May 2, 2020

HOW TO CREATE A WINNING MENTALITY

A winning mentality is more than just winning, it's a little bit deeper. Because in life, you can never win all the time, let's face the reality... it's not Christmas everyday, the odds will not favor you everyday, success will not always be on your side. But what will happen to you if you always lose? how are you going to react if you can't control the situation or the outcome of your journey? what if your campaign for success didn't end up as nice as you are expecting? this is when the real winning mentality will be tested. If you have the right winning mentality then you will try again and again until you succeed. The real winning mentality is how you come back from a large deficit, it's how you carry yourself every time you taste defeat, it's how you manage to come back stronger after getting hit by a strong blow. Because some people think they are winning but the truth is they didn't even work for it, they just ride or join a strong person and act like they work hard too.

To create a winning mentality, you must persevere, you must take risk and take matters into your own hands. You must sacrifice and give everything you've got to win. If you're just watching and dreaming or cheering then you're not a winner, you're just a crony. You have to do it your way, you have to push yourself to the limits and test your willpower. If your character was not being tested then you don't have the winning mentality. So always push yourself, you need to be taking actions, you need to try and do it your way. Not giving up and trying over and over again is one trait of a person who has a winning mentality. Whenever it is difficult... don't think that it's too difficult and just try again, persist, be patient and just take it one step at a time. You have what it takes to create a winning mentality, again it's not about winning all the time, it's about putting yourself on a challenge, it's about not being sure that you're going to win but you're still giving yourself a chance to succeed, you are using all of your skills and experience to get the job done.

So never give up, don't get stunned when there is a big challenge in front of you, never get overwhelmed of big obstacles, it's normal. That is how greatness is being done... you will do something that is hard, you will overcome an adversity that looks so impossible to overcome. A winning mentality is all about endurance and tenacity, it's about willing to face the pain and willing to embrace the bitterness of failure. So whenever you feel like quitting... try again for one more time. Make yourself useful, don't just watch your life pass, don't just let other people do it for you, never ride on someone's back and do the winning for you, win for yourself, it doesn't matter if you fail or succeed... what matters is you do it your way and you fight until the end. 

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