It's not about being savage, it's not about killing people, it's not about bullying the weak... it's about knowing who you are and pushing yourself a little bit to become better. Because anybody can bully another people, anybody can look like a savage or assassin, anybody can act like an animal. But the most difficult thing to do is improve yourself and push yourself to the limits to reach your goals. There are some people who can punch a random stranger on the street but couldn't even take care of his own children, he couldn't even look for a job and feed his hungry family, why is that? because most people are afraid to do what they hate. People just wanted to look cool, flashy, rich and popular. They don't want to do what a real man does and that is to reach his full potential and take care of the business properly.
You don't need to compare your fearlessness with others, you don't need to be like them. You can just stay still while there is chaos happening, and that is fearlessness already. Some people wants to fight weaker or smaller people than them but when chaos and adversity hits their lives... they're panicking, they're hiding like a rat inside of their caves. Being fearless simply means being yourself, it's doing the right thing, staying calm and keep your state of mind right. You don't need to speak vulgar words, you don't need to be loud to become fearless, just knowing the right thing to do in any kind of situation is being fearless, know the cards you are holding and use it to make your life or situation better.
Enduring something you can't control is fearlessness. If your coach is benching you, don't complain, don's speak, don't react, just be happy with your situation and have a revenge when you have an opportunity, take shots when you're inside the court, express yourself, give your best and take risks... that is fearlessness. Waiting for the right timing, waiting like a spider, devouring the opportunity but not complaining neither focusing on the things you can't control. You can never manipulate other people'd decision especially when they have the power, all you can do is take what is given to you. And when you have a bigger opportunity... don't let it slip away, give your best, exhaust yourself and never give up, push yourself and show them what you got. Stop making dramas if what you want or need was not given to you, stop blaming people. Just focus on getting better, focus on building the right mental attitude. Because in life, it's not about winning all the time. A person who wins all the time will lose one day, he will become weak one day or maybe everything he have will be taken away from him, the question is how would he feel when that time comes? If you can just endure losing everyday, if you can just be happy with what you have then that is fearlessness. Again, don't train your mind to accept that it's all you can do, time will come and you will be given a break and you must be ready for it.
You don't need to compare your fearlessness with others, you don't need to be like them. You can just stay still while there is chaos happening, and that is fearlessness already. Some people wants to fight weaker or smaller people than them but when chaos and adversity hits their lives... they're panicking, they're hiding like a rat inside of their caves. Being fearless simply means being yourself, it's doing the right thing, staying calm and keep your state of mind right. You don't need to speak vulgar words, you don't need to be loud to become fearless, just knowing the right thing to do in any kind of situation is being fearless, know the cards you are holding and use it to make your life or situation better.
Enduring something you can't control is fearlessness. If your coach is benching you, don't complain, don's speak, don't react, just be happy with your situation and have a revenge when you have an opportunity, take shots when you're inside the court, express yourself, give your best and take risks... that is fearlessness. Waiting for the right timing, waiting like a spider, devouring the opportunity but not complaining neither focusing on the things you can't control. You can never manipulate other people'd decision especially when they have the power, all you can do is take what is given to you. And when you have a bigger opportunity... don't let it slip away, give your best, exhaust yourself and never give up, push yourself and show them what you got. Stop making dramas if what you want or need was not given to you, stop blaming people. Just focus on getting better, focus on building the right mental attitude. Because in life, it's not about winning all the time. A person who wins all the time will lose one day, he will become weak one day or maybe everything he have will be taken away from him, the question is how would he feel when that time comes? If you can just endure losing everyday, if you can just be happy with what you have then that is fearlessness. Again, don't train your mind to accept that it's all you can do, time will come and you will be given a break and you must be ready for it.
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