Something is ugly because of your focus, it's what you see, it's where you place your attention. But if you will just look on the good qualities of anything then it's impossible for you so see the ugliness. You're comparing yourself, you're feeling insecure, you're afraid of what people say. If you will never care about what people say then you will never feel ugly at all. You feel insecure because you're always thinking about your flaws, you always wanted to change something. But if you will accept yourself and stop trying to change anything then you will become very powerful and beautiful, you will glow, you will bloom, you will start to see better things in life. In any areas of life, may it be yourself, surrounding, people or problems... it becomes ugly because you're too focused on its ugliness. But if you will see the beautiful side of it then you will feel much better. Everything is just a perception, the way you see things will become your reality. The way you see yourself becomes who you are, you are what you think of yourself. You will never grow if you're always hating on yourself, you will never succeed if you're always trying to compare yourself to others.
Learn to appreciate everything. Appreciate the traffic, problems, disrespectful people, ugly places, defeats, flaws in your face, your weak personalities, hate of people, etc. Learn to appreciate everything, if you can master this then you will become invincible. It's just a matter of trying to thrive in chaos and not letting anything bother you. Life will become very easier if you will not take anything personally. Just live your life and keep moving forward all the time. Focus on appreciation, live in the place of gratitude and you will have a better life. It takes practice, it will take time but it's worth it if you mastered it. Nothing can hurt you, nothing can stop you if you will just appreciate all the ugly things in life, stop focusing on it and stop thinking that it is ugly because it's not, there's a nice side of it, it's trying to teach you something and you will learn a lot from it if you will just think deeply.
Focus on what you want, think about what you want, give your time and energy for the things that really matters. Sometimes you're giving too much attention to something and someone that doesn't matter at all, you're being too sensitive and emotional, you're being too soft. It's time to place your eyes to something that is more meaningful and useful to your life. Stop giving your power to something that you don't like from the start. If you don't like something... don't talk about it, don't think about it, don't even look at it. Think of it as something that doesn't exist. You have to be mindful all the time of what you're thinking and doing and stop wasting your energy for nonsense subjects. If you want to live an easier life... focus on what is meaningful to your heart, stop focusing on subjects that is only making you feel miserable. Your feelings was produce from your thoughts and judgements, if you can just think the right way and avoid being too harsh and judgemental then your life will feel like heaven.
Train yourself to become aware of what you're thinking all the time, stop thinking negatively, stop thinking like a victim and start living like a powerful human being that can't be bothered easily. If you can just master ignoring what you don't want then your life will be very smooth and happier.
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