Being too flashy, being arrogant and loud means you're trying to impress somebody. Being yourself is the best thing you can do. Because by doing that people will love you more and you will be able to make the right decisions. A lot of people nowadays will do something stupid just to make themselves look superior and interesting. They will buy expensive clothes, post naked in social media, make dramas, will try to become generous even if they don't feel it, and this makes them broke in the end, this kind of attitude makes them lose a lot of money and respect, they were lost, they feel bad if people doesn't respect or appreciate them. Some people wants to get feared, they want to get respected but forcing these things to happen is pushing it away even more.
Just be yourself, so what if you look poor? so what if you don't look great and cool? people will like you more if you're not loud and just simple. Be simple if you are simple, don't try to make yourself something you are not because it's only making your life worse. Because the truth in life is people doesn't like you they will not like you, it's hard to change their opinions, you can please them now, you can impress them now but they will hate you again in the future. You need to just be yourself and never try to change the opinions of people about you. You are looking like a clown even more every time you do things that you really don't like. Being true to yourself will make you more happy. It's a mistake to do something that is outside of your values. Because you are embarrassing yourself even more every time you do things that you feel impressive but are really not impressive.
Because if you are really great then you must be confident about yourself, you don't need to worry about what people say, you don't need to worry if you're on top or at the bottom, you just simply live your life the way it is. There's no pressure at all, there's no attachments from their comments, you are not afraid of getting criticized, you are not afraid if they like you or not, you have a peace of mind that you are ok no matter what. Just feel happy with what you have, be appreciative of what you have and the rest will be taken care of by itself. There is nothing wrong by being yourself, if you're not coo you're not cool so what? do you need to look cool just to stay alive? do you need to look rich and superior just to feel happy? if you need those things then you're weak, your happiness was based on the external things that you cannot control.
All you can control is your mind and actions, be happy if you're doing the right thing and progressing a little bit, be happy if you're not getting something, be happy if they can't appreciate you. Just work hard and focus on your goals, focus on improving everyday because that is where really happiness is coming from.
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