Everyone of us are scared, fear is bugging us everyday, no matter how much you deny it... fear will visit your life every now and then. It's normal, that's life. If you can admit that you're scared then you will be able to manage that fear, you will be able to control it. A lot of people can't admit that they were scared that's why they're having trouble in dealing with their fears.
Because at the end of the day... we all get scared, everyone will experience fear, what's wrong with admitting it? it only means you're a human, it only means you're normal. A person who isn't scared isn't normal at all, that person has a mental issues.
Admit that you're scared and stay calm, stay still, breathe and think clearly, think about what you need to do. If you can't think of any action then don't take any action, stay calm until you figure out the next move to make.
There will be times when you will be stunned, there will be times when life will surprise you and you don't know what to do, there will be times when you will doubt yourself and you wanted to quit. But that's ok, it's so ok. Admit that you're scared, admit it to yourself and do something about it, don't just let fear paralyze you, you need to take actions and make the best for your life. If you know that you are scared and you admit it... you can become free, embracing fear is freedom.
People who can admit that they are scared are even braver, they are not ashamed to admit their feelings. If you're not shy to admit you're emotions then it means you're a tough person.
Being scared is part of your life so don't feel bad about it, embrace it and just try to process the emotion, try to give it another meaning, treat it as something small and something that cannot even hurt you at all. If it can't kill you then don't be afraid to embrace it.
Some people who are trying to look brave are scared even more. They are faking, they want to look they're not intimidated at all but deep inside they were so scared to death. At some point their style will work but in the long run it will go against them. The best thing to do is to admit your fears and try to think what is the best thing to do about it.
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