THE DANGER OF WANTING IT SO BADLY

Sometimes you have to get something in a relaxed manner because wanting it so badly is reminding you the lack of it. And in order to get something you must believe that it's already yours. You must believe that it already happened before it happen. Wanting it so badly is making you jealous of other people who has it, sometimes you are so worried why it is not happening yet and you're not working anymore to get it. It's true that you have to want it so bad but you need to focus and feel confident all the time. Because sometimes you think that you're working too much already and exhausting yourself and still nothing good is happening. You have to want it so bad but you need to be patient and stop rushing the process.

Let it go when it's too heavy and then go back to it again. If it's too painful and not healthy anymore then stop thinking about it, detach from it for a while and then go back to it again when you think your mind is already on the right frame. Because forcing too much is not giving you results, you're going into an auto pilot mode and you're not controlling your emotions and thoughts anymore, you just want to push and push and push and nothing right is happening anymore.

Never think that it's the only thing that will make you happy, the moment you make it as your mindset... you will never going to make it. It's because you're putting a lot of pressure on your shoulders, and if you're too much pressured then you will never be able to perform well. That's why a lot of gamblers can't become rich with that hobby... they were scared to lose, they were pressured, they're not playing for fun anymore, they're playing not to lose and they can't enjoy the game anymore. You will only become successful if you can enjoy the process no matter how hard it is. So always watch yourself if you're already so mad about it, you don't have to burn yourself out to convince yourself that you really work hard for it.