There is no real problem, you created it in your mind, you judge it as a problem that is why it becomes a problem but if you will think of it as another phase in your life that soon will be over then you will no longer be afraid of it anymore. The real problem is your judgement, it's your perception, you think of it as negative rather than thinking of it as something that will help you to get stronger and better. Don't waste your time worrying and overthinking about something that is not within your control, you need to let go of every though that is trying to make your life miserable. This is about thought control, control your thoughts and judgement and you will be able to make more good decisions that will make your life better and clear. You need to stop thinking that something is negative and rather think of it as something that will strengthen your character. Focus on taking it one step at a time, forget all the thoughts that are clouding your judgement. There will be uncertainty anywhere you go, you can never escape it, all you can do is be strong and accept that life is imperfect and will never become perfect no matter how hard you try. The best thing to do is change your perspective and do your best every single day no matter what. Just don't stop doing something positive, focus on the positive side, never do something that will make your life uglier and harder, control your thoughts and never think about the things that you don't like. So stop wasting time focusing on what you can't control and focus only on what you can control which is your thought and actions. If you focus on these things you will have more power and leverage, you will be able to direct your life towards the path that you desire. The reason why you keep on failing is because you're always doing what is not good for you, you're not developing the willpower to focus on what will make you stronger, smarter, richer, faster and tougher. There is something you can do now that will improve you mentally and physically but you always choose to pick the wrong side because it is easier and fun. Stop basing your choices with what is easy and fun, you need to make a decision based on what is profitable and beneficial. This is too easy if you will train yourself to become more disciplined and committed. Starting today... never care about the things that will never give you anything, focus on what will give you more strength, energy, money and health. Get addicted to improvement, get obsessed with growing and improving even if the progress was very slow. It doesn't matter if you are slow or fast, what matters is you don't stop and you're committed to moving forward even if the road is ugly and full of problems. Start focusing on what matters and ignore everything that is holding you back... that is how to build a much better life, you can take actions now, you can decide now that you're going to make your life better by focusing on the real problems what will make you a better person rather than focusing on problems that will only give you stress and headaches.
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