So what if they love you or not? it will never contribute to your improvement. It's just words, appreciation, critics, harsh comments, likes. It will never make you better or worse. The real power is in your ability to work hard and stay committed. What people say is none of your business, you just need to keep moving forward all the time whether they like or dislike you. Social media is poisoning a lot of people's minds, it's making them believe that you need to become famous or likeable in order to become happy. Your happiness should not based on people's comments and appreciation. Your head will only grow bigger every time they give love to you. You have to watch yourself, never let your guard down. Just keep going even if you are being hated or loved. At the end of the day what matters is taking actions and nothing else. No matter how much they love you, you will never succeed if you're not taking actions. And even if they hate you, you will still become successful if you're giving everything you've got.
Choose pulling the trigger not hearing what they say, choose to take actions no matter what and stop getting interested with what people say. Real power is within, stop looking for validation to make you feel better, stop looking for appreciation to feel confident. You don't need any fake claps just to feel superior. You can feel good by simply being you and working hard as much as you can. The best way to become confident is to work as hard as you can and chase your goals without any connection from anyone. Detach yourself from what people say, forget the love or hate and just do what you need to do, as simple as that. Because wanting their likes and approval is a fake happiness, you will be happy for a while but you will feel bad later especially if they're not giving you any attention anymore. Just focus on becoming the best version of yourself, focus on creating the better habits, reprogram your mind for success and there you go, you don't need anything else.
Most people will only feel good and appreciated if they are being appreciated. They will feel sad if there is nobody kissing their ass, this is a very weak mentality. Time will come and you will feel unappreciated, you will feel alone and you must be ready for it. You must still feel strong being alone with no ally. You must still feel blessed even if you're not getting any attention or help, having this kind of mentality will make you powerful. Whether they like you or not, just keep going because you can never control how people feel about you. The only thing you can control is your thoughts and emotions. Never feel needy of their attention, never try to make yourself good all the time just to please them. Be good because you want to be good, never do something just for the sake of impressing people because you will be controlled by them.
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