Building confidence is very easy, it's easy as 1 2 3. Just move, just take risk and never make dramas once you didn't get what you want. It's that simple, taking actions is the only way to build confidence. If you're a basketball player and you don't have the confidence to score... just score, try to shoot the ball as many as you can, that is the only thing that will give you confidence, take risks and forget about being scolded by your pussy coach. Remember that the more risks you take, the more confidence you will get. Be closer to what you fear the most, if you want to get confident at something... do it over and over again and you will never feel scared anymore the next time you try it. If the stakes are high... that's the best time you need to take actions, that's the best time you need to do it. You can never become confident if you're always on the safe position. If there is no pressure, embarrassments, humiliation and danger then there is no growth. Once you feel discomfort then that's the time that you must man up and face the danger in front of you. Confidence doesn't come so fast, the procedure is easy but you need to work, you need to train yourself, it's practice, it's repetition.
If you are confident then you can have anything, especially if you're paring it with hard work. Acting confident without work is not confidence, it's arrogance, it's fake, it's cockiness. Take risks, do what you are afraid of and you will feel free, you will feel good. It's a work, you have to understand it, it's a lot of work. If you're not confident now it only means you're not working, it only means you're being lazy and you're not taking risks. You may feel confident now but tomorrow you will become scared again. Always remember that confidence is not there to stay forever, you need to work on it, water it and feed it. It's like a plant, you need to put fertilizers on it so that it will keep growing and growing.
Tell yourself that you're confident, tell yourself that you can do it and then do it. Once you detect the fear in your life... go towards it and eat it like a small carrots. You can become a beast if you will choose to, you're once decision away from becoming the person that you want to be. You need to use your power, use your strength to achieve the life that you want. You're not using all of your strength that's why you can't get the decisions that you want. You have a lot of power in your body,you need to use it every time you need to use it. Don't be shy, show them what you got.
Build your confidence day by day, the more you take actions, the more you ignore hesitation... the more you will become very confident. It's like a game, you level up each day and you never stop until the game is over.
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