Was it really bad? did it affect your health? did it kill you? if you were still able to witness what happened then it means you're still alive, you'e still lucky, you can still replace what's gone, you can still make a comeback or experience a better thing. It is not bad luck, it is part of your life, challenges will come, you will be tested, your mental toughness will be questioned... that's part of this thing called life, it's a circus show, it's like a box of chocolate you never know what you might get. You may get a sweet chocolate, an expired chocolate or maybe just a melted chocolate. But it is what it is, you have to take what was given to you and be happy with it, if you can't be happy then just accept it. Just take it, don't be afraid of it, think of it as a blessing and just deal with it. Don't curse it nor think that the world is unfair, we knew it from the very beginning... life is full of randomness and you will wonder why something bad happens to you, you've been such a good boy, you didn't kill anybody, you're go to church every sunday but still some crap happens. Stop questioning everything and just deal with what is in front of you, feel happy because you're still alive and you still have a chance to make something great in your life. Feel grateful because you're still alive and kicking, there are plenty of time, days and years where you can still experience a better event, just deal with what is in front of you right now and try to make your life a little bit better than yesterday.
You can whine about it, you can complain and blame people or you can just laugh at it and move on. The choice is your, it's you that is inflicting the suffering in your life and nobody else. You have to choice to move forward or you have a choice to quit and cry in the corner, you're already old enough to know what is the right thing for you. Just focus on one day at a time, focus on one second at a time and just live your life. You can make it better or you can make it worse, the power is always in your hands. Of course it's harder to make it better, it's easier to make it worse, but just like what I said... you know what to do with your life, you know what is right, you know what will give you something better, it's all up to you if you will execute or not.
Just laugh at it and it will have no power over you. If something cannot make you feel something then it has no power over you. If a challenge can never make you emotional then it's not a challenge anymore, it's just another situation that you can get over with.
You can whine about it, you can complain and blame people or you can just laugh at it and move on. The choice is your, it's you that is inflicting the suffering in your life and nobody else. You have to choice to move forward or you have a choice to quit and cry in the corner, you're already old enough to know what is the right thing for you. Just focus on one day at a time, focus on one second at a time and just live your life. You can make it better or you can make it worse, the power is always in your hands. Of course it's harder to make it better, it's easier to make it worse, but just like what I said... you know what to do with your life, you know what is right, you know what will give you something better, it's all up to you if you will execute or not.
Just laugh at it and it will have no power over you. If something cannot make you feel something then it has no power over you. If a challenge can never make you emotional then it's not a challenge anymore, it's just another situation that you can get over with.
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