The best revenge is not to become successful and letting them know that they made a mistake for hurting you. The best revenge is to never give them your time. If you can just have peace with yourself if you can't have peace with them then you will feel much better. They say that you must become big so the people that hurt you in the past will respect you, that is wrong, what if you can't become big? what if your goal will take a lot of years to accomplish? you are only hurting yourself even more if you have a mindset like that because you only wanted to become great not for yourself but for them, your life will still revolve around them. The best revenge is to forget them and never give them some time. Never think about them, never talk about them, stop making them feel that you're still attached to them. Let them go, completely ignore them and treat them like dead.
Because every time you think about them, every time you hate them... you are burning yourself, you are the one who is getting hurt. And even if you become successful and they ignore you, you will still never feel accomplish. They will never respect you no matter how big you become. The best revenge is to ignore them and never think about them for once, as simple as that. Just live your life and forget about what happened in the past. If you come across the person that you hate then treat him like a ghost, never look at him, never talk to him, just live your life the way you wanted to live it. At the end of the day you are the one who is hurting yourself because of thinking about them, why not just think about your own life instead?
It's all in the mind, you are hurting because you keep on thinking about them. If you will just think about some other thoughts that will make you feel happier then you will become happier and will never think about having a revenge anymore. Those people will never say sorry to you, they will never respect you and you need to accept it. Forget the past if you want to have a more peaceful life, be simpler and stop looking for validation and respect. Work on yourself, get better everyday not because you want them to fear you but because you are doing it for yourself. Give more time for yourself, if you are forcing yourself to get better so that they will get envy of you then you are not working for yourself, you are working for them and in the end you will still fail because you will never get the attention or treatment you think you deserve.
Focus on what you can control and that is your thoughts emotions. Focus on taming your thoughts and you will have a better life, you will feel much better. Focus on what you want, revenge is not what you really want because it's about people who hurt you in the past. You can never progress and move forward if you're always thinking about the past, you don't need to force them to believe in you. Never care if they are happy because you are failing, never care about what they think of you, just feel free, if you can detach yourself from what hurts you then you are powerful, nothing can harm you again.
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