, you are not afraid of getting criticized, you are not afraid if they like you or not, you have a peace of mind that you are ok no matter what. Just feel happy with what you have, be appreciative of what you have and the rest will be taken care of by itself. There is nothing wrong by being yourself, if you're not coo you're not cool so what? do you need to look cool just to stay alive? do you need to look rich and superior just to feel happy? if you need those things then you're weak, your happiness was based on the external things that you cannot control. 

All you can control is your mind and actions, be happy if you're doing the right thing and progressing a little bit, be happy if you're not getting something, be happy if they can't appreciate you. Just work hard and focus on your goals, focus on improving everyday because that is where really happiness is coming from. 

WHATEVER NUMBER YOU CAN PRODUCE

You've got to love numbers if you want to become successful, you've got to love increasing your numbers. What numbers can you produce? for now I am sure that there is a number that you can produce and you have to do it. No more waiting, no more thinking... just produce it. 

How many rejections can you take? how many pushups can you make? how much money can you bring home? how many calls can you do? how many articles can you write? how many hours can you work? count it and then try to increase it every single day. How many content can you create? how many repetitions can you repeat? how many failures can you endure? how many sacrifices can you make? how many small successes can you repeat? how many tries can you try? that's the main question... what numbers can you produce? it's ok if you produce a small number, it's ok if that's all you can do, what matters is you are pushing yourself and trying to take your journey to another level. Because your main problem is not the lack or resources or lack of skills, it's not the lack of help nor education... it's your inability to make a stand for what you want. You can do ten or 100, you're aspiring for a big number but your effort is for only 5. You can do more, you can become bigger than your situation but you always settle for less, your value is too small but you think you deserve something bigger than what you're getting. It's time to wake up, push your numbers up or else your life will never change. 

Just produce one, do one then follow it up. Do more, keep doing, keep moving forward, that's how success is being done. Stop putting your work in pending, once you start something... strive to finish it, never stop, never procrastinate, never make excuses, never entertain your pain... just focus on doing one step at a time and you will make a progress. Most people are entertaining their pain that's why they can't finish something. They make their boredom or fatigue a big deal, they stop right away when they feel tired, they don't push themselves when they're struggling. Always remember that it's all about pushing forward and nothing else. There is no right timing now, you have to do it if it's uncomfortable. Pacing yourself, waiting for the right timing is only catering laziness, it's making you weak, it's building a useless culture in you. You have to do something while you can because you never know what will happen tomorrow. You have to execute every idea in your head now because tomorrow is not a promise. The sun may explode tomorrow and we all die, you might have another different challenge tomorrow and you will never do what you are suppose to do anymore. Situations may change fast and if you're always slowing down and stepping on the brakes then you will never get anywhere. So push yourself to do something even if it' just small, trust me... it can make a difference, produce any kind of number and multiply it. 

3 SIMPLE AND EASY WAYS HOW TO HELP YOURSELF?

You need help, you're just a human, swallow your ego and accept that no matter how strong you think of yourself you also need other human beings to make your burdens lighter. You will become weak at some part of your life, a big problem will make you weak, you will be tested, that is part of life, that is part of being a human. 

But what if nobody wants to help you? are you just going to quit? are you just going to cry? you are the only one who can help yourself and nobody else. You have no choice but to try again, stand up again, that's the only choice you have. 

Here are the simplest and easiest ways on how to help yourself:

1. Take small actions. The one smallest or tiniest action you can do will help you, granted that it is positive and has a benefit after. One small action at a time, don't try to change your situation fast because you're only making it harder for yourself. Always trying to rush will never make you win. You will only get frustrated by doing that. Take it slowly but surely. Small actions will put you back on track. The reason why you're losing is because you don't want to accept the tiniest progress you can have, you want to take shortcuts. You want to feel good right away when you're sick, you want to have financial freedom right away when you're drowning in debts, you want to redeem yourself whenever you fail, you want everything to be fast and that's making your life miserable. 

2. Be humble.

Always sty humble, by doing this there will be no pressure on your side, it will be easier for you to do things. If you're too humble then there is nothing else to prove, you can be yourself. By being humble means you're not trying to compete, you're not trying to rub elbows with people that you don't like, you're not trying to impress anyone, you're just focused on your own life. You're not criticizing other people too, you're not trying to interfere with other people's lives and trying to change their perspective. Being humble means simply living your life the way you want it to live, you're not trying to command respect, you're simply doing what you know is best for your life. 

You will make progress fast if you're humble, there will be no chip on your shoulder. You don't care about what people say, you don't feel bad if they criticize you, you're offended sometimes but you're not letting it stay in your head for a long time. 

Being humble will make you a better person, you're not trying hard anymore, you're simply being yourself and happy with what you have, it's easier to improve by having this kind of mentality. Because most people needs appreciation, that's why they're making themselves loud, they're flashy, they're doing things that they don't want to do just for the sake of getting some attention. And this kind of style makes their lives miserable because they're too cautious of their actions, they don't have freedom because they're too worried about what people will say. 

3. Don't do anything stupid.

It's easier to make improvement if you will not do anything stupid. You know what is right or wrong, you know if a particular decision will pull you down or raise you up. Just one stupid mistake will change your life. Don't do anything stupid and just do what is right, your life will change for the better if you stay responsible and committed to your goals. Some people will do a lot of stupidity because they think it is cool, the want to have fun for a short period of time but the effect of it is bad. 

FORGET YOUR MISTAKES, FORGET YOUR WEAKNESSES

Forget your mistakes in the past, it's over, forget that you've been bad and some of your decisions were wrong. It's ok, it's normal, you're just a human being. If you will not make mistakes then you're not making it right, mistakes and hurried decisions were all part of the game, it's making you a better person so forgive yourself and move on. No need to worry because you still have a chance to correct everything and live a much better life now.  So what if you made a lot of mistakes? you're not the only one who's like that, there are millions of people who are living wrong, what matters is you are ready to improve now and do whatever it takes to do better next time. Past is past, there is nothing you can do about it anymore, all you can do is free your mind from the past and welcome every possibility that will come to your life. 

Change your mind change your life. If you keep thinking the same way you will get the same results, if you keep judging yourself because you're not making results then you will become stuck forever, you should feel good with every action you execute. You should feel proud every time you work hard. Good things happen to people who move forward and ignore the past, think about the good things that my happen to you if you're thinking the right way, it's all in the mind, people are stuck because the have the wrong thoughts inside of their heads, if you can just correct your thoughts and focus on making progress and improvement then your life will change so fast that you will not even notice it. So keep moving forward all the time, ignore the negativity from the past, think about your goals and just do something. IT is easy to change your life, all you have to do is think the right way and never let past disturb you again. 

Ignore your weaknesses, everyone has a weakness, you're just a human being. Success is not about feeling bad because you're weak on some things, it's about focusing on your strengths and trying to get as much as you can with it. You are powerful more than you thought, it's just a matter of believing in yourself and what you can do, you can do a lot, you can do great things it's just a matter of trying it and not being scared to fail again and again. Because you will become stronger and skilled every time you ignore that you're weak on something, your life must be all about creation and not hesitation. Once you have an idea execute it and never wait for the right time. The right time is now, you must act now and never let your fears scare you again. Because you will only become scared if you're stagnant and lazy, you will gain a lot of confidence from taking actions. Just show up and do what you can do, allow yourself to take over, rule your mind, control what you can control and let victory be experienced in your life. 

THINK ABOUT IT EVERYDAY, DO IT EVERYDAY

Whatever dream you have... you need to think about it everyday, you need to do something for it everyday. It's like watering a plant, taking care of a baby, growing your muscles, improving your life little by little. The majority of your activities and thoughts should be related to your dream, it should consume your mind, it should make you move. It's a strong focus that will make you succeed and nothing else. The number one reason why people always fail is not the lack of ability but the lack of focus and dedication. They were doing a lot of things that are not even related to their dreams, they're thinking too much, they're invested on emotions that are making them weak. That's why you need to be mindful all the time, you need to stay present in the moment. You should feel like getting tortured with high voltage electricity every time you're acting like stupid. 

Always think that you have only one life, why waste it for nothing? why make it hard on yourself? why will you do a lot of stupid actions that will not even make you grow? you have to think smarter and sharper. Success is simply about making the right decisions every now and then, it's not a complicated process, it's about enduring the sacrifices you need to make just to go to the next level. It's hard but it's too simple, all you have to do is get engage with activities that will help you become closer to success. 

If you're a stupid kid and you can't thrive in your class but you want to graduate and earn a diploma all you need to do is open your books, try to understand what you can understand, ask from smart people, do your assignments, stop skipping classes and don't be late. What's so complicated about that? it's a simple process. Playing video games is pushing you away from earning a diploma, being late and being lazy is making the journey harder. All you have to do is do the basics and that's it. It applies to any areas of life, all you have to do is do the things that will make you close from becoming successful and that's it... you will become closer and closer to victory. 

You're spending a lot of energy everyday. Talking nonsense is spending a lot of energy, being lazy also spends a lot of energy, come to think of it... you feel more tired if you're not doing anything right? It's just a matter of where are you using your energy. Just because something is fun and easy doesn't mean you have to do it, it's a waste of time and energy, it's blocking you from getting successful. Be aware of what you are doing because if you will just go with the flow then you might flow with the wrong direction, it's easy to get tempted, it's easy to get seduced by stupid activities, you think it's a lot of fun for now but wait when the effects of it already attack your life. 

Invest your time and energy for your dream, that's how to live a life without regrets. 

TRUST THE LAW OF AVERAGES

The law of averages is the most underrated law of all time. Most people don't want to trust it because they feel like you need to work a lot. But the truth is... it is easy, if you will just believe and keep moving forward then it will work. You don't need to think too much about it you just need to know the basics, know what you need to do, know the basic steps and keep doing it... as simple as that. The law of averages will work. It's only just a matter of time before it work, you just need to believe it, trust it with all your heart, use it everyday, use it as much as you can and never get discourage if it is not working. So enjoy using it, you can try as much as you can, that's the beauty of the law of averages, you have unlimited tries, success is already guaranteed. 

IT WILL WORK NO MATTER WHAT

It will work, all you have to do is keep on trying. The more numbers you produce the more successful you will become. Big numbers attracts big numbers, the more you try the bigger the chances of winning. So trust it, be relentless on trying, pound it, push the pace. Just believe, this is what you need to do, believe it and you will make it work. You need to try as much as you can, numbers don't lie, if you're still failing then it means your number of tries is so few. 

DON'T GET DISCOURAGE WITH FAILURES AND REJECTIONS

Rejections and failures are all counted. You have to fail and got rejected a lot of times before you make the law of averages work. You are getting closer and closer every time you fail so be happy if you are failing because it means you're almost there. If you can feel happy and appreciative of your failures then you will become unstoppable. Because it's not the failure alone that stops people, it's the attached emotions with it, people get depressed whenever they fail. They feel they've been cheated, they feel tha the world is unfair. 

THE MOST SUCCESSFUL CAR SALESMAN USED THIS

The most successful salesman in Europe used this, he sold 150 cars in just one year, can you imagine that? and he made it look easy. His co-workers are wondering how did he do it and he just smiled and answered "I use the law of averages". He explained it carefully to his co-workers but none of them made it work, why? because they easily get discouraged with multiple failures, they can't take the pain of failing. The successful salesman failed a lot of times, his journey was never easy, there are lot of times when he almost made the deal work but clients for whatever reason changed their minds, some just disappear without any notice while some are just playing him. But he neve lose his motivation, he keep going and going no matter what.  

IT'S ABOUT FIGHTING ADVERSITY

Life is not about greatness, it's not about success... it's about fighting adversity, it's about facing your fears and enjoying it. Because you can only feel free if you will enjoy your fear. Feel it, it scares you right? but if you feel it second by second then it will go away as fast as 1 2 3. Fear is nothing but just a feeling, don't think about the outcome, don't think about how bad you look, don't think about your image and your fear will start to evaporate. 

The real adversity is you, you're stopping yourself, you're making it harder for yourself by doing a lot of stupid things, you're the one who's scared, you're the one who didn't trust yourself, you're the one who's not moving at all. Any kind of adversity can be solved, it's all about weathering the storm. All you have to do is deal with it and that's it, it only looks so hard because you're trying to shy away from it. Don't hide away from your problems, deal with it, face it like a real man. Because you can always find a way how to solve it, you can always do something if you will. So stop holding yourself back, stop being a coward because success is all about facing your fears, it's all about doing whatever it takes to win in life. 

Whenever there is a problem, stop thinking and just face it. Embrace it with all your heart, be happy with it because that's all you can do, remember that this is just life, it's too simple if you will not complicate it. It's too easy if you will just face everything, open your heart to every opportunity, struggle, problems challenges and never try to make excuses that life is hard because of this or that, you're only making yourself weak by doing that. 

Never fold to adversity, make yourself stronger by facing it little by little. Look fear into its eyes and say "you're nothing", feel fear and never back down, you are here to experience everything. So experience fear, happiness, success, struggle, embrace everything in life because what can't kill you can only make you stronger. You already won if you give everything you've got to get what you want. So stop being a fool thinking that you don't deserve big things, you can have anything in life if you have a big heart. It's not about your skill, it's about your will. Because at the end of the day, the real meaning of live is living it, as simple as it sounds. It's not about glory, it's not about being a hero or getting sympathy from other people, it's not also about feeling good... it's simply about living, so everything else outside of this equation is just a bonus. You really have nothing to lose here, you have everything you gain if you keep moving forward. So do whatever it takes to win in life... go all out and make it happen. 

Face your fears, it's ok to be scared, it's ok to struggle, it's ok to feel the pain. These emotions are nothing but emotions, it's never permanent, it will come and go and all you have to do is wait. Successful people are the ones who can move while feeling something bad. 

CATCH THE OPPORTUNITIES TO STOP

If you want to change your life you must be good in catching yourself procrastinating or doing things that will not help you at all. Catch the opportunities to stop. Watch yourself all the time, you should know what you are doing. Most of the time you're always in an autopilot mode, you're not aware of what you're doing that's why you're just doing it without any reason. You're doing something because it's already your habit. The way you think, the way you do things were controlled by your subconscious mind, you are doing something because you already did it for a million times. 

So if you want an effective way to change... catch opportunities to stop. Every time you watch TV for a long time, it's an opportunity stop. Every time you smoke is an opportunity to stop, every time you procrastinate is an opportunity to stop, every time you think about negative things is an opportunity to stop. Be aware if you need to stop, always stay conscious, always stay present. Because most of the time you already need to stop what you're doing but you can't, it's because you love it, it's too easy and entertaining. But that kind of mindset won't help you at all, it will even pull you down. Don't ever get addicted with good feelings, don't ever prioritize your emotions because it will lead to nowhere. 

If you don't know what to do, if you don't know what will work then stop what isn't working, as simple as that. Stop what is ruining your life and your body will do the right things naturally. Stop thinking negative and your mind will start thinking positively. If it's hard to do for now then just put your mind in a neutral state, don't think at all. Because it's better to be not thinking than to think negatively. If your body can't move because you feel lazy then don't do anything stupid, stay still, just sleep if you can. It's better to be not doing anything than to do something that will only waste your energy because the level of your exhaustion will be doubled. If you feel lazy then don't do anything, don't watch TV, don't gossip, don't smoke, don't drink beer, don't eat unhealthy foods, just don't do anything. Because putting your mind and body on a neutral state will make you closer from doing positive things, but if you're thinking negatively and doing something bad then it will be hard for you to shift to a positive state. That is why if you don't have an idea then just let it be, stay still, don't ever entertain any thoughts, don't ever do something else because it will be harder for you to think of an idea. Putting your mind and body on a neutral state will make it easier for you to become positive. That's why if you hate someone, don't think about him so that it will be easy for you to forget him. Don't talk about him even if you have an opportunity to discuss his bad attitude, don't back stab him, don't scrutinize him, just forget about him. 

The best way to stop something is to stop giving it any attention, stop giving it some energy. 

EVERY SACRIFICE IS ALL WORTH IT

Always remember that every time you sacrifice, every time you do the right thing... you are only making your life better. It's hard, it's boring but it's all worth it because you're creating a very bright future by doing it. The bitter reality of success is you need to do what you hate to do, you need to take it one step at a time, you can never rush, you need to feel the pain, feel every moment of not entertaining activities. That's why it's harder to study than to just watch television, it's harder to stay positive than to think about negative things. It's harder to do the right things but these things gives better results, it puts you on the best position to have a better life. Sacrifice means success, discipline is the right path. So watch your language, watch the way you think, watch every action and decision that you are doing because it is critical for you to have a better life. Every thought and action are either pulling you down or pushing you to the top. 

So don't ever feel bad if you can't party right now, don't feel sad if you can't do what the "cool kids" does, your time will come, you will have a lot of fun once you become successful. Focus on getting better first and your life will become better. Always remember that hard work and dedication is the right path to success and nothing else. You can't go to another level if you keep doing the same thing. You have to endure the stress of growing and learning because it's the brightest path to a more meaningful life. Start now and do what is needed, work harder, make yourself better, stop doing things that will not even make you grow. You have to embrace boredom, you have to stay focused on the grind if you really want to change your life. I know you're bored in your life that's why you're doing a lot of fun things but trust me... you will become more bored, you will have more regrets if you don't do the boring things that will give you an opportunity to catch success. 

Look at those lazy people that are always having fun everyday, they waste their time, they never grow, all they do is have fun... they have a miserable and unorganized life, the were just hoping to get lucky, they don't know where to go. And they are pretending to be cool with that but deep inside they are lost and also dreaming about becoming successful. 

Time is fast, the sacrifices that you made will bear fruits. All of your efforts will be rewarded, you just need to enjoy doing the best things that will give you something. It's all in the mind, once you conditioned your mind to enjoy the difficult things... everything will be a lot easier, it will become your habit to grow and be on a sense of urgency everyday. And the truth is... nothing is hard if you will enjoy it, everything is easy if you will stay in the moment and just accept that those are the things that you need to do. 

YOUR VALUE IS YOUR ABILITY TO FEEL FREE

If you feel free all the time you are powerful, you can do anything, there is lesser resistance. Free from results, free from critics, free from suffering, free from pain. If you can just take actions whenever you need to and you're not afraid of what people say then your value is really big. It's because you will become more creative, you will be able to express yourself, and that is called power. Most people have great talents but they can't show their gifts to the world because of being afraid of being judged and that's why they have a lot of regrets. They're so afraid to fail, they want their lives to stay perfect all the time. And that is why they can't express themselves to the fullest, they have a lot of reservations. 

So the main goal to succeed in life is to feel free, in this way your value will increase, you will go to another level. Feel free to ask for a raise from your boss, feel free to get out of the place that you don't like, feel free to speak your mind, feel free to try something new, feel free to take the last shot, feel free to chase your own dreams, feel free to build your own empire, feel free to just do it even if you feel lazy, feel free to break any resistance that is stopping you. You should feel free all the time, detach yourself from the outcome, always stay in the moment and try to create something great. Feeling free is like opening a new opportunity for yourself. It's like giving yourself a chance to succeed or get what you want. 

Because the truth is you are free but you don't believe it. You always think that something will stop you, you always think that you will fail and all of your efforts will be wasted, you are not free from your old mind. Free yourself from your old self and start a new life now. You will only experience a different kind of experience if you will free yourself from anything that is stopping you to grow. You can become unstoppable if you will feel free to try, it's all in the mind. Being creative and expressive is all in the mind, if you are not afraid to make mistakes or take the blame then you can try anything even if the pressure us so high.

What are these things that stops you? judgement from other people, being afraid to fail or get criticized, being afraid of that the future holds, being afraid to fail. These things are very easy to eliminate if you will just condition your mind to feel free all the time. Free yourself from the outcome, never mind what will happen in the future and simply give your best now. You can never go all the way if you're always thinking about the future, focus on the now and try to make it a little bit better. You have the power to change your life if you will just change your thoughts and habits. So feel free to reinvent yourself, change everything that you don't want about yourself, have the courage to do it, I know it's hard but it's really worth it. 

Always remember that your value gets bigger as you make yourself more free. If you're not doing anything illegal or hurtful to others then why stop yourself. Don't be afraid of getting judged, don't be afraid to do something wrong, how quickly people forget, if you mess up now then tomorrow people already forgotten it. 

LITTLE BY LITTLE LET IT GO

You have the strength to let go of your anger, worries and pain. You can do it. Letting go is not cowardice, it's not quitting... it's real courage. It takes a lot of willpower to let go but you can do it, all you have to do is make peace with it and never think about it anymore. Don't talk about it, don't complain about it, don't even give it a little energy... just let it go. It will never hurt you if you let it go, letting go is power. Always remember that you don't need to prove yourself to anybody, you are not suppose to carry a burden that is not even worth it. 

If you have an enemy, if that person really irritates you... let it go, stop thinking about him, little by little have peace with that person in your head. Because it's not even worth it to think about someone that is not even important in your life, it's not even worth it to hurt yourself with negative thoughts. Let it go, little by little you can do it. What makes it hard for you to let go is because you think doing it will make you weak. No it's not, quitting about something that's not even worth it is not weakness, it's courage. 

Life will become much easier if you don't have a messed up mentality. The things that are distracting your mind is not even worth it to keep, you can live without those thoughts, you can have a much better life if you will clear your mind with negativity and just fill it with positivity. It's ok to stop holding on to past events, it's ok to let go of your regrets. Forgive yourself, forgive the people that hurt you in the past, you can do it if you will just give yourself a chance to do it. You can control your mind, you can tame it, it's your mind that is making you suffer. If you can just simply think about the things that really matters and stop thinking about people, event or things that are making your life difficult then you will live a wonderful life, it's Merry Christmas in your life everyday. 

Because at the end of the day you're the only one who's making it hard on yourself by dwelling on things that are not helping you to move forward. It's not the people, it's not your mistakes, it's not the failures, it's not the embarrassing moments, it's not what people say... it's how you think and feel. If you can just control your thoughts and emotions then your everyday life will become very easy, you don't have to worry about anything else anymore, you will just let life flow and give your very best. 

Let go of the grudge, let go of the fear, let go of everything that is making you feel bad and just live your life the right way. Try to become very happy. It's possible to live that way, it's possible to make your life easier by cleaning the negative thoughts inside of your head. Always remember that your misery and pain was caused by your mind, if you can control your thoughts then you can control your life. Because your life was governed by your thoughts, you need to constantly remind yourself about this. The more negative you are the more negative your life will be, if you are a positive person then it will be a lot easier to become happy everyday. 

THE MOST EFFECTIVE WAY TO BECOME A WINNER

No matter how you look success in any angle... there is only one way to feel like a winner and that is to take matters into your own hands, to do it your way, to stop procrastinating and simply give your very best... that's how to win in life. Because the truth is... it doesn't matter if you succeed or not, what matters is you give your best. And if you're giving your best you will have no regrets, people feel like a loser because they can't give their best. Look at some NBA players who won a championship, some of them still feel like a loser because they didn't play on court. Some of them were really happy but most of them were just faking happiness, they're pretending that they're a winner in life but deep inside they feel like a loser because they knew they can do something but they can't do anything about it, they wanted to play but something is stopping them. You will feel weak, your confidence will go down if you can't do what you are suppose to do, if you're a player and can't play then you will feel low, if you're a writer but can't write then you will go crazy, just like a bird that has a broken wings... that bird will die anytime soon because he can't fly, that's why most birds who are on the cage were so lonely... it's because they can't do what they are suppose to do. 

It's not about the actions, it's not about people liking you, it's not about pleasing other people and trying to look good in front of them, it's about unleashing yourself and doing what is best for your life, it's about utilizing your skills and potentials. So make it a point to be yourself every single day and do what you are suppose to do, never let your energy be stored in your body because it will become weakness, use all of your energy to get what you want or just chase what you want, it doesn't matter if you win or lose, you will still feel like a winner in the end if you give everything you've got, it's not about being perfect or dominant, it's not about winning at all... it's about fighting and giving your chance to win using your own judgement and decision. Because at the end of the day it's your life, you're the only one who can judge your life and not other people, you can still feel like a winner even if other people are calling you a loser, it's not about what they say, it's about how you feel about yourself. You ca still feel really successful even if you're not getting results, and that feeling can only be achieved if you allow yourself to become free chasing your dreams. What people say shouldn't affect you, they are entitled to do that but you are also entitled to stop listening to what they say and do it your way. 

Winning is about feeling free, some people who are earning a lot of money still feel like a loser because they were trapped in a corporate world doing jobs that they don't even like. Be yourself and do what you wanted to do, if you're not hurting anyone, if you're not doing illegal things then you're on the right path. So always make sure that you can take actions whenever you want to, always feel free... that is how to become a winner in life. Free yourself from what they say, free yourself from things that are restraining you. 

ONLY FEW PEOPLE ARE LUCKY

Stop blaming the world, stop blaming your parents if they didn't give you the life you want, stop looking for a scapegoat, stop being mad with your surroundings, and most of all never get jealous with other people who looks so lucky. There are only a few of them, you're not the only one who's struggling in life. Only few people who were born rich, only few people won the lottery, only few people were blessed with good looks and talents. This is the reality of life... you have to create your own luck. You have to grind and hustle, you have to live like there is no more tomorrow and give your best every single day to get the life that you want. 

Only few people are lucky, only few are millionaires or billionaires, only few are given freebies. What you see on social media are all lies, the hashtag feeling blessed is a fake thing. People are faking their lives, the truth is they are also struggling and having a hard time, people are only showing the good side of their lives and they are so shy to reveal what is really going on with their lives. So stop getting jealous with other people who looks rich, lucky and blessed. You will have your own break too if you will work hard and give your very best. You will see opportunities if you will continue to move forward and stop overthinking, it's all about the right movement, it's all about the right mindset that will bring luck into your life. Getting jealous with other people who are lucky will only bring misery and pain into your life so stop doing that, start living a positive life that is full of hope and appreciation, start feeling lucky even if you can't see some improvements in your life and you will see some change in just a matter of days. Be appreciative, don't focus on other people's lives, don't focus on looking at what you don't have and start appreciating what you have. 

Those people who are super rich and blessed have some problems too, sometimes their problems are much heavier than yours. So stop feeling like a loser and start living like a winner. Luck is just a state of mind, the more you think you are lucky the more you will get luck. Your thoughts will manifest the things equivalent to it so take care of your thoughts, strengthen your mind and you will get through anything, you will become unstoppable, nothing will bring you down. 

True luck is for people who work hard, you will get what you deserve, there is a piece of cake reserved for you if you really paid your dues. So stop feeling needy all the time, stop comparing your life, your life becomes worse every time you get jealous and bitter. Always try to feel positive and appreciative, always try to understand what is going on and never ever complain, don't wish for your life to change right away, use your mind and body to change it the right way, change slowly, do all the process needed to get better, be patient and take your time because wishing for a fast change will never get the job done, rushing will only make you frustrated. 

IMPOSSIBLE IS THE BEST OPPORTUNITY

When the whole world count turns their back on you, when everyone cast their votes against you, when defeat is so obvious and it's already impossible to win... that is the best opportunity you can ever have. The greatest ones thrive during the most difficult moments, real men were made in fire and not in flash. When the storm is really heavy and the challenges were overwhelming... that is the best opportunity to thrive. That's the best situation to write your name in history. If it's hard then the prize is bigger, so be happy that it's hard and give your very best because it's an opportunity to experience greatness. So keep pushing and look for ways to execute, find a way how to win, do everything you can, test every possibility. It's impossible because you're not even trying, it's hard because all you do is work a little bit then procrastinate then check for results and if you can't get it then you will get frustrated, that's your cycle that's why it's impossible for you. 

It will become possible if you will take it one step at a time. Enjoy the grind, enjoy the hustle and never give up, that's how winning is done. Nothing is impossible in this world to a persevering man. Everything is achievable if you will take it seriously. So stop acting like it's hard, stop wishing for an easy way, stop wishing that everything is perfect and just start now. Dissect the process, slice it, divide it and do it piece by piece. Erase the word impossible, never believe in it. Because the truth is it's impossible because you are rushing to finish it, you want some quick fix, you want quick solution, you don't want to feel the process bit by bit. Focus is all you need, if you can focus on what you want then you will get it no matter how impossible it may seem. Dedicate your life to it, use all of your energy and tenacity to make it yours. 

I have an auntie that doesn't know any kind of business, all she do is sell and sell and sell. She doesn't mind if the profit is very small, she just do it everyday until she surprised herself that she was already a millionaire. That's the power of focus, it's unstoppable, it's unbreakable, it can go to the finish line no matter how far it is. So whenever the task or challenge in front of you is hard... embrace it, love it because it's the best opportunity. It's your chance to become great, it's your time to shine. So keep pushing, just take it one step at a time and never stop when it's hard... stop when you're done. If you have this kind of mindset then you will become unstoppable, any strong wind can never bend you, the hottest fire can never melt you, you will push forward for as long as you want and it's your decision when you are going to stop, nothing can decide for you.