No matter how you look success in any angle... there is only one way to feel like a winner and that is to take matters into your own hands, to do it your way, to stop procrastinating and simply give your very best... that's how to win in life. Because the truth is... it doesn't matter if you succeed or not, what matters is you give your best. And if you're giving your best you will have no regrets, people feel like a loser because they can't give their best. Look at some NBA players who won a championship, some of them still feel like a loser because they didn't play on court. Some of them were really happy but most of them were just faking happiness, they're pretending that they're a winner in life but deep inside they feel like a loser because they knew they can do something but they can't do anything about it, they wanted to play but something is stopping them. You will feel weak, your confidence will go down if you can't do what you are suppose to do, if you're a player and can't play then you will feel low, if you're a writer but can't write then you will go crazy, just like a bird that has a broken wings... that bird will die anytime soon because he can't fly, that's why most birds who are on the cage were so lonely... it's because they can't do what they are suppose to do.
It's not about the actions, it's not about people liking you, it's not about pleasing other people and trying to look good in front of them, it's about unleashing yourself and doing what is best for your life, it's about utilizing your skills and potentials. So make it a point to be yourself every single day and do what you are suppose to do, never let your energy be stored in your body because it will become weakness, use all of your energy to get what you want or just chase what you want, it doesn't matter if you win or lose, you will still feel like a winner in the end if you give everything you've got, it's not about being perfect or dominant, it's not about winning at all... it's about fighting and giving your chance to win using your own judgement and decision. Because at the end of the day it's your life, you're the only one who can judge your life and not other people, you can still feel like a winner even if other people are calling you a loser, it's not about what they say, it's about how you feel about yourself. You ca still feel really successful even if you're not getting results, and that feeling can only be achieved if you allow yourself to become free chasing your dreams. What people say shouldn't affect you, they are entitled to do that but you are also entitled to stop listening to what they say and do it your way.
Winning is about feeling free, some people who are earning a lot of money still feel like a loser because they were trapped in a corporate world doing jobs that they don't even like. Be yourself and do what you wanted to do, if you're not hurting anyone, if you're not doing illegal things then you're on the right path. So always make sure that you can take actions whenever you want to, always feel free... that is how to become a winner in life. Free yourself from what they say, free yourself from things that are restraining you.
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