Don't say "don't be scared", say "be scared" and move despite of fear. Fear is just an emotion, you will be scared everyday, you will get nervous and anxious especially if you're risking something. You will be scared if you're growing but that's part of live, that's part of your evolution. If you're not scared then you're not doing it right, you're not risking at all. If you want to grow then be scared and move right away, don't be afraid to take risk, don't be afraid to do what is right. Always remember that it's just a feeling, it's not real, you can always manipulate how you feel. Just relax, take it easy, if you feel fear then just slow down a little bit and always be aware of what's running inside of your brain. It is what it is, this is life, life didn't tell you that you will feel good everyday. It only promises you happiness and happiness can be achieved by overcoming fears.
Be scared now, be scared tomorrow, be scared forever but still do what you have to do. If you're running away from fear it means you're refusing to grow, you're refusing to step on a different level. You can run away from fears everyday but you will still feel it again and again so why not feel it now? you will feel it no matter what, even if you act like you're the bravest man in the world, even if you become very successful... you will still feel it. That's how life goes, fear will never leave you. It's up to you how are you going to handle it. The best thing to do is give it a different meaning, give fear a different meaning. Always think that you're becoming a better person every time you face your fears. Every time you face it... your level becomes higher and higher.
Fear is the number one element to success, once you conquered all of it... you will become one of the best, you will have a different level of confidence. All you have to do is feel it and always try to stay relax, never crumble, never panic... jut feel it because it will soon go away. It will give you a different experience, you will learn something, you will become wiser than yesterday.
Facing it will make you mentally tough, it doesn't matter if you're ready or not, just face it and feel it second per second. Never rush, never try to end the pain, feel it and you will learn that it's nothing, it's not bigger than what you think. You will even laugh at it.
Once you're scared now, be scared again tomorrow... try to face your fear again tomorrow, the cycle should never end, there will always be another level of fear and it's your duty to conquer it. You will be amazed at how good you become, you will even praise yourself, you will accept that fear is part of your life and all you have to do is stay calm and feel it. Feel the pressure, absorb the tension.
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